Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life
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Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life

Hardcover – January 25, 2005

Price
$11.50
Format
Hardcover
Pages
240
Publisher
Crown
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1400080458
Dimensions
6 x 0.75 x 8.5 inches
Weight
14.4 ounces

Description

"I have not survived against all odds. I have not lived to tell. I have not witnessed the extraordinary. This is my story." Amy Krouse Rosenthal, one-time Might magazine columnist and self-confessed hater of the segue has written a snappy, random, remarkable memoir--the first of its kind to give readers an honest flaws-n-all perspective of what it's like to be...ordinary. Initially inspired by the "bizarre, haphazard arrangement" of The Pillow Book of Sei Shonagon , Rosenthal has collected a lifetime of thoughts, observations, and decisions, and created an alphabetized personal encyclopedia, complete with cross-referenced entries and illustrations. Rosenthal reveals the minutiae of her life, from pumping gas ("Every. Single. Solitary. Time I go to get gas I have to lean out the window to see which side the tank is on"), to witnessing her son's accident ("I saw with front-row-seat clarity, just how quickly, randomly, and mercilessly your child can be taken away"), and in turns both playful and poignant, engages the reader in effortless and stimulating conversation. Whether you are laughing aloud or nodding along, reading Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life is like being introduced to a new friend--one that you automatically connect with and feel compelled to share. Fans of Dave Eggers, David Sedaris, and shows like Arrested Development and Scrubs will appreciate Rosenthal's quirky, conversational humor and dead-on observations. Writers will see the book as a contemporary portrait of the fledgling artist, and should enjoy her aptly named, "Evolution of this Moment"--a timeline tracking her growth as a writer from her first word ("more") to publication of her fourth book. Modesty prevents Rosenthal from acknowledging herself as anything other than ordinary--that, and the fact that she has not "survived against all odds"--but that certainly does not mean she has nothing to say, or to share. Her delightful memoir is a reminder that life is not always an adventure, but it can be full of sad, silly, and important moments that make it worth living. Witness the generosity of an author who is willing to reveal so much of herself, not just as a writer, but also as a person--share this delightfully quirky, utterly enjoyable book with family and friends with a note, "Here is someone I think you should meet." --Daphne Durham Amazon.com Exclusive Content The Lost and Found Project Between January 25th and February 1st, hundreds of copies of Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life were intentionally left in random places (taxis, public bathrooms, laundromats) in Chicago, New York, and San Francisco. Each book was inscribed with a note from the author, and the finder was encouraged to report back to Rosenthal's website (www.encyclopediaofanordinarylife.com) when and where the book was discovered. Watch the "Lost and Found" video directed by filmmaker Steve Delahoyde, documenting Rosenthal's test run and featuring her theme song, "This is My Story." Listen to the theme song written by Tony Rogers. Ordinary Life from A to Z How do you interview a smart, creative, clever author like Amy Krouse Rosenthal? You agree to let her start with the questions, and hang on for the ride. Find out more about Amy and sneak a peek behind-the-scenes at Amazon.com with this decidedly ordinary email correspondence between Ms. Rosenthal and senior editor Daphne Durham. Read our unusual interview with author Amy Krouse Rosenthal. Extra Ordinary Excerpts A B G I W From Publishers Weekly Rosenthal likes lists: of low points in her life, codes that people memorize, sounds that seem loud though they're actually quiet. She loves inadvertently mysterious signs, like this public restroom gem: " PLEASE DO NOT FLUSH EXCESSIVE AMOUNTS OF TOILET PAPER OR SHOES DOWN THE TOILET. THANK YOU." She's collected some wonderful words like "flahoolick"(meaning generous and expansive) and "wabi-sabi" (which seamlessly fuses two moods), as well as some pairs of oddly similar words like applause and applesauce. But what to do with all this trivia? Why, frame it all around some lists of childhood memories and career milestones, alphabetize it and—voilà—she's assembled something like a memoir. Rosenthal warns readers that her life has not been extraordinary in the least—she hasn't "survived against all odds," recovered from any addictions or been a genius, misunderstood or otherwise. Not only does she consider her life "ordinary" (actually, she's worked for ad agencies, written a few books and worked for several public radio stations), but her preoccupations are with the entirely mundane: breaking appliances, leaving messages on answering machines, loading dishwashers, loving Q-tips. Browse this "encyclopedia" in any bookstore, and it looks too cute to resist, especially with its coy, reference book–type illustrations. Whether it remains endearing once it's home depends on how fascinating people find someone else's somewhat ordinary life. Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. From Booklist Who would challenge a Chicago parking ticket on grounds of karma (and succeed)? Or have a professional police artist draw sketches of her based on descriptions from her father and husband? Professed "ordinary" person Amy Krouse Rosenthal, that's who, and in this immensely readable and frequently hilarious encyclopedia-cum-memoir, Rosenthal alphabetically explores her life as a woman who has not "survived against all odds." With vignettes, lists, charts, and much more, we're introduced to a woman who grew up in a happy family, got married, and had kids. Rosenthal documents with considerable wit experiences we all have but never think twice about (how hard it is to load someone else's dishwasher, for instance). But what's most delightful is that there's a real story here--readers will find themselves connecting the dots through the entries, slowly uncovering more and more about Amy's life. And as she moves away from "Amy" and toward the final entry, "You," readers are likely to learn something about themselves as well--like how much there is to celebrate in their own ordinary lives. Leon Wagner Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved “Entries are consistently amusing, revelatory, poetic, or strike that “That’s exactly how I see/experience it!” synapse in the brain…A+.” — The Plain Dealer (Cleveland)“[Rosenthal] shines her generous light of humanity on the seemingly humdrum moments of life and shows how delightfully precious they actually are…a marvelous memoir.” — The Chicago Sun-Times “Encyclopedia has miles of pillow book charm…Rosenthal’s humor is generous and endearingly scattershot.” — The Village Voice “Reading it, you get the feeling that not only would you like Amy to be your best friend because she’s so thoughtful a nd endearing but because the most ordinary of moments do not escape her own unique sense of profundity.” —The Detroit News “The perfect postmodern memoir, collecting the bits and pieces of a so-called average life and filing them into a clever narrative that reveals “ordinary” is anything but.” — Sun-Sentinel (South Florida) From the Trade Paperback edition. From the Inside Flap How do you conjure a life? Give the truest account of what you saw, felt, learned, loved, strived for? For Amy Krouse Rosenthal, the surprising answer came in the form of an encyclopedia. In Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life she has ingeniously adapted this centuries-old format for conveying knowledge into a poignant, wise, often funny, fully realized memoir. Using mostly short entries organized from A to Z, many of which are cross-referenced, Rosenthal captures in wonderful and episodic detail the moments, observations, and emotions that comprise a contemporary life. Start anywhere—preferably at the beginning—and see how one young woman’s alphabetized existence can open up and define the world in new and unexpected ways.An ordinary life, perhaps, but an extraordinary book.Visit www.encyclopediaofanordinarylife.com Amy Krouse Rosenthal is, alphabetically, an author of adult and children’s books; contributor to magazines and NPR; host of the literary and music variety show Writers’ Block Party ; and mother of some kids. She lives in Chicago. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • How do you conjure a life? Give the truest account of what you saw, felt, learned, loved, strived for? For Amy Krouse Rosenthal, the surprising answer came in the form of an encyclopedia. In Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life she has ingeniously adapted this centuries-old format for conveying knowledge into a poignant, wise, often funny, fully realized memoir. Using mostly short entries organized from A to Z, many of which are cross-referenced, Rosenthal captures in wonderful and episodic detail the moments, observations, and emotions that comprise a contemporary life. Start anywhere—preferably at the beginning—and see how one young woman’s alphabetized existence can open up and define the world in new and unexpected ways.An ordinary life, perhaps, but an extraordinary book.

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Extraordinary Idea

Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life is an extraordinary idea, which is amusing, perfectly executed, and well-written. It is exactly what the title says: an encyclopedia (A to Z) of the author's life. Entries are not comprehensive, of course, and are purely the author's choosing, encompassing things such as her husband, how she feels about her name, and her observations and feelings about birthdays.

The book reads like an encyclopedia that is slightly non-sensical, as the entries sometimes offer definitions, sometimes offer childhood memories, and sometimes offer observations or ideas. It is illustrated here and there with photos from the author's life, drawings by an encyclopedia illustrator, and other bits and pieces. Although some of the entries are not as engaging or interesting as the rest, overall, the book offers a no-frills, unique look at an ordinary person living an ordinary life. Of course Amy is extraordinary in her own way - she would have to be to write a book like this and for a book like this to be interesting. Her ideas are fun and funny, and I'm sure that many readers will try them out (such as leaving envelopes with change for strangers to find). She is also insightful, and one of the more fascinating aspects of the book is the juxtaposition that occurs between Amy's life and experiences and the reader's own. With a life mapped out in the manner of an encyclopedia, it is easy to draw such comparisons. I can't say that this is a book I'd read over and over again, but it is definitely one I will keep and one I will pass around among my family and friends.
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Not of interest to everyone

Some people will find this book howlingly funny- and perhaps there is a kinship amongst those who do. However, there are some of us who find it less than funny, and annoying in a sort of cutesy sort of way. Perhaps this website has more of an interest in this book than other books. Some have noticed that for some reason, every negative review of this book has disappeared from this website after about one day. That's not very ordinary.
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Only A Teeny Tiny Bit Clever

I wouldn't really consider this a book...it's a collection of random thoughts and observations, the better ones realistic and relate-able, the majority just filler to complete a BOOK. Ultimately, it's incredibly self-indulgent. If you have no attention span whatsoever, and like to read "books" that you'll forget the second you're done with them, then this book is for you.
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WANTED to like it...

I'd heard about EoaOL during a recent book club discussion, and it sounded like my cuppa tea -- positive, uplifting, something I'd enjoy. And, at first, it was. I liked the author's lighthearted observations and appreciation of life's simple pleasures. Then, it was like, ENOUGH ALREADY!!! What was initially cute and quirky soon became really boring and trite. I understand that the book's about an "ordinary" life, so maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree here??? Either way, I found myself hoping that, at some point, there'd be more substance, more take-away, more "this is what I learned" blah blah blah... but, unfortunately, no dice.
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There's nothing 'ordinary' about Amy Krouse Rosenthal

It would be so easy to hate Amy Krouse Rosenthal.

Amy Krouse Rosenthal has written a raft of books about parenting. They have titles like "The Same Phrase Describes My Marriage and My Breasts...Before the kids, they used to be a cute couple."

Amy Krouse Rosenthal has created sound files of her children. Like: kids slurping breakfast cereal.

Amy Krouse Rosenthal once had a column called "15 Megabytes of Fame."

Amy Krouse Rosenthal, asked what it's like to have three --- three! --- kids, responded thus: "It's just love to the third power."

Amy Krouse Rosenthal's idea of five words that sound great: "They lived happily ever after."

Amy Krouse Rosenthal asks herself questions like: "Are Christo's gifts amazingly wrapped?"

Cute. Terminally cute, in that charming (but really, when you think about it: annoying), suburban, privileged, NPR way. You know, like she just happens to write down the cute things her children say and her mind serves up, and then --- surprise! --- a magazine calls and pries her notes from her reluctant fingers.

I'm not buying it. I say Amy Krouse Rosenthal --- and, c'mon, what's with all the names? Is she an acolyte of Hillary Rodham Clinton? --- is a professional writer and a damn clever one at that. I say cute is a brilliant disguise for ambition and craft. I say 'Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life' is anything but a random tour through the days and thoughts of an ordinary woman --- there's not one ordinary thing about Amy Krouse Rosenthal.

What's really going on here?

Back in the day, Ms. Rosenthal has recalled, she got some great advice: "Don't worry so much about being the absolute best at what you do (there's always going to be someone 'better') but rather try and be the only one who is doing what you do.'" She loved that. "Kinda gives you permission to experiment, be true to your own voice, and suck a bit if you have to."

The experiment here is the form. Seemingly unplotted --- but actually highly organized; as she confesses, she did five drafts of the book --- 'Encyclopedia of an Ordinary Life' is carefully designed to get you to the letter 'Y' (which comes after Z) in a state where you'll be receptive to that entry (which is all about 'you'). So she starts cute, as if to reduce herself to a goofy waif: "We invite you to add your name to the list of people who have ever read this book and who were personally thanked (by e-mail) by the author. Click on 'Thank You' at encyclopediafanordinarylife.com." (Never received e-mail from a published writer? Hey, here's your chance.)

Then she "orients" the reader with pages of "plain facts" about American life, her life to date in a few pages of diary entries, and Important Dates. Finally, on page 37, the book actually begins. And any fool can quickly grasp what she's up to: celebrating every last minute of daily life, peeling the onion of banality to reveal the magic inside.

Like these entries:

CAR WASH: "Every time I go to the local car wash, the owner peers inside, throws up his arms and says, 'Oh, Miss, very dirty! Very, very dirty.' I'm sorry. I didn't know I was supposed to bring it in clean."

EUPHORIC: "The child is euphoric because there is an elevator button that needs pressing. Or perhaps a moon is spotted in a daytime sky."

FRENCH FRIES: "How great is it to find a few stray bonus fries at the bottom of your McDonald's bag?"

HUSBAND: "Jason and I were fixed up on a blind date, by my dad's best friend, John. When I opened my front door and saw him, I knew there was something between us. By the end of our merlot and rigatoni, I knew he was the one. Fifty-two weeks later, he knew."

SMOOTH JAZZ: "It would be hard to not let your fondness for smooth jazz come between us."

It's worth getting to YOU because Amy Krouse Rosenthal is very much a writer for these ADD-addled times. She's a poet, really. Her poetry isn't about stanzas, it's sentences, each a compressed idea or anecdote. They grow up to form paragraphs that become encyclopedia entries. But it's all built on that first sentence. A bravura performance --- there's nothing easy or lazy about this book.

By the end, although you never really know the husband or the kids, you kind of feel you do. And you definitely feel you know Amy Krouse Rosenthal. And, most to the point, you feel you know yourself better. You say, 'This reminds me of...' or 'When that happens to me, I...' and 'In our family, we call that....' and before you know it, you are dreaming your own book. That's impressive...
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CANNOT BELIEVE THIS WAS PUBLISHED

This has to be the most narcissistic book I have ever read. Another reviewer described it as self-indulgent, and I agree. I started reading this with the best of intentions, but then found myself skipping parts in the hope I would find something relevant and/or meaningful. I found this book to be nothing but private musings and opinions about the most trivial and mundane things, and I could not helping thinking "who cares?". At the risk of offending those who liked or even loved it, this was nothing but nonsense and a waste of time.
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Anyone could've written this

I don't know- maybe I missed the point. I saw this book in a pile of advanced reader copies and decided to give it a try. I had never read anything by AKR before, so maybe I wasn't used to her style. The encyclopedia idea was interesting, but unnecessary. Some of her entries were funny, or at the very least relevant so I could say "Yeah, that makes sense." But a lot of it was purely dull, as it was about her childhood or how much she seems to adore her husband. I wasn't interested. What I don't understand is why she bothered to get this published instead of just reading it to her family and friends- because it seems to me that was who she wrote it for.

Anybody could've written a book like this. Maybe not with as much flair and writing ability, but things have happened to everyone. I feel that Amy should now read my autobiography, since I'm no more or less interesting than she is.
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Fantastic idea + wonderful execution = Great book

Not since George and Weedon Grossmith introduced us to Charles Pooter in "The Diary of a Nobody", has someone so compellingly and comically explored the details of an ordinary life. The main difference being that Mr. Pooter was a fictional amalgam whereas Ms. Krouse Rosenthal is very real and this work--one feels--is very honest.

I approached this book with skepticism and my usual fear of gimmick over content. After the first ten pages, the author won me over. She uses the form she has decided upon excellently to relate her thoughts and experiences. The encyclopedic format is ideally suited to what she wants to share. Of particular interest is the section in which she details the evolution of the book.

As I read more, I recognized much in what she wrote. I found myself saying "I think that way..." or "That is just like my wife..." There is much here for any reader to recognize and much to remind us that the little details are what makes life so much fun.
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How did this get published?

I did not, I confess, finish this book, although I did try. I just kept wondering how Amy Krouse Rosenthal (and , more importantly, her publisher) could have thought that anyone would be interested in reading this book beyond the first few pages.

It's a great conceit, but isn't the author still supposed to have something interesting to say? I thought perhaps it was me - I'm a bit too old to be impressed by bloggers and their blow-by-blow descriptions of their lives - so I gave the book to a friend who is the same age as the author. Said friend has good taste and hated the book, too.
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Genius. Read it and pass it around.

Remember when you read Bridget Jones' Diary? Do you remember how fantastic her voice was? If you were anything like I was, you went around thinking things were v. this and v. that for weeks and weeks because you read that book and you just KNEW Bridget Jones and you knew her voice and you loved her. Well, this book is like that to me. In the weeks since I've read it, I find myself thinking about how the ordinary things you do everyday can define and inspire you. Having a cup of coffee or picking up your dry cleaning can be more than just the transactions that occur -- you can learn about trust and kindness and be inspired (or depressed) about the whole world from them. We all have these thoughts as we move through our days but Rosenthal was clever enough to get them down on paper.

This book is funny and it's poignant and the minute you finish reading it, you're going to think of two or three people that you immediately have to share it with. You should do that.
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