Shrill
Shrill book cover

Shrill

Paperback – February 28, 2017

Price
$10.39
Format
Paperback
Pages
272
Publisher
Hachette Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0316348461
Dimensions
5.25 x 0.88 x 8 inches
Weight
8 ounces

Description

"Lindy West's memoir is a witty and cathartic take on toxic misogyny and fat shaming. She comes to accept her body just as Internet trolls congregate en masse to try to rip this new confidence from her, but she's rearing to fight back...In Shrill , West is our fat, ferocious, and funny avenging angel."― NPR, Best Books of 2016 "It made me hurt, both from laughing and crying. Required reading if you are a feminist. Recommended reading if you aren't."― Jenny Lawson, #1 bestselling author of Let's Pretend This Never Happened and Furiously Happy "Lindy West is an essential (and hilarious) voice for women. Her talent and bravery have made the Internet a place I actually want to be. Thank you, Lindy."― Lena Dunham, #1 bestselling author of Not That Kind of Girl "Hey reader! I thought I'd read enough in this lifetime about people's childhoods and feelings and such and I'd never want to do it again. But Lindy West is such a totally entertaining and original writer she kind of blew that thought out of my head halfway into the first chapter. I dare you to feel differently."― Ira Glass, This American Life "It's literally the new Bible."― Caitlin Moran, bestselling author of How to Be a Woman "One of the most distinctive voices advancing feminist politics through humor...With patience, humor and a wildly generous attitude toward her audience [West] meets readers at their point of prejudice so that she may, with little visible effort, shepherd them toward a more humane point of view."― The New York Times Book Review "Lindy West is funny. That's the first thing you should know about her essay collection on feminism, fat acceptance, and Internet harassment....Lindy has faced so many intolerable and enraging situations as a fat woman who is outspoken in her writing and on social media, but she always frames her negative experiences with humor and perspective. With her clear-eyed insights into modern culture and her confidence in her own intelligence and personal worth, West appeals to the humanity of even the most parents' basement-dwelling, misogynistic and casually hateful of trolls."― Esquire, Best Books of 2016 "There's a reason Lindy West is such a beloved writer: she gets to the heart of impossible issues with humor and grace. West will have you cringing, laughing and crying, all within one page. Shrill is a must-read for all women."― Jessica Valenti, author of Why Have Kids and Full Frontal Feminism "The surge of love and joy I felt while crylaughing through this book almost made my cold dead heart explode. Lindy is so smart and so funny that it almost hurts my little jealous-ass feelings. She is my most favorite writer ever."― Samantha Irby, author of Meaty "Ask West one question, and the feminist writer and film critic's answer feels like wandering into an extraordinarily engaging women's studies class taught by your favorite comedian. West pings back and forth between astute commentary about the role of women in society to clever asides on the idiocy of trolls to riotous observations about life on the Internet."― Cosmopolitan "Lindy West has written a really funny, insightful book that you all should buy. I would recommend reading it, too."― Andy Richter "She's candid and funny, unafraid to criticize rape jokes or explain how airline discriminate against fat people, and her fearlessness has made her one of the most notable voices on the Internet."― Flavorwire "Lindy West can take almost any topic and write about it in a way that is smart, funny, warm, and unique."― Bustle "In Shrill ...West is utterly candid and totally hilarious....She's also quite moving...In an age in which Internet umbrage is almost as rampant as Internet trolling, West, as funny as she is incisive, distinguishes herself as a writer who cuts to the heart of the matter. Shrill is no exception."― Vogue.com "One of the most impressive aspects of this book is the level of nuance, self-reflection, and humanity that West displays in her analysis of her own writing and her relationships with others.... She shows that you can be funny and mean and incisive and brilliant, and you can also be thoughtful and considerate and write with intention....Throughout, West proves herself to be a considerate and critical narrator with equal capacity for humor and genuine reflection-a writer who can turn her analytical eye just as easily to society as to her own life. It's the best kind of memoir, and it shows that Lindy West still has a lot more to say-and that we should all keep listening."― Bitch Media "Lindy West did not set out to be a feminist warrior against the forces that wish to silence and hurt women for doing things that men take for granted... Someone has to fight the misogynists, after all, and West is well-situated for the front lines, lacing her blunt sense of humor with a surprising amount of nuanced empathy, even for those out there who are the ugliest to women."― Salon "From her early stories to the hot-off-the-press pages of Shrill , there is one ever-present, never exhausted hallmark of West's writing, and that is its unwavering heart. Whether she's writing about being fat-shamed by a stranger or confronting the troll who posed online as her recently deceased father, West has a way of wringing empathy and catharsis out of even the most deplorable circumstances. Reading her book is like taking a master class in inclusivity and cultural criticism, as taught by one of the funniest feminists alive today."― Refinery29 "Uproariously funny...Readers will delight in West's biting clarity....Despite its serious subject, West's ribald jokes, hilarious tirades, and raucous confessions keep her memoir skipping merrily along as she jumps from painful confession to powerful epiphany. Sure to be a boon for anyone who has struggled with body image, Shrill is a triumphant, exacting, absorbing memoir that will lay new groundwork for the way we talk about the taboo of being too large."― Booklist (Starred Review) "There's some beautiful, joyful writing here: West defies cliches both by being persistently hilarious and deeply loving.....In the same way that West traces the sobering long-term consequences of fighting over big cultural issues in public, she also writes with substance and grace about living in her own body in a way that transcends the sometimes facile cheerleading for body positivity that shows up everywhere, from feminist Tumblrs to the cover of Sports Illustrated's swimsuit issue.....It's not easy to talk about the work and consequences involved in changing the world; we crave triumphal stories and incidents to get outraged by. The strength of "Shrill," though, is the way it captures both halves of the equation, the joy of those hard-fought victories and the pain incurred in battle."― Washington Post "Read her ferociously funny book and you'll be shouting her praises."― People "Lindy West stares defiantly into the eyes of anyone who reaches to pick it up and dares them not to shed any sexism they might harbor, whether conscious or not...Her writing is sharp, smart, hilarious, relatable, insightful and memorable. She tackles serious and personal subjects-like being fat, getting an abortion, feeling lonely or dealing with harassment online-and is just as capable of eliciting tears as laughter. The combination is part of what makes her voice so effective and absorbing....I dare you to pick up a copy."― Newsweek, Best Books of 2016 "Both sharp-toothed and fluid....To see so much of West's writing in one place is to appreciate her range. She can eviscerate the status quo with raunchy humor....She can attack entrenched sexism with skilled polemic....And she can leave both of those modes behind to write poignantly about growing up, losing her father, and falling in love....West is propulsively entertaining."― Slate "Lindy West's debut book, Shrill , is an emotional rollercoaster. One moment you're snorting from laughter, trying to avoid all the weird looks you're getting on the train. The next you're silently absorbing a larger truth neatly packaged into the perfect sentence you didn't expect to read."― Mother Jones "In her incredible and insightful new book Shrill ....West gets unflinchingly real about growing up fat and the harmful impact that the media (and its disdain for fat women) can have on young girls....what West ultimately strives for is to incrementally make those small changes that can lead to something so much bigger and better for us all."― Amy Poehler's Smart Girls "[Lindy is] warm and cutting, vulnerable, and funny in equal measures; her sense of self makes you yourself feel seen."― Buzzfeed "This is who Lindy West is: A constantly harangued feminist writer ready to transmute your BS into comedy....you need to read [ Shrill ]. It's hilarious, biting and wise."― The Huffington Post "West came of age as a writer in the full light of the Internet, a young feminist speaking out against fat-shaming--publicly addressing her colleague at the Stranger, Dan Savage--and writing about periods and rape jokes at Jezebel the Guardian....[reveals] how vital it is for young women to raise their voices."― Los Angeles Times, The 10 Most Important Books of 2016 "A compilation of powerful and brave essays about coming-of-age in a world that's set on silencing girls and women."― Revelist "Stitch-inducing and searingly honest."― USA Today "Lindy West is one of the Great Ladies of the Feminist Internet, her writing style alone setting a regal standard for many of us coming of age in these wild online times....250 pages of pure hilariousness...West writes about both the trap of living in a body and identity that is marginalized, but also the power we have to reclaim these identities by being wholly, indefatigably, and - wait for it - shrilly ourselves."― Feministing.com "You have to be careful about what you read when you're writing, or you can end up in total despair, thinking, 'This is what I wanted to say, only she got there first and said it better.'"― Jennifer Weiner, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Good in Bed and The Littlest Bigfoot "Read West's ferociously funny book and you'll be shouting her praises."― People "Lindy West's name may already be familiar to readers of Jezebel or to anyone who listened to her fascinating, brutal piece on internet trolls for This American Life . Her collection of essays takes on stereotypes, gender politics, beauty standards and other topics she attacks with her thoughtful, clever, cutting and inspiring commentary."― Minnesota Public Radio, Best Books of 2016 "Fearless and funny."― Chicago Tribune Lindy West is a contributing opinion writer for the New York Times . She is the bestselling author of Shrill , a memoir which has been adapted into a Hulu series starring Aidy Bryant, and a forthcoming book entitled The Witches Are Coming . She lives in Seattle.

Features & Highlights

  • Shrill
  • is an uproarious memoir, a feminist rallying cry in a world that thinks gender politics are tedious and that women, especially feminists, can't be funny.
  • Coming of age in a culture that demands women be as small, quiet, and compliant as possible -- like a porcelain dove that will also have sex with you -- writer and humoristLindy West quickly discovered that she was anything but. From a painfully shy childhood in which she tried, unsuccessfully, to hide her big body and even bigger opinions; to her public war with stand-up comedians over rape jokes; to her struggle to convince herself, and then the world, that fat people have value; to her accidental activism and never-ending battle royale with Internet trolls, Lindy narrates her life with a blend of humor and pathos that manages to make a trip to the abortion clinic funny and wring tears out of a story about diarrhea. With inimitable good humor, vulnerability, and boundless charm, Lindy boldly shares how to survive in a world where not all stories are created equal and not all bodies are treated with equal respect, and how to weather hatred, loneliness, harassment, and loss, and walk away laughing.
  • Shrill
  • provocatively dissects what it means to become self-aware the hard way, to go from wanting to be silent and invisible to earning a living defending the silenced in all caps.

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Younger feminists can teach us older women a trick or two

It seems like every woman I know has read this book, which automatically made me suspicious. (I still haven't forgiven my fellow females for The Bridges of Madison County.) I finally trundled forth on my own.

I'm glad I did. It just took me a while to get there. I wasn't sure what I was headed into. I figured "feminist, fat-positive, intersectionality" and that's all true. But are these essays? Not exactly. What was I reading? I finally settled on memoir-ish. It took me a while to finish this because I ended up with a ton of notes scribbled on my notebook, and I spent a lot of time reading about the surrounding circumstances. I honestly didn't have to. She explained these things well and even quotes huge chunks of some pieces. (One thing I learned: Leonard Nimoy is a photographer!)

The reason I'm going on about this is that the beginning of the book is witty. It's written like essays, even if it's about being a child, a fat child, a fantasist child... This doesn't feel like a true memoir until the very final few chapters, and those are beautiful chapters -- written with a vulnerability that I found very relatable and touching. There is true wisdom in the final handful of chapters that don't feel like I'm being Taught A Lesson because she shows us her experience and her vulnerability as she learns.

Earlier chapters are hilarious. The end of the book still has laugh aloud moments, but it's on a much deeper level. She's finally let the reader in. I wish she could've found a way to let me in earlier. Much of the fat-positive stuff felt very defensive. (Full disclosure: I, too, am overweight, or as West would say, "FAT," and I can attest to the different way society at large treats fat people because I was pretty thin until I hit 40.) Despite my sympathetic ear, it still came off to me as defensive. The "lessons" she tries to impart early about the way we treat fat people finally get an "aha" moment in the latter chapters when she describes her marriage and the circumstances around her engagement. Here, she's open and honest. We get to see behind the activist into the real woman.

Interestingly, I found something at odds between her feminism and her fat positivity in these latter chapters. It's not glaring, and I certainly don't fault her for wanting to be desirable to her husband and show the world that he desires her, but the tension of being a woman shows up here. It brings up an even deeper set of issues for women that she doesn't touch. I don't fault her at all for that -- this is not an academic study.

It's hard being a woman. I know this. And I don't even have an army of trolls attacking me on a daily basis.

I'm slightly older than Lindy West. I grew up a decade or so before her. When I was growing up, it was assumed that because the world now said the "right" things, all was now fine, much like the "post-racial" nonsense that went around in 2008. It's nonsense, but I believed it as a girl, and that's brought me some real anger in adulthood. It's made me a pretty ardent feminist. This is where I've learned from women like Lindy West - how to be unapologetic about my feminism, including my anger.

This book didn't change my life, and I doubt it will change anyone else's. Nonetheless, West has a real point about chipping away at the old truisms and making the world a little better with our every interaction.

"It's hard to be cold or cruel when you remember it's hard to be a person."

This is a pretty wise young woman, and it'll be great fun to watch and read her in the future. Rumor has it that she has two more books in the works.

Originally posted at "So It Goes" book blog
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If You Liked "Eat, Pray, Love"....

You should read this book. Why? Because Elizabeth Gilbert's and Lindy West's books both speak truth from the heart....especially for women.
I could riff here on Al Gore's book about climate change, which is called "An Inconvenient Truth" - Lindy's book could be called "An Uncomfortable Truth" because she takes on the last "acceptable" prejudice. People who wouldn't dream of being biased about gays, blacks, or other religions are still incredibly biased about fat people...especially women. So this is not only a funny and brave book, but an important book. Any woman who has felt even a fleeting few minutes of "body shame" should read it. Any person who is reading this and thinking, "I'm not prejudiced about anyone," should read it. Any woman who has had an abortion, or who has judged another for making that choice, should read this. Frankly, if you are human and you eat, pray or love, read this book.
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I found myself saying, "hey, that's me too"

I loved this book. I'm probably going to read it again. So why only a 4 star review: frankly I wish I could give fractions because this would have been a 4.5 star.
Let's get my only complaint out of the way first. The narrative is a tad broken up, so much so that I wasn't sure where in her timeline I was during any given chapter. One minute we're reading about childhood, the next we're post marriage, then back to xxx. It was a bit disconcerting. The lack of flow didn't ruin the book, but I'd be dishonest if I claimed the book was perfect in presentation.

Now the good stuff, and I have plenty to say. First, this is an eye-opening book. West is brilliant and funny, and manages to articulate those soggy unidentifiable feelings so many women have. We know something is up, but the vocabulary needed to voice what is wrong has been socialized out of us and the culture we reside in. West states those feelings of "wait a minute, I know there was something wrong with what you said, but ..."

Unlike many other feminist and body positive book, I felt West used just enough deprecation and sharp language as was needed. Did I mention she's funny? Let me mention it again, because, she really is. Later the book, when things need to be handled with more seriousness, she appropriately changes the tone and draws back on the humor.

I found myself saying, "hey, that's me too" quite often. This is a solid, head-first read.

At the end, I felt like there should have been more. Yes, she was repetitive, but rightfully so. And still - I want more.
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Really?!

So hard to get into some of the books that are highly rated and turn out to be absolutely juvenile. Like reading a teenager's diary. Brought back the Girl, Wash your hair or whatever it is called and got a refund. Just finished the chapter on menstruation in Shrill and absolutely cannot continue. Going back to the classics. How does this stuff even get published!!!
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Boring rant

A disorganized, boring mess. Does she honestly think that clerks worry about what people buy in the supermarket?
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Disgusted

I will not buy this book after reading that she makes “a trip to the abortion clinic funny”. There is absolutely nothing funny about abortions, I am sad and disgusted.
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One Star

book is ridiculous!!!
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Too vulgar for me.

Too vulgar for me. I gave it to my (adult) daughter.
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Ok

I think she’s kind of annoying she thinks she’s much more clever than she is.
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Regret spending the money on it

This book came so highly recommended that I quickly ordered for my Kindle. Well, it must have some merit since so many people love it. To me it is like nails on a blackboard. Every sentence is one piercing critique and excess over analysis of familiar icons after another. Maybe I am too old and tired to sit through one person's endless list of how society messed her up. Wish I could get a refund.
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