You Are Not Small
You Are Not Small book cover

You Are Not Small

Hardcover – Picture Book, August 5, 2014

Price
$9.39
Format
Hardcover
Pages
32
Publisher
Two Lions
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1477847725
Dimensions
9 x 1 x 11 inches
Weight
1.05 pounds

Description

A Look Inside You Are (Not) Small Click to enlarge Click to enlarge Click to enlarge From Publishers Weekly Like Rosenthal and Lichtenheld’s Duck! Rabbit!, the debuting husband-and-wife team of Kang and Weyant uses the picture book form for a sophisticated philosophical debate. Weyant, a New Yorker cartoonist, draws two pudgy bearish creatures with bean-like noses—clearly the same species, but different in scale (and in color, it should be noted, though it never comes up). “You are small,” says the larger one, pointing an accusatory paw. “I am not small. You are big,” replies the smaller one, pointing back. “I am not big,” says the larger one, paw to his chest. “See?” A page turn reveals a whole gang of larger creatures just his size. “They are just like me!”...With these revelations, the creatures hone their analysis...Start a discussion on the difficulty of establishing standards—or else just read it and giggle. From School Library Journal K-Gr 2—In this endearing story, two bears argue about perspective. Each is convinced that the other is big or small in comparison to him and his friends ("I am not small. You are big."; "I am not big. See?"). Each group argues, until two other creatures (one even bigger and one even smaller) come along and shows them that they can be both big and small at the same time. The punch line at the end will have audiences laughing. This is a funny book with a good-hearted lesson to which children will easily relate. The illustrations complement the text nicely; the characters are expressive and likeable. The use of white space and large text make this a perfect book for reading aloud or for a shared lap read.—Jasmine L. Precopio, Fox Chapel Area School District, Pittsburgh, PA From Kirkus Reviews Fuzzy, bearlike creatures of different sizes relate to one another in an amusing story that explores the relative nature of size. A small purple creature meets a similarly shaped but much larger orange critter. The purple creature maintains that the orange creature is “big”; the orange one counters by calling the purple one “small.”...Eventually, these brightly colored animals learn to see things in a different way...The story is told effectively with just a few words per page, though younger readers might need help understanding the size and perspective concepts. Cartoon-style illustrations in ink and watercolor use simple shapes with heavy black outlines set off by lots of white space, with an oversized format and large typeface adding to the spare but polished design. While the story itself seems simple, the concepts are pertinent to several important social issues such as bullying and racism, as well as understanding point of view. Charming characters, a clever plot and a quiet message tucked inside a humorous tale. “Kang and Weyant bolster the accessibility of their tidy metaphor by creating sweet-looking, relatable creatures and placing them in an environment with no distinguishing features; children will have no trouble seeing themselves in the situation―and the solution.” ― Booklist “This playful take on perspective details a confrontation between two bears . . . Husband and wife team Kang and Weyant nail the concept and provide humor along the way. The story’s structure makes it an entertaining readaloud, and the dialogue between the two bears authentically captures child logic.” ― The Bulletin of the Center for Children’s Books “What some parents may use as a lesson in relativity others will embrace as an encouragement to good-humored humility.” ― Wall Street Journal “[A] funny book with a good-hearted lesson.” ― School Library Journal “This picture book would be very useful to teach perspective and point-of view to young readers and touches on conflict resolution. The large font and use of white space, along with simple yet very effective illustrations, will make this book very popular as a read-aloud and for independent reading.” ― Library Media Connection “Snuggly, fun picture book about sizing the world up.” ― Common Sense Media “Small. Big. Kang’s experimentation with those words (and Weyant’s visual play) is what makes this one sing for big readers and small ones.” ― This Picture Book Life “Size matters. Or does it? And aren’t things like “big” and “small” relative concepts anyway? You bet they are, as husband-and-wife author-illustrator team Anna Kang and Christopher Weyant make clear in their debut children’s book, the spare and thought-provoking You Are (Not) Small. A furry, purple bear-like creature refuses to accept the “small” label give to him by a larger, orange creature. “I am not small. You are big,” he tells him. The orange creature calls over his similarly sized friends and declares that he’s not big, compared to them. “ You are small,” the orange creature reiterates...It’s Relativism 101 for children, and it works. Very young children firmly entrenched in the ego stage of psychological development need a story this elemental and uncluttered to drive home the notion that “it’s true for me” doesn’t make something true for everyone. Kang and Weyant pull this off without belaboring the point, and Weyant’s loose and cheerful cartoon illustrations, rendered in ink and watercolors, make it all accessible and much fun. His palette is soft and warm, and his bulbous-nosed creatures, outlined in a thick black line, are endearing. The sunny yellow endpapers are an indication that the low-key strife within the pages of the book will resolve itself quickly. It’s big fun.” ― BookPage , Julie Danielson Husband-and-wife team Anna Kang and Christopher Weyant live in New Jersey with their two daughters. You Are (Not) Small is their first children’s book. They are working on a sequel. Anna, a native New Yorker, grew up believing she was small until one day she realized that everyone else was big. She received an M.F.A. from University of Southern California’s School of Cinematic Arts, where the visual storyteller in her was awakened, forever changing the way she saw art, life, and everything in between. Besides writing, Anna loves to read, travel, laugh, eat, and nap. A cartoonist and illustrator, Christopher’s cartoons can regularly be seen in The New Yorker magazine. His cartoons are syndicated worldwide and have been featured on The Today Show , Meet the Press , and World News with Diane Sawyer . Christopher likes to think that he is both big and small. Visit him at www.christopherweyant.com. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • Winner of the 2015 Theodor Seuss Geisel Award
  • Two fuzzy creatures can’t agree on who is small and who is big, until a couple of surprise guests show up, settling it once and for all!
  • The simple text of Anna Kang and bold illustrations of
  • New Yorker
  • cartoonist Christopher Weyant tell an original and very funny story about size―it all depends on who’s standing next to you.

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Helping Kids Size Themselves Up

To a child, size matters. Much emphasis is placed on being “big.” How often have you heard a child boast, “I not a baby! I a big girl (or boy)!” Children love to place their hands and feet beside a parent’s limbs and assert that they are almost as big as Mom or Dad. What I love about You Are (Not)Small by Anna Kang is that it taps into this touch point of childhood. With delightful illustrations by Christopher Weyant, it deftly and humorously, highlights that size is relative. The story follows a conversation between an ostensibly small character with a visibly larger one. The tiny one resists the label that the large character applies to him. The little one responds by turning the statement around: “I am not small. You are big.”

Which is true? Like so much in life, neither is absolutely true; each is relatively true. Compared to one creature, the main character is tiny. But, compared with a different one, he is huge. Thus, both statements are true. He is both little and big!

This is an important lesson for children to learn: comparisons depend on the metric being used. Like statistics, they can tell a different story depending on what is emphasized and what is ignored. They do not change; only the measuring scale differs. Labels can hide as much as they highlight and divide as much as unite.

This story can be used to help children see how comparisons can lead to feelings about themselves that are based on illusion. Parents can discuss what things about a child are consistently true. The story opens conversation about bullying as well. As a writer who focuses on adoption issues, I know adopted children are often told that their families or parents are not real. This book provides an easy way to address that question. Just as the characters are both big and small, families can be both adopted and real, just like birth families! Enjoy this book for its story, sense of humor and colorful illustrations. This is a book children will want to read again and again. Gayle H. Swift, "ABC, Adoption & Me: A Multicultural Picture Book"
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Wonderful drawings and possibly a helpful moral

Since I assume that parents or other adults are the ones who will read this review and that the target audience will not, I will give away the entire plot. So spoilers lie ahead for those who care to avoid them.

Two furry creatures have a debate. The big one says that the little one is small, and the small one says that the big one is big. Each produces more of its kind to bolster its claim that it is normal and the other is different. Then a huge foot plops down between them and a really small creature parachutes down. At this point, the original pair realizes that the debate was silly and agree that they are both both small and large. (There's one more page that I haven't included here.)

The illustrations are lots of fun and will, I think, appeal to young children as cute and non-threatening. As a general rule, I look for a moral in a story, and this one's seems to be directed at children who have issues about being small. I've never encountered that issue, so I don't know how relevant the book is to others. However, the book is really about otherness or difference, and on that level, it might be helpful for parents whose children are dealing with such issues.

Then again, the drawings are so cute that the book's just fun too, moral or no.
45 people found this helpful
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Cute, great illustration

Cute, great illustration, simple words. My daughter loves the bears of all sizes and it was easy to use this book to teach her that size doesn’t matter especially when she is one of the smallest in her daycare. It is a simple book with few words so Toddlers do grow out of it pretty quickly.
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Cute characters. Good message.

I am tall and have always been tall; I never really had a growth spurt that pushed me ahead of my peers. And my son is already tracking to be big. Or not big, but big and small as the book would remind us. So the story line is one that I find important. I hope that my son is never teased for his size and I certainly hope he never teases another for any reason. I like that this book says that our differences are relative and when others are compared, our differences can become similarities.

So I love the concept, but I feel that there are two flaws in execution.
1. Halfway through the book the characters shout at each other, which is difficult to read aloud to your child.
2. At the end of the book one character takes one last "shot" at another. I believe that it is meant to be cute and probably was added to entertain the parents and not the children, but it seems to undo the good feelings of the rest of the book.

I simply omit these two parts when I read the book, but that will be harder to do as he gets older. I would rather they weren't included.
6 people found this helpful
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Cute characters. Good message.

I am tall and have always been tall; I never really had a growth spurt that pushed me ahead of my peers. And my son is already tracking to be big. Or not big, but big and small as the book would remind us. So the story line is one that I find important. I hope that my son is never teased for his size and I certainly hope he never teases another for any reason. I like that this book says that our differences are relative and when others are compared, our differences can become similarities.

So I love the concept, but I feel that there are two flaws in execution.
1. Halfway through the book the characters shout at each other, which is difficult to read aloud to your child.
2. At the end of the book one character takes one last "shot" at another. I believe that it is meant to be cute and probably was added to entertain the parents and not the children, but it seems to undo the good feelings of the rest of the book.

I simply omit these two parts when I read the book, but that will be harder to do as he gets older. I would rather they weren't included.
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My son doesn't like this book

I am not a fan of this book. The day it arrived I read it to by son and now he doesn't want me to read it anymore. It has been sitting on the bookshelf for months. He never grabs it and if I get it out to read he throws it. It's a waste of money.
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Love this book!

This book not only has a great lesson about perspective and debate, is also hilarious! The story shows the reader there are many ways of looking at something. Just because something is small to you doesn’t mean it is small. It isn’t preachy at – all just fun! The story is completely dialogue, but still gives a full feeling, even with only around 90 words in the whole book! The illustrations are simple, but are great to look at (and the fuzzy bear-like creatures are really cute!
The story points out that we really have to think about how we see things (or people (or fuzzy bear things)). The ending is awesome because it involves getting a snack after settling an argument. :) This is a great book!
*NOTE* I got a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review
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short but sweet.

Love this book. Super cute illustrations with an important message. My 2-year old can't get enough of it, although he's too young to get the message.
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Great story

Cute story, as my 8 month old Granddaughter loves the illustrations (and being on Nana's lap while reading) Cute story
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the book jacket was extremely dirty and scuffed so I decided to return it for ...

This book is very cute. When I received it, the book jacket was extremely dirty and scuffed so I decided to return it for a refund, and the seller gave me a full refund without having to send it back.
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