The Man Who Listens to Horses
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The Man Who Listens to Horses

Mass Market Paperback – November 28, 1998

Price
$10.25
Publisher
Ballantine Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0345427052
Dimensions
4.15 x 0.95 x 6.85 inches
Weight
7.2 ounces

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" The Man Who Listens to Horses will first break, then mend your heart.... A riveting and inspirational story.... Read it. Monty Roberts will make you marvel." - The New York Times Book Review "Utterly engrossing.... For those who have ridden the high plains country, wide open, atop a horse in the full, mature glory of its strength, the only honest reaction after reading the book is to smile in warm agreement." -Michael Enright, The Globe and Mail "Mesmerizing.... The kind of life-altering book you never want to finish." - San Francisco Chronicle From the Trade Paperback edition. From the Inside Flap dates from those summers alone in the high desert, me lying on my belly and watching wild horses with my binoculars for hours at a time. Straining to see in the moonlight, striving to fathom mustang ways, I knew instinctively I had chanced upon something important but could not know that it would shape my life. In 1948 I was a boy of thirteen learning the language of horses. . . ." "Riveting and inspirational . . . easy to read and hard to put down."--The New York Times Book Review"HERE IS A MAN WHO IS A REAL, LIVE HORSE WHISPERER. . . . Monty Roberts takes us from the moment he learned to listen to horses through the development of his skill at communicating with and 'gentling' them rather than breaking their spirits. . . . From those cold nights and blazing days in the desert, he would build a life anchored by his love and understanding of the horse."--The Washington Post Book World"ABSORBING . . . ENGROSSING . . . Roberts's story is more fascinating and profound than any told in fiction. . . . The kind of life-altering book you never want to finish."--San Francisco Chronicle"THE MAN WHO LISTENS TO HORSES has inspired me to the depths of my soul. . . . One of the most profoundly deep, awe-inspiring, and heart-opening experiences I've ever witnessed. I highly recommend this book to everyone."--JACK CANFIELD Coauthor of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series Monty Roberts has spent his whole life working with horses--schooling them, listening to them, and learning their ancient equine language. Roberts was first introduced to the American public on Dateline NBC.He runs Flag Is Up Farms in Solvang, California. Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. The Call of the Wild Horses It all dates from those summers alone in the high desert, me lying on my belly and watching wild horses with my binoculars for hours at a time. Straining to see in the moonlight, striving to fathom mustang ways, I knew instinctively I had chanced upon something important but could not know that it would shape my life. In 1948 I was a boy of thirteen learning the language of horses.In the wilderness of Nevada, the soil is silky and cool to the touch at dawn, and at midday will burn your skin. My summer vigils were marked off by the heat of the day and the cold of the night and a profound sense of solitude. It felt right to be there under those vast skies on that dove-gray moonscape in the company of wild and wary horses. I remember, especially, a dun mare with a dark stripe along her back and zebra stripes above her knees. Clearly the matriarch of the herd, she was disciplining an unruly young colt who had been roughing up foals and mares. I vividly recall how she squared up to him, her eyes on his eyes, her spine rigid, her head pointed arrowlike at the adolescent. No longer full of himself, he knew exactly what she meant. Three hundred yards from the herd, the outcast would know by her body position when he could return to the fold. If she faced him, he could not. If she showed him part of her body's long axis, he could begin to consider it. Before her act of forgiveness had to come signs of his penitence. The signals he gave back to her--the seeking of forgiveness--would later be fundamental to a technique I would develop to introduce young horses gently to saddle and rider. It was the mustangs who taught me their silent body grammar, and the dun mare was my first teacher.I grew up in Salinas, California, where wild horses were annually put to other uses. In 1948, the Wild Horse Race was a featured part of the Salinas Rodeo. And because I lived in a house on the rodeo grounds (or competition grounds, as I called it) where my parents ran a riding school, rodeo was part of our lives. Normally, wild horses were cheap and plentiful. Doc Leach, a short, bespectacled man who was our dentist and also president of the association that governed the competition grounds, would have called the usual people and said, in effect, Come on, folks, I need a hundred and fifty mustangs to be delivered to Salinas by July the first and it would happen. But with horsemeat used so extensively during the war, mustang numbers had dwindled significantly, and by 1947 the herds in northern California, Nevada, and southern Oregon had diminished by as much as two-thirds, with the horses now located almost exclusively in Nevada. That year Doc Leach's calls had fallen on deaf ears. What mustangs? the Nevada ranchers had countered. You come up here and see if you can get them yourself. The wild horse race was usually no race at all but a kind of maniacal musical chairs played with mustangs, but that year the Salinas Rodeo Association had to scrape together what they could find, and so it was a fairly tame wild horse race, with too few horses and too many old ones to put on the show required.The following year I saw an opportunity to provide Doc Leach with a service that would both salvage the reputation of the wild horse race and save the lives of a hundred or more horses. I was only thirteen; he might not listen. But I was driven by both a fierce young entrepreneurial spirit and my love of the horses. In previous years, after the rodeo, the mustangs were sent to Crows Landing to be slaughtered for dog food. If I could somehow make them worth more than that...What if, I proposed to Doc Leach, I go to Nevada and get the mustangs? Doc Leach's eyebrows popped up above his glasses. How you going to do that, walk? No, I've made a lot of friends from trips to horse shows there. I know I can ask for help from the Campbell Ranch. Bill Dorrance, a remarkable horseman in his mid-fifties who would become my mentor, had contacts at the ranch and would make the arrangements. Ralph and Vivian Carter, good horse people and friends of the family, had business to conduct near there and had agreed to help. Finally, I had a truck driver lined up. Good for you, Doc Leach came back, a hint of mockery in his voice. I was, after all, little more than a boy. I'd ride up to the ranges with some of the day hands from the Campbell Ranch, and I bet I could secure one hundred and fifty head. Head of what? Chickens or horses? He had a sophisticated sense of humour. Strong and healthy mustangs, Dr. Leach. I explained to him that my younger brother, Larry, and I could care for them at the competition grounds until the rodeo was held. They'll be ready on the spot, with the pair of us on hand to see they're all right. Doc Leach shifted his pipe from one corner of his mouth to the other and blinked a couple of times. That meant he was cogitating. Finally he asked, What's in it for you? I was thinking, sir, that after the rodeo Larry and I could break in the mustangs and maybe have an auction sale, so they'd be worth more than Crows bait. That was the euphemism for animals taken to Crows Landing for slaughter. This year, I told him, he would not have to send any animals to the abattoir. There'd definitely be more than a few that would go through the sale ring ridden by my brother or myself and maybe provide someone with a useful mount, sir. He was still cogitating, so I went on. And perhaps the rodeo association could show a profit at the end of the day, more than the slaughter value anyway. Doc Leach weighed the arrangement, turning it over in his mind. He was like the buyer of a used car, kicking the tires and looking for the hidden defect. When he could find none, he agreed.He offered to call up Irvin Bray and contract him to provide me with transport for the return journey. Finally, we agreed that the net proceeds of any sales were to be divided equally between the rodeo association and the Roberts brothers.I was on my way to Nevada to gather 150 head of mustangs. It would prove to be the most important opportunity of my life: to study horses in their natural groups, in the wild. For the next three years I would be crossing the Sierra Nevada to the high desert beyond, to live alongside wild herds for several weeks at a time. From that experience I would begin to learn a language, a silent language which I have subsequently termed Equus. With that as a springboard, I would assemble a framework of ideas and principles that would guide my life's work with horses. I would have none of this were it not for my time as a teenager spent in the company of mustangs. Read more

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  • "It all dates from those summers alone in the high desert, me lying on my belly and watching wild horses with my binoculars for hours at a time. Straining to see in the moonlight, striving to fathom mustang ways, I knew instinctively I had chanced upon something important but could not know that it would shape my life. In 1948 I was a boy of thirteen learning the language of horses. . . ."

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reveals important traits of human nature that few put in use

I first saw Monty Roberts' book The Man Who Listens to Horses when I was in my local bookstore browsing for reprints of James Herriot's beloved books. I didn't buy it then, because I had never heard of him and didn't know what to expect. I later was reintroduced to him through a video in my ethology (study of animal behaviour) laboratory class and after watching one of his demonstrations and discussing his unique quality to differentiate light movement (due to his color blindness; as similar feature has been noticed in predatory animals such as dogs and wolves), was motivated to go and buy his book.
I have to say that I was sufficiently impressed with Monty's book. I hadn't become aware of the controversy and legal issues surrounding him until today through other people's reviews on Amazon.com, and investigated these claims to get further depth on him.
What I have found has led me to believe that yes, maybe there are untruths. Maybe there aren't. One cannot clearly say, particularly the public, simply because we were not there when the events transpired and all we have to rely on is what people say, and whatever we decide, people will believe what they want to believe. Human memory isn't perfect.
All I know is that the book that I read was a beautiful, compassionate autobiography illustrating a few of the human qualities that we rarely see expressed in our chaotic society today. The world may never know the truth of Monty's stories, but he has still managed to touch and inspire so many people of all ages (must significantly our generation, the younger generation) through his writing, stressing on the values of compassion, love, gentleness, respect, and understanding that are so seldom preached in the mass media today. A projected story such as this that touches hearts and instils the desire to further find links with the animals who share our planet carries with it a solid base and genuine effort that should not go unrecognized.
We should look past quibbles about the truth and understand the message of his book. There is so much drivel out there that carries repugnant and destructive information that we so readily eat up in our everyday lives without realizing it, and an inspirational book like this highlights the fact that it is so easy nowadays for us to forget the softer side of our innate human qualities.
While the stories of James Herriot remain first and foremost my favourite, Monty's book "The Man Who Listens to Horses" nevertheless touched me deeply, and for his courageous and passionate message I salute him.
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Just a load of...

This book really belongs in the fiction section! While the methods do work, it's mostly because they've worked for hundreds of years before Roberts came around. He just happens to be taking all of the credit for it. He admitted years ago in an article to Horse & Rider that most of the story part of his book was falsified -- he never studied wild horses as a 13-year-old, he never lived off of cheap diet drinks just so that he could afford to work with horses. It's a cute story, but it's not true! He used it simple to help his wallet. The only difference between Monty Roberts, and John Lyons, Pat Parelli, and all of the other trainers is that Roberts goes out of his way to dream up ideas to make himself more marketable. Of all of the pages in this book, the only ones that are worth the paper they're printed on would be the ones that explain the methods, and even those are not necessarily his own. Don't waste your money!
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Compassionate and Wise

Monty Roberts' inspiring, compassionate and wise book "The Man Who Listens to Horses" made me weep with sorrow and joy. He shows through his life and work that the gentle way is the better way in all relationships. He transformed the abuse and pain from his violent, horse trainer father into developing gentle communication methods. Using only body language and trust he can persuade a horse to accept a bridle, saddle and rider in thirty minutes. A New York reviewer summed up Monty Roberts' book best. He will first break, then mend your heart.
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The only thing he loves more than horses is himself.

When Monty Roberts describes the horses that he has met in his life, it is truly beautiful prose. His descriptions of their personalities and courage make great reading for a person who loves horses and riding. Unfortunately, those descriptions are few and far between. Most of the book is blatant self-aggrandizing from a man who claims everything from inventing the slant-load trailer to establishing the quarter horse breed. Where he isn't tooting his own horn, he is villifying his past enemies, all of whom are conveniently dead and can't contest his wild claims. The equine press has blasted this man and his book, and rightfully so.
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Monty Roberts-the Real Horse Whisperer

I saw Monty on local public television, here in the Tampa bayarea a couple of years ago. A year later, Monty did another telethonfor our local public television station, and his first book-now in paperback, was becoming available in the local mass market book stores. I couldn't get my hands on it fast enough. The book is well crafted. It is divided into several chapters, with titles that tell you at what point in the story you are at in Montys life. It will enable you to schedule time to read the book in brief sessions, if you choose. The book not only covers the Horse whisperer Monty, but the other things monty has done in his life that are not as well known. But they all go together to make up the puzzle that is Monty Roberts. I would like to say emphatically that the real horse whisperer has no correlation to the movie by the same name. Monty Roberts has only been married once, is married to the same woman, and is a foster dad to several children as well. This book would appeal to several kinds of people. If your interest is in horses, monty's life will tell you how to be successful with horses. If you want to learn how to be successful at something you love, read montys book, and it will outline the basics of that too. Montys book will also show you that if you have a bonafide talent, with a lot of hard work, you will probably succeed, with the predictable users, injustises, and setbacks. If you would like to find out what it would be like to "live the life you've always wanted, " montys book will show you the glorious side, the hard work side, the sacrifices side, and the what will my real pay check be, side. I haven't read a biography/expose book in several years that I have enjoyed as much as montys. And if you haven't seen the story of his life, get the video(s). I've struggled with my feelings about older people, and becoming an older american. . Montys book-and the corresponding video which I purchased just before I got the book, showed me that you're only as old as you want to be. But you have to pay the price to live that life, and find out early in life how to go about it. The reader will find out what it's like, how it feels-to finally "make it". It will also show you that very often, you have to, "do it afraid." The hardcover version would better suit some readers, as there are several phtos in the middle of the book. They are reproduced on the smaller pages, in the paper back version. I couldn't put the book down, I had to read it every night for almost a week until I read it all the way through. P.S. If you think I'm a monty fan, you're absolutely right! I hope to get a signed copy of the hardcover version of the book eventually.
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An insightful book...

To me, this book came across more like a personal memoir rather than the latest trend in horse-training techniques. I thoroughly enjoyed the book soley for the author's personal insight, observatons, and his remarkable kinship with horses and animals.
What most folks in the equine industry don't realize, is that Monty has a special gift & kinship with horses - unique to him only. What works for one trainer, does not neccessarily work for another.
What I see in horse-related magazines and in the equine industry per se, makes me shake my head. The media is all to quick to pick up on the latest flavour-of-the-month trainer & training techniques; re: John Lyons, Lynn Salvatori-Palm, Pat Parelli, Richard Shrake, etc; (the latest trend seems to be shifting to Australian cowboys, re: Clinton Anderson, et al) - then drop it as quickly until the next training fad becomes the new vogue. Folks then jump on the flavor-or-the-month bandwagon, and think that "what works for him, will work for me", without taking into account one's own personal dynamics, mood, personality, character, temperment, metabolism, etc.
It kinda reminds me what Dr. Benjamin Spock said about parenting and on becoming a new parent: "Trust yourself, you know more than you think".
THAT being said, I wish I could go to one of Monty's "join up" clinics - if only to observe man & horse communicate, and watch Monty work his magic.
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"...nickering with ungulate abandon..."?

And "...the deer who cavort on his California farm like so many hyperintelligent Bambis..."? What purpose do these superficial and dismissive images serve? They don't have anything to do with Monty Roberts or with his book, and their presence in a so-called "editorial review" does him (and Amazon) a disservice.

It could be that, to really "get" what Monty Roberts is saying, you should see his Join-Up training in action.

I HAVE seen it in action, and I have put it into action, myself; as has my wife, in her work with horses.

Many popular horse trainers use methods similar to Monty Roberts'; yet they have not drawn the kind of criticism that has been leveled at him. Neither do they admit to what may be his most important discovery: that body language, to a horse, comprises a complicated and consistent language -- one that can be used by humans in working with horses.

Roberts takes it one step further, insisting that the same principles apply in human-to-human relationships.

Anyone who cares about horses should read this short, well-written, and fascinating book.

Anyone who cares about people, also.
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A heart-warming read for anyone.

I have not read too much biography, but I really enjoyed this man's story. I read "The Horse Whisperer" a while back, and enjoyed it immensely. For that reason, I decided to read Monty's story. I know next to nothing about horses. I wouldn't know what a hackamore is if I got hit by one. I barely know what a foal or a filly is, or a colt. To me a bay is an inlet of water! Thanks to the school secretary, who used to train horses, I now know the meaning to these terms. But I still enjoyed the story of Monty Roberts. Here is a man who stuck to his dreams, despite the ridicule and abuse he received from others, even his own father. Here is a man who, despite a "malady" in his eyes, has learned the language of horses by watching them in the moonlight as a boy. While others talk about peace in the world, here is a man who is doing something about it, bridging the gap that exists between human beings and animals. Here is a man who, despite advanced years, went out into the wilderness to do what he did as a young man. Here is a man who has met the Queen of England, and helped her out as well. Though I have no horse-sense at all, I enjoyed this book, and you will as well.
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Very informative

Excellent book for anyone that wants to learn the language of horses in order to better train and work with these highly sensitive animals. Mr. Roberts has developed an intelligent and humane method of working with horses that is extremely effective - he has the records of success to illustrate that. This is one of the best books I've read on how to win the trust of a horse and have a wonderful companion as a result.
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Time Mag: Book contains untruths.

I have not read this book. There may well be information in here that is useful. I will not buy the book due to what I read in a Time Magazine article:

Monday, Dec 14, 1998 "Horse of a Different Color"
By John Skow and James Willwerth/Aspen

The article starts with:
"To put the matter politely, memoirs are self-serving. Still, it's something of a shock to learn that Monty Roberts' enormously popular, enormously self-approving memoir The Man Who Listens to Horses may assay out as part fiction. Call it horse puckey for the soul, if charges by Monty's younger brother Larry and others close to the author's life are to be credited. By these accounts, backed up by TIME's reporting, the stirring tale with more than 800,000 copies in print--out this month in paperback--contains an embarrassing number of seeming untruths, some harmless, others outrageous."

The article can be found as of today on the Time free archives site. Decide for yourself if you feel comfortable with paying money for this book.
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