You Go First
You Go First book cover

You Go First

Hardcover – April 10, 2018

Price
$9.89
Format
Hardcover
Pages
304
Publisher
Greenwillow Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0062414182
Dimensions
1.01 x 5.5 x 8.25 inches
Weight
13.3 ounces

Description

Review “Kelly knows her audience well and uses Ben and Charlotte’s alternating points of view to capture moments of tween anguish with searing honesty. ...Heartfelt and hopeful, this novel will encourage young readers to offer their hand in friendship to kids who, just like them, might be struggling.” — School Library Journal (starred review) “Readers will undoubtedly see themselves in these pages. ...A well-crafted, entertaining call for middle schoolers to find their voices and remain accountable in shaping their own social spheres.” — Kirkus Reviews (starred review) “A delicate look at friendship, bullying and coming of age. ... You Go First is a brilliant follow-up to Entrada Kelly’s Newbery winner Hello, Universe , and challenges readers to rethink the rules of friendship.” — Shelf Awareness (starred review) “The link between the two main characters becomes a subtle bond that enables each one to make it through an emotionally challenging week and come out stronger. Readers drawn by the intriguing jacket art will enjoy the novel’s perceptive dual narrative.” — Booklist “With character-revealing prose, Kelly holds readers’ attention as the narrative moves back and forth between her two fully realized protagonists and their intricately drawn home and school settings.” — The Horn Book “Kelly writes with sympathetic gravity of young people who feel lost in a world where they thought they knew the way. ...Readers will be glad to see that both [Charlotte and Ben] will manage to remain themselves and be okay.” — Bulletin of the Center for Children’s Books “Written by the recent winner of the Newbery Award, this novel speaks to the many kids who find themselves lonely in the midst of middle school.” — Providence Journal “Newbery Medal winner Kelly is spot-on in her depiction of isolation and self-doubt middle schoolers who don’t fit in can feel. She gives Charlotte and Ben’s e-friendship a contemporary hopefulness.” — Cleveland Plain Dealer About the Author New York Times– bestselling author Erin Entrada Kelly was awarded the Newbery Medal for Hello, Universe and a Newbery Honor for We Dream of Space. She grew up in Lake Charles, Louisiana, and now lives in Delaware. She is a professor of children’s literature in the graduate fiction and publishing programs at Rosemont College, where she earned her MFA, and is on the faculty at Hamline University. Her short fiction has been nominated for the Philippines Free Press Literary Award for Short Fiction and the Pushcart Prize. Erin Entrada Kelly’s debut novel, Blackbird Fly, was a Kirkus Best Book, a School Library Journal Best Book, an ALSC Notable Book, and an Asian/Pacific American Literature Honor Book. She is also the author of The Land of Forgotten Girls, winner of the Asian/Pacific American Award for Literature; You Go First, a Spring 2018 Indie Next Pick; Lalani of the Distant Sea, an Indie Next Pick; and Maybe Maybe Marisol Rainey, which she also illustrated. The author’s mother was the first in her family to immigrate to the United States from the Philippines, and she now lives in Cebu.

Features & Highlights

  • Funny and poignant, Newbery Medalist and
  • New York Times
  • bestseller Erin Entrada Kelly’s national bestseller
  • You Go First
  • is an exploration of family, bullying, word games, art, and the ever-complicated world of middle school friendships.
  • In a starred review,
  • School Library Journal
  • wrote that Erin Entrada Kelly can “capture moments of tween anguish with searing honesty.”
  • Twelve-year-old Charlotte Lockard and eleven-year-old Ben Boxer are separated by more than a thousand miles. On the surface, their lives seem vastly different—Charlotte lives near Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, while Ben is in the small town of Lanester, Louisiana.
  • Charlotte wants to be a geologist and keeps a rock collection in her room. Ben is obsessed with Harry Potter, presidential history, and recycling. But the two have more in common than they think. They’re both highly gifted. They’re both experiencing family turmoil. And they both sit alone at lunch.
  • During the course of one week, Charlotte and Ben—friends connected only by an online Scrabble game—will intersect in unexpected ways as they struggle to navigate the turmoil of middle school. The
  • New York Times
  • -bestselling novel
  • You Go First
  • reminds us that no matter how hard it is to keep our heads above troubled water, we never struggle alone.
  • Newbery Medalist Erin Entrada Kelly writes with an authentic, humorous, and irresistible voice. This engaging and character-driven story about growing up and finding your place in the world is for fans of Rebecca Stead and Rita Williams-Garcia.

Customer Reviews

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You Go First

Erin Entrada Kelly. What is there to say about one of my favorite young adult writers?

Um.. she's amazing.

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She writes killer books that always touch your heart.

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She is the winner of the 2018 Newberry for her book, Hello Universe.

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 Oh, and she is, of course, the author of our featured books today titled You Go First. 

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You Go First is a parallel story that features the friendship of twelve-year-old Charlotte Lockard, and eleven-year-old Ben Boxer. Ben and Charlotte live thousands of miles apart, and they have never met in person. But their friendship is one that is true.

They understand each other, they support one other through both their major life changes and trials, not to mention they both share their love of online Scrabble. After all, it was online Scrabble that brought them together in the first place. 

As you read this book, you will see that the book follows the separate lives of Charlotte and Ben all the while it intertwining them together through their shared phone calls. Charlotte is dealing with a health crisis of her father and the sudden coldness from her childhood best friend.

Charlotte is struggling with finding someone that can both support her through her family crisis all the while accepting her for who she is. 

Like Charlotte, Ben's family is going through their own challenges. Ben's parents have sucker-punched him with a sudden announcement that they will be getting a divorce. Ben never saw it coming. Now, he is left to deal with his shock and anger of the breaking apart of his family.

In order to distract from the drama at home, Ben decides to run for a Class Office. However, things only get more complicated for Ben when the school bullies decide to make Ben the center of their cruel entertainment. 

As both Ben and Charlotte struggle to overcome their individual challenges, their friendship and the shared love of learning often provides a relief for each of them.

Throughout the story, there are moments of such "life-truths" that shines through the pages and will apply to anyone that is reading the book.
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My heart ached for Ben and Charlotte

This is the first book by Erin Entrada Kelly that I have read, and I may have to look into her other books. “You Go First” is a great book for middle school children. It addresses several of the issues that children in schools are dealing with – bullying, separation of parents, self-esteem, to name a few. The book is also about relationships. The author did a great job of addressing these issues in a believable manner.

Ben (11) and Charlotte (12) live in separate states and have never met. They both are very intelligent and considered geeks or nerds among their peers. They met online and play Scrabble together. Neither has a friend to turn to when they have problems. The book covers one week in the life of these two as they tackle the challenges of being a teenager. Little do they know how much alike they are. And above all, they are there when they need each other.

As I read the book I kept thinking to myself how lucky I was to grow up in a time when I did not have to deal with the bullying that so many children now encounter. My heart ached for Ben and Charlotte as they felt so alone, so alienated. And what do you do if you thought you had a best friend and that friend betrays you? All part of growing up, but nonetheless painful when it happens.

The story moves slowly so this may not appeal to those who are used to a world where everything moves at the speed of light. But it does give hope to those struggling – letting them know they are not the only ones going through troubled times and that they can get through it.
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Charlotte struggles with her dad’s recent heart attack and the abrupt loss of her best (and only) friend

Thanks to the Kid Lit Exchange network for the review copy of this book. All opinions are my own.

In YOU GO FIRST, two new middle schoolers living across the country from one another connect through an online Scrabble game.

In Philadelphia, Charlotte struggles with her dad’s recent heart attack and the abrupt loss of her best (and only) friend. She is forced to be a lone wolf in the unforgiving environment of middle school. Ben, in Louisiana, has just learned his parents will divorce. In a moment of inspiration, he decides to run for the student council. It’s a long shot since he’s known as the class dork, but he is tired of being afraid.

As Ben and Charlotte’s real-life social situations deteriorate, they begin to rely on their online friendship more. Nightly phone calls provide the sounding board they each need to work through difficult issues. While they never truly become close friends, they always pick up the phone. And sometimes picking up the phone makes all the difference.

I liked that YOU GO FIRST tackles the common middle school social issues from the perspective of both a boy and a girl. They both go through painful moments, but we can always see the social infrastructure they have around them—involved parents, helpful people at school, and the glimmer of potential for new friendships.

I also thought it was important that Ben and Charlotte didn’t develop a very strong relationship. First, because that would send the wrong message to kids about developing friendships with people they meet online. Second, because their long-distance relationship couldn’t provide the true support they each needed on a daily basis. Their relationship was exactly what it needed to be right when they needed it.

YOU GO FIRST is for kids who need to be reminded that things can always get better–just look for support in unlikely places.
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Who Goes First?

There was nothing I didn't like. This was a fast and easy read for me and one that I will recommend to my students. It is a wonderful story of two potential "misfits" and how they connect over on-line Scrabble. The issues they encounter are all too common in real life school situations. Great story; great characters.
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great read

We read this as a mother/daughter book with my 5th grader, it was a nice read
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Arrived damaged

Not sure how the book is... but it arrived very damaged. I would return it but my daughter needs it for book club and needs the time to read it.
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A poignant story about friendship and family

You Go First

By Erin Entrada Kelly

Thanks to the @kidlitexchange network, @erinentrada and @harpercollinsus for the review copy of this book - all opinions are my own.

Charlotte (Lottie Lock) and Ben Boxer are very different. Lottie lives in Pennsylvania and Ben in Louisiana, Lottie is in seventh grade, Ben is in sixth grade. Lottie’s parents are very loving, Ben’s are getting a divorce. However, they do have some things in common. They are the national online Scrabble champions and they both eat lunch alone.

Ben and Charlotte each tell their own stories in alternating chapters. You soon learn about their loneliness and their need to have a friend, even though it’s half a country apart. This is a story about friendship, the need for connection and family relationships. Your heart will ache for each of them as they struggle to handle their respective family crises and find a local friend. For students in grades 4-8 who are looking for a poignant story, You Go First would be a really good choice.
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You Go First

Thanks to #kidlitexchange for the review copy of this book. All opinions are my own. 🌟🌟🌟🌟You Go First by Erin Entrada Kelly. Charlotte is pulled out of Science class on Monday when her Dad is taken to the hospital. Charlotte is scared but being in middle school is complicated. Charlotte doesn't fit in with other girls at school and her only friend is Bridget. Then Bridget begins to pull away and one day while spying Charlotte learns Bridget doesn't want to be her friend. Meanwhile, Ben comes home from school on Monday to find his parents whispering in the kitchen and they tell him they are getting a divorce. Ben is angry but he doesn't have anyone to tell. He plunges into running for treasurer of the 6th grade but becomes the target of kids who are bullying him. Charlotte and Ben have been texting and talking on the phone but both pretend to be someone they aren't until Friday. On Friday both of their worlds get shook and they both realize sometimes friends are there you just have to learn to look for them. I didn't feel the ending of this book was final. It kind of just leaves you hanging wondering what happened. I also feel the parents in this book were just sort of absent. But over all a great middle school read. Recommended for ages 8 to 12 but high schoolers could learn a lesson or two in this book as well.
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Loved it

Couldn't put this one down! Bought it for my 5th grade classroom!
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Kids love it

Good one