Soldier Girls: The Battles of Three Women at Home and at War
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Soldier Girls: The Battles of Three Women at Home and at War

Hardcover – August 5, 2014

Price
$22.82
Format
Hardcover
Pages
416
Publisher
Scribner
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1451668100
Dimensions
6.5 x 1.5 x 9.5 inches
Weight
1.26 pounds

Description

"A breakthrough work... What Thorpe accomplishes in SOLDIER GIRLS is something far greater than describing the experience of women in the military. The book is a solid chunk of American history -- detailing the culture's failing, resilience and progress... Thorpe triumphs." ― The New York Times Book Review "In the tradition of Adrian Nicole LeBlanc, Richard Rhodes, and other masters of literary journalism, SOLDIER GIRLS is utterly absorbing, gorgeously written, and unforgettable." ― Boston Globe “ With a novelist’s perception of character, drama, and telling detail, Helen Thorpe magically weaves together the stories of three very different but equally compelling women soldiers. Taken together, their stories provide an intimate window on life in the military, the impact of war, and the difficult transition to home. This is an absolutely terrific and important work.” -- Doris Kearns Goodwin"A dynamic understanding of what it’s been like for Guard members who unexpectedly found themselves shipped off to the front lines of the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq... highly complex matters are all made palpably real through the prism of this book’s three heroines’ lives." ― The New York Times "A nuanced look at the lives of female soliders that is as intimate as it is groundbreaking." ― O Magazine "Thorpe follows three women, tracking their ups and downs withfaithful detail in a brilliant tableau of their overlapping lives for 12 yearsas they do multiple tours in Afghanistan and Iraq and readjust to civilianlife... Soldier Girls raises important questions about how men and women serve together and thedifferences in how they experience war, enabling us to see the subtle challengesfemale soldiers face — the hardships that don’t make easy headlines." ― The Washington Post "A vivid and intensely personal account of the lives of three women whose only common denominator had been that they joined the Indiana National Guard never imagining they might end up in a war zone... Thorpe's matter-of-fact tone and clear and concise prose make the book all the more riveting... a captivating read, an important book and a stunning accomplishment." -- Lorraine Dusky, Military History magazine“A raw, intimate look at the impact of combat and the healing power of friendship.” ― People magazine "A thoughtful, fascinating and often heartbreaking account... Thorpe manages to burrow deeply into the lives of these women...incredibly intimate." ― Miami Herald "Tracking a trio in an Indiana battalion, Thorpe movingly captures how unexpected deployments rocked women's lives... she unravels the women's complex relations--and how they sustain one another." ― Elle Magazine "Heart-breaking... absorbing, funny... a cry worth attending, sounded by a band of sisters put in harm's way." ― Newsday "Moving... Highlighting how profoundly military service changed their lives--and the lives of their families--this visceral narrative illuminates the role of women in the military, the burdens placed on the National Guard, and the disproportionate burden of these wars borne by the poor." ― Publishers Weekly, STARRED review "The absorbing story of how wartime experiences shaped the lives and friendships of three female soldiers deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan... Intensely immersive reading." ― Kirkus, STARRED review "Laudable for its clear focus on individuals and their idiosyncratic life stories... Soldier Girls is a worthy addition to the literature of our most recent wars.The three women at the heart of Thorpe’s story share a tender, familial bond that, like so much else in war literature, is generally ascribed to men... an eloquent reminder of how women’s experiences are transforming military lore." ― Bookforum "Thorpe fills this gripping tale with the women’s own words, texts, and letters (from friends and their children, as well), and the story is engrossing and heartbreaking at once." ― Booklist Helen Thorpe was born in London to Irish parents and grew up in New Jersey. Her journalism has appeared in The New York Times Magazine , New York magazine, The New Yorker , Slate , and Harper’s Bazaar . Her radio stories have aired on This American Life and Sound Print . She is the author of Just Like Us , Soldier Girls , and The Newcomers and lives in Denver.

Features & Highlights

  • From an award-winning, “meticulously observant” (
  • The New Yorker
  • ), and “masterful” (
  • Booklist
  • ) writer comes a groundbreaking account of three women deployed to Afghanistan and Iraq, and how their military service affected their friendship, their personal lives, and their families.America has been continuously at war since the fall of 2001. This has been a matter of bitter political debate, of course, but what is uncontestable is that a sizeable percentage of American soldiers sent overseas in this era have been women. The experience in the American military is, it’s safe to say, quite different from that of men. Surrounded and far outnumbered by men, imbedded in a male culture, looked upon as both alien and desirable, women have experiences of special interest. In
  • Soldier Girls
  • , Helen Thorpe follows the lives of three women over twelve years on their paths to the military, overseas to combat, and back home…and then overseas again for two of them. These women, who are quite different in every way, become friends, and we watch their interaction and also what happens when they are separated. We see their families, their lovers, their spouses, their children. We see them work extremely hard, deal with the attentions of men on base and in war zones, and struggle to stay connected to their families back home. We see some of them drink too much, have illicit affairs, and react to the deaths of fellow soldiers. And we see what happens to one of them when the truck she is driving hits an explosive in the road, blowing it up. She survives, but her life may never be the same again. Deeply reported, beautifully written, and powerfully moving,
  • Soldier Girls
  • is truly groundbreaking.

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The most basic facts are FALSE!

Helen Thorpe recently appeared on The Daily Show with John Stewart. She describes the main character as a woman with limited options who reluctantly signs up as a part time soldier. 911 happens and she enlists as a "weapons mechanic" who repairs "AK-47s" for the US military in Afghanistan.

The only problem with this story is that the US does not use AK-47s. There are no US "weapons mechanics" who "repair AK-47s".

Russia, China, Egypt, and North Korea are the main producers and users of the AK-47. No US forces have ever used AK-47s, hence no need to repair them.

Reading the book it is clear that it is poorly researched and Helen has gotten even the most basic facts wrong. I don't think this book is non-fiction. It probably doesn't even qualify as "based on a true story", and should properly be classified as "inspired (in part) by a true story".
35 people found this helpful
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MOVING, RIVETING, WELL-RESEARCHED

In SOLDIER GIRLS, Helen Thorpe’s brilliantly detailed reporting puts us on a narrative stream that starts as a trickle and crashes into a maelstrom as three female members of the Indiana National Guard deploy into military service in the Middle East.

In the ten years Michelle Fischer, Desma Brooks and Debbie Helton know each other, “they survive two wars, two deployments, two homecomings, a dozen men, one lesbian affair, a lot of heartache, and many questions about the well-being of the three children who had gotten caught up in the evolving question of what role women should play in war,” writes Helen. Her detailed reporting lets us feel their fear, their excitement, and it very winningly shows us their growing friendship.

SOLDIER GIRLS opened my eyes to an unknown-to-me part of the American experience, and I’m grateful for it. I’m usually blown away by Helen’s meticulous research, which enlivened her first book JUST LIKE US as well as this book. So I was a bit surprised when a reader took issue with Helen’s reference, during an interview with Jon Stewart, to one of the women repairing AK-47s.

“The US does not use AK-47s,” protested the reader in his review. There are no US ‘weapons mechanics’ who ‘repair AK-47s.”

So I wrote to Helen and asked her about it. (Full disclosure: I’m a writing colleague and friend of hers.)

I asked: “Did American soldiers actually work on AK-47s, which almost everyone knows are Soviet style weapons?”

Her answer: “Yes, although it is true that it was very unusual for them to do so. Typically they would work only on American-style assault rifles. But in this case they were asked to repair broken weapons that have been turned in by Afghan militias, which were being refurbished and then distributed to Afghan National Army soldiers.”
29 people found this helpful
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Inspiring and sobering at the same time

I couldn't put it down. This book took me right to the center of these women's decisions and experiences. Maybe they don't represent all women in the military or even in the Guard but I learned something new on every page about what they faced and about the consequences on real Americans when our government makes a decision to take action. In my life, I don't have a lot of connection to people in the military and I'm sorry to say that I never really thought about what would drive someone to sign up for that. I thought the book kept it real - their reasons were part economic, part personal, part idealistic - and this book made me want to learn and understand more. One of the things I loved was how it showed their courage - it was all a mess, at war or at home, but they kept trying to move forward and do the right thing and that doesn't come out perfectly for any of us, right?!
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I loved this book

I loved this book. The level of detail Ms Thorpe used drew a clear picture of these women's experiences in the war zones. It is clear that she became a trusted and respected confidant of these soldiers and faithfully related their trials in the field. This kind of information really helps as I try to decide where I stand with the evolving roles of women soldiers in combat zones in our military. Thank you Ms Thorpe, for choosing an important and timely topic, and honoring these soldiers' experiences.
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Thorpe's writing is good, on an objective level

Ms. Thorpe's writing is good, on an objective level. She is descriptive and paints a clear picture of the women's surroundings and emotions in a way that feels viscerally accurate, as someone who has been through a few similar experiences. However, as a female veteran myself, this book is a completely out-of-touch portrayal of female service members time in the military. I find it hard to believe that she just happened to find these three women to portray. If it makes you feel more comfortable to identify female service members as victims, from poor desolate areas, with no other options besides pregnancy and military service, where they are routinely treated as prey to savage animals, this book is for you! This type of book, is the reason I can't go to cocktail parties without people asking me inappropriate questions that dance on the line of "Were you raped?" The main issues in this book that are intriguing, and warrant further review, are the issues of poverty and addiction, across all gender lines. To be completely honest, I had to quit reading 3/4'th of the way through at the begging of my husband. All female service members that I've talked to about this book, have similar feelings.
8 people found this helpful
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Coward

Helen Thorpe is married to the Governor of Colorado. Between the two of them they have served 0 days in the military. She is not qualified to write a book about the military even if it is fiction.
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Amazing untold story

Amazing. Helen Thorpe has such an incredible ability to get inside the lives of her subjects. You really feel like you really know them and want to stay with them. Her previous book JUST LIKE US is like that too. Incredible dedication and sensitivity to what she does. This is a truly unique, untold story that everyone should read. Loved it!
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I love Michelle, she reminds me of myself at her ...

I love Michelle, she reminds me of myself at her age. I also joined the Army about a year after she did and had some similar experiences This book is realistic and honest. The women who shared these stories were very brave.
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A great read, not to be missed

A fabulous book of courage, hope, country, family, women of us all! A great read, not to be missed!
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Awesome!! I love anything Helen Thorpe does

Awesome!! I love anything Helen Thorpe does, but I felt this was a clear exploration of how lives are changed as a result of being posted thousands of miles away while the rest of society goes on about their business as though nothing were happening.

As Nixon suggested, an all volunteer force would result in less societal grievances and complaints--which turned out to be true. The problem is that the burdens of U.S. foreign policy are placed on a tiny minority of the population. Also, as usual, the top 1% controls the agenda, but it is the lower middle and working classes that pay the bill. This is one of many reasons I have lost hope for the country; I suppose I can say "I am grateful for your service," but I'm not even sure what that means. Of course, Bin Laden had to be dealt with, but the reality is that he came from Saudi society, and the U.S. has had their lips pressed against the Saudi's ass*s for 70 years (witness how W. let a plane-full of Saudi royal family relatives to get the hell out of the country before the "no-fly" zone was place).

And any moron of sub-average intelligence (myself included) could read how about Al-Queda hated Saddam Hussein. They considered him an apostate. And yet, there went American soldiers trotting off to Iraq to unseat the dictator who had thumbed his nose at George H.W. Bush. Baby Bush clearly had some issues when he sent troops to Iraq. Bringing back the draft, with no deferments for anyone, would certainly raise the consciousness of American society and maybe even prevent Wars of Idiocy.
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