Remember: The Science of Memory and the Art of Forgetting
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Remember: The Science of Memory and the Art of Forgetting

Hardcover – March 23, 2021

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$18.90
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Hardcover
Pages
272
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Harmony
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978-0593137956
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5.7 x 1 x 8.53 inches
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12.8 ounces

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“No one writes more brilliantly about the connections between the brain, the mind, and the heart. Remember is a beautiful, fascinating, and important book about the mysteries of human memory—what it is, how it works, and what happens when it is stolen from us. A scientific and literary treat that you will not soon forget.” —Daniel Gilbert, Edgar Pierce Professor of Psychology, Harvard University, New YorkTimes bestselling author of Stumbling on Happiness “In Remember , Lisa Genova provides easy-to-follow, no nonsense advice on how to maximize one of the greatest outputs of your brain—memory. But, more important, she also lets us know that while memory is a tremendous gift, the real you is much more than just what you can remember!” —Rudolph E. Tanzi, PhD, professor of neurology, Harvard Medical School, coauthor of The Healing Self “As with her previous books, this is an engaging and edifying read.” —Steven Pinker, Johnstone Professor ofxa0Psychology, Harvard University, author of How the Mind Works “Genova’s plentiful anecdotes from her personal and professional lives make it easy for readers to relate, and her obvious expertise in memory and the brain results in a book that is more insightful than many others on the subject. Sharp writing and accessible storytelling make for a compelling read.” — Kirkus Reviews “Brain science is deciphering the mysteries of memory, and no one is better positioned to tell the electrifying story than Dr. Genova, with her scientist’s eye and poet’s ear. A book you won’t forget.” —David Eagleman, neuroscientist, Stanford University, New York Times bestselling author “This user-friendly account is very informative and should encourage and comfort concerned readers.” — Booklist “A solid primer on the way memory works and fails to work.…Genova blends popular science and self-help, providing lay reader-friendly descriptions of the function of memory and sharing tips for better memory in a helpful appendix. . . . This accessible survey is an easy entry point for anyone wondering how and why they keep forgetting where they left their car keys.” — Publishers Weekly Lisa Genova is the New York Times bestselling author of the novels Still Alice, Left Neglected, Love Anthony , Inside the O'Briens , and Every Note Played . Still Alice was adapted into an Oscar-winning film starring Julianne Moore, Alec Baldwin, and Kristen Stewart. Lisa graduated valedictorian from Bates College with a degree in biopsychology and holds a PhD in neuroscience from Harvard University. She travels worldwide speaking about the neurological diseases she writes about and has appeared on The Dr. Oz Show , Today , PBS NewsHour , CNN, and NPR. Her TED talk, “What You Can Do To Prevent Alzheimer's,” has been viewed more than five million times. Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. 1 Making Memories 101 When Akira Haraguchi, a retired engineer from Japan, was sixty-nine years old—an age most of us associate with senior discounts and a less-than-optimal memory—he memorized pi, a nonrepeating, infinite number with no pattern, to 111,700 digits. That’s the number 3.14159u2008.u2008.u2008.u2008u200bcarried out to 111,695 more decimal places. From memory! If this sounds completely mind-blowing, I’m with you. Surely, you’re thinking, Haraguchi must have been a child prodigy. Or perhaps he’s a mathematical genius or a savant. He’s none of these. He’s a regular guy with a healthy, aging brain, which means something maybe even more mind-blowing—your brain is also capable of memorizing 111,700 digits of pi.We can learn and remember anything—the unique sound of your child’s voice, the face of a new friend, where you parked your car, that time you walked to the market all by yourself to buy sour cream when you were four years old, the words to the latest Taylor Swift song. The average adult has memorized the sound, spelling, and meaning of 20,000 to 100,000 words. Chess masters have memorized in the ballpark of 100,000 possible moves. Concert pianists who can play Rachmaninoff’s third concerto have committed the coordination of almost 30,000 notes to memory. And these same folks don’t need the sheet music to play Bach, Chopin, or Schumann, either.Our memories can hold information that is deeply meaningful or nonsensical, simple or complex, and its capacity appears to be limitless. We can ask it to remember anything. And under the right conditions, it will.How can memory do all of this? Neurologically speaking, what even is a memory? How is a memory made? Where are memories stored? And how do we retrieve them?Making a memory literally changes your brain. Every memory you have is a result of a lasting physical alteration in your brain in response to what you experienced. You went from not knowing something to knowing something, from never before having experienced today to having lived another day. And to be able to remember tomorrow what happened today means that your brain has to change.How does it change? First, the sensory, emotional, and factual elements of what you experience are perceived through the portals of your senses. You see, hear, smell, taste, and feel.Let’s say it’s the first evening of summer, and you’re at your favorite beach with your best friends and their families. You see, among other things, your children playing soccer on the beach and a spectacular sunset glowing in the sky. You hear “Born This Way,” one of your favorite Lady Gaga songs, playing over a portable speaker. Your daughter runs up to you, wailing, pointing to her bright pink ankle. A jellyfish has just stung her. Luckily, your friend carries a small container of meat tenderizer with her for this very scenario. You make a paste of the tenderizer and rub it on the sting, relieving your daughter’s pain almost instantly (this really works). You smell the salty ocean air and smoke from the bonfire. You taste crisp, cold white wine, fresh briny oysters, and gooey sweet s’mores. You feel happy.The sight of your children playing soccer has nothing to do with Lady Gaga or jellyfish or the taste of oysters, unless these fleeting, separate experiences become linked. To become a memory that you can later recall—Remember that first night of summer, when we ate oysters and s’mores and listened to Lady Gaga while the kids played soccer on the beach and little Susie Q was stung by a jellyfish?—all that previously unrelated neural activity becomes a connected pattern of neural activity. This pattern then persists through structural changes created between those neurons. The lasting change in neural architecture and connectivity can later be reexperienced—or remembered—through the activation of this now-linked neural circuit. This is memory.Creating a memory takes place in four basic steps: Encoding. Your brain captures the sights, sounds, information, emotion, and meaning of what you perceived and paid attention to and translates all this into neurological language. Consolidation. Your brain links the previously unrelated collection of neural activity into a single pattern of associated connections. Storage. This pattern of activity is maintained over time through persistent structural and chemical changes in those neurons. Retrieval. You can now, through the activation of these associated connections, revisit, recall, know, and recognize what you learned and experienced.All four steps have to work for you to create a long-term memory that can be consciously retrieved. You have to put the information into your brain. You have to weave the information together. You have to store that woven information via stable changes in your brain. And then you have to fetch the woven information when you want to access it.How does a constellation of previously unrelated neural activity become bound together into a connected neural network that we experience as a singular memory? We’re not entirely sure of how this happens, but we know a great deal about where it happens. The information contained within an experience that is collected by your brain—the sensory perceptions, the language, the who, what, where, when, and why—is linked by a part of your brain called the hippocampus.The hippocampus, a seahorse-shaped structure deep in the middle of your brain, is essential for memory consolidation. What does that mean? The hippocampus binds your memories. It is your memory weaver. What happened? Where and when did it happen? What does it mean? How did I feel about it? The hippocampus links all these separate pieces of information from disparate parts of the brain together, knitting them into a retrievable unit of associated data, a neural network that, when stimulated, is experienced as a memory.So your hippocampus is necessary for the formation of any new memories that you can later consciously retrieve. If your hippocampus is damaged, your ability to create new memories will be impaired. Alzheimer’s disease begins its rampage in the hippocampus. As a result, the first symptoms of this disease are typically forgetting what happened earlier today or what someone just said a few minutes ago and repeating the same story or question over and over. With an impaired hippocampus, people with Alzheimer’s have trouble creating new memories.Moreover, the consolidation mediated by the hippocampus is a time-dependent process that can be disrupted. The formation of a memory that can be retrieved tomorrow, next week, or twenty years from now requires a series of molecular events that take time. During that time, if something interferes with the processing of a nascent memory in the hippocampus, the memory can be degraded and possibly lost.Say you’re a boxer, a football player, or a soccer player, and you sustain a blow to the head. If I were to interview you immediately after you got clocked, you would be able to tell me about the punch, the play, the details of what was happening. But if I were to ask you the next day, you might have no memory of what happened. The information that was in the process of becoming linked by your hippocampus to form a new, lasting memory was disrupted and was never fully consolidated. The blow to your head caused amnesia. Those memories are gone.Damage to the hippocampus probably explains why Trevor Rees-Jones, bodyguard to Princess Diana and sole survivor of the car crash that killed her and Dodi Fyed all those years ago, still can’t remember any details of what happened leading up to the accident. He sustained a devastating head injury, requiring many surgeries and about 150 pieces of titanium to reconstruct his face. Because the various elements of his pre-crash experience had not been fully linked together by his hippocampus when his brain was injured, they were never stored. Those memories of what happened were never made.What happens if you don’t have a hippocampus at all? Henry Molaison, or HM, as he is called in the thousands of papers citing his case for over half a century, is the most famous case study in the history of neuroscience. When Henry was a child, he fell off his bicycle, fracturing his skull. Whether because of this head injury or a family history of epilepsy no one is sure, but from the age of ten on, he regularly experienced debilitating seizures. Seventeen years later, his seizures still unrelenting and unresponsive to drug treatment, he was desperate and willing to try anything to get some relief. So on September 1, 1953, at the age of twenty-seven, Henry agreed to undergo experimental brain surgery.The year 1953 was still well within the era of lobotomies and psychosurgeries, procedures that involved the indelicate removal or severing of brain regions to treat mental illnesses such as bipolar disorder and schizophrenia and brain disorders such as epilepsy. These kinds of surgical interventions are deemed grotesque, barbaric, and ineffective today, but back then, they were routinely performed by respected neurosurgeons. With the goal of eliminating Henry’s seizures, a neurosurgeon named William Scoville removed the hippocampus and surrounding brain tissue from both sides of Henry’s brain.Here’s the good news. Henry’s seizures almost entirely subsided. And his personality, intelligence, language, motor function, and ability to perceive were undamaged by the procedure. So in that sense, the surgery was a success. But he had tragically traded one plague for another. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • NEW YORK TIMES
  • BESTSELLER • A fascinating exploration of the intricacies of how we remember, why we forget, and what we can do to protect our memories, from the Harvard-trained neuroscientist and bestselling author of
  • Still Alice.
  • “Using her expertise as a neuroscientist and her gifts as a storyteller, Lisa Genova explains the nuances of human memory”—Steven Pinker, Johnstone Professor of Psychology, Harvard University, author of
  • How the Mind Works
  • Have you ever felt a crushing wave of panic when you can't for the life of you remember the name of that actor in the movie you saw last week, or you walk into a room only to forget why you went there in the first place? If you're over forty, you're probably not laughing. You might even be worried that these lapses in memory could be an early sign of Alzheimer's or dementia. In reality, for the vast majority of us, these examples of forgetting are completely normal. Why? Because while memory is amazing, it is far from perfect. Our brains aren't designed to remember every name we hear, plan we make, or day we experience. Just because your memory sometimes fails doesn't mean it's broken or succumbing to disease. Forgetting is actually part of being human. In
  • Remember
  • , neuroscientist and acclaimed novelist Lisa Genova delves into how memories are made and how we retrieve them. You'll learn whether forgotten memories are temporarily inaccessible or erased forever and why some memories are built to exist for only a few seconds (like a passcode) while others can last a lifetime (your wedding day). You'll come to appreciate the clear distinction between normal forgetting (where you parked your car) and forgetting due to Alzheimer's (that you own a car). And you'll see how memory is profoundly impacted by meaning, emotion, sleep, stress, and context. Once you understand the language of memory and how it functions, its incredible strengths and maddening weaknesses, its natural vulnerabilities and potential superpowers, you can both vastly improve your ability to remember and feel less rattled when you inevitably forget. You can set educated expectations for your memory, and in doing so, create a better relationship with it. You don't have to fear it anymore. And that can be life-changing.

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A Little Disappointed

I know I'm in the minority because I see that many others liked this book. It did have some good points to keep in mind, but I feel that most of the pertinent points could have been made in one-quarter the size of this book. I also felt that it skipped around a little bit -- I'm a very logical, organized person and, for instance, would like to see the discussion of the different parts of the brain and their functions laid out together, rather than a little here and there. Also, for anyone who has lived through Alzheimer's with a family member, there were only small snippets that added to my knowledge -- you learn pretty fast what the signs are. Many of the recommendations are ones that are recommended everyplace, from your doctor's office to newspaper articles, to the Internet and more -- like exercise is very important (it's important for every disease or condition). It's not a bad book; it just could be better.
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"Our brains have evolved to remember what is meaningful."

In "Remember," neuroscientist Lisa Genova focuses on how we form short and long-term memories; why we forget what we have seen, heard, and learned; and the ways in which we can strengthen our capacity to hold onto meaningful memories. The author assures us, using lucid and mostly jargon-free terminology, that most memories are not meant to be retained. A large portion of our days are taken up with routine activities such as eating breakfast, brushing our teeth, and commuting to our jobs. Unless an incident stands out, it makes no sense to clutter our brains with mundane details.

When we speak of memory, we often dwell on what we have learned and experienced in the past. However, memory is also connected with the future. When we go to the supermarket without a list, will we remember to buy all the items that we need? When a student crams the night before an exam, what are the odds that he will ace tomorrow's test? By the way, we need not worry that misplacing our keys or eyeglasses now and then are signs that we are "losing it." When we do things inattentively, we generally forget them instantly. This is normal. However, if we cannot fathom why we need keys at all, that is a cause for concern.

"Remember" is an enlightening, well-researched, and readable primer on various aspects of remembering and forgetting. Moreover, Lisa Genova advises us to adopt behaviors that can strengthen our mental acuity. These include adhering to a heart-healthy diet, sleeping seven to nine hours a night, exercising regularly, reducing stress, and learning new skills. Of course, no one is immune to the deleterious effects of aging. However, if we make an effort to stay upbeat, take the time to socialize with compatible friends and relatives, pay close attention to information that we wish to retain, and follow sensible health recommendations, we may be able to stay sharp well into our golden years.
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This is a book for everyone. Like a memory user manual, but more fun to read.

This is a delightful and approachable little book about the amazing powers of memory, its many failings, and how to work around them. Neuroscientist Lisa Genova reassures us that despite our propensity to forget what we were looking for, where we parked, and our new acquaintance’s name, these are common problems that don’t lead inevitably to Alzheimer’s disease. There is much we can do to improve our memory such as paying better attention, using memory aids, lowering stress, and improving sleep. But even when these memory hacks fail us, Genova reminds us, memory isn’t everything. Forgetting has its own amazing powers.

”You are more than what you can remember.”

I think this is a wonderful read for those who might be concerned about mild memory lapses or have a family member with dementia. For those of us with less common and more significant memory impairments, though, Genova’s oft-repeated reassurance about normal forgetfulness falls flat. Exactly because forgetting is such a universal phenomenon, I personally have found it difficult to be taken seriously while searching for help with a profound loss of episodic memory. When you can't remember the birth of your children, the rationale for recent decisions, or anything about the patient you cared for all day yesterday, it leads to serious occupational and interpersonal disability. Minimization of these distressing symptoms is frustrating.

That said, I’ve yet to find better advice anywhere else, and certainly not in such an approachable format. This book can easily be read in an afternoon, yet Genova manages to explain every memory tactic and lifestyle modification I can recall encountering since I began my research. Probably more.

”Take it seriously. Hold it lightly. Memory isn’t everything.”
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Readable. Knowledgeable. Helpful.

Key suggestions found in the Appendix for one to remember better are as follows:-

1. Pay attention
2. See it
3. Make it meaningful
4. Use your imagination
5. Location, location, location (Your brain is wired to remember where things are located in space)
6. Make it about you
7. Look for the drama
8. Mix it up. (Sameness is the kiss of death to memory)
9. Practice makes perfect. (Repetition and rehearsal)
10. Use plenty of strong retrieval cues
11. Be positive
12. Externalize your memory
13. Context matters (if you study mocha while studying for a test, have another one when you take the exam)
14. Chill out
15. Get enough sleep (7-9 hours for locking into our long term memory whatever you have learned and experienced)
16. When trying to remember someone’s name, turn your Bakers INTO bakers.

In case you buy in the above and want the elaboration of them, this simple yet knowledgeable and fluently written book will satisfy you well. In short, recommended!
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A Good Book - don’t forget it!

My wife was told this book is a good one - especially for Seniors. She is reading it right now.
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Can you remember??

This is a great book filled with fun facts and interesting information about what is involved in remembering. This was a simple and engaging book on memory. What it is. How it works. And there is even a super handy appendix to summarize all Lisa Genova talks about in the book. I love that fact, as I won't remember all that I read in the book.
I took a fun online class called Learning How to Learn a while back, and I think this book would complement that very well.
Thank you to Harmony Books and Rodale Books for sending me a free copy of this book in exchange for a free and unbiased review.
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Helpful and easy to understand

I am in my early 30s and have family members with dementia, my husband is the same age and has family members with Alzheimer's. With both of these so close to us it can be worrying whenever something is forgotten or misremembered. In Lisa Genova's Remember I am was able to understand this is completely normal to not have a perfect memory.

The book is broken into three parts, 1. How we Remember, 2. Why we Forget, 3. Improve or Repair.

I found the Why we forget section to be very helpful. and I will be using the Improve or Repair section by keeping in mind that stress and sleep are extremely important to memory. If I'm stressed and realizing I'm not remembering things well, not to stress out more! Take a breathe and a break and things will be okay.

I've received a free copy from Harmony Books and Rodale Books in exchange for a free and unbiased review.
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An Engrossing Read

Lisa Genova's REMEMBER is an engrossing book that made me feel like I'd had a multi-appointment, deep-dive conversation with my medical specialist about memory. I found it fitting that I read the final pages while sitting my doctor's waiting room.

I don't know if anyone goes through life without knowing and loving someone who gets Alzheimer's or dementia. Or who worries about navigating those potential realities themselves. I highly recommend this book for everyone. I only just finished it yesterday, and I've already told several people that they need to read it. In this book, Genova combines practical tips with examples, studies, and personal stories that make for the kind of read that's both academically enriching while also being enjoyable and interesting.

She address the normal "forgetting" that occurs with our memories, at what point we should be worried, and provides lists (I love lists of actionable items!) of things we can do NOW to help our brains thrive. She also gives practical tips on how to strengthen your memory-keeping skills and potentially stave off the effects of Alzheimer's as long as possible. That said, I loved, most of all, her compassionate and hopeful insight for what it DOES and DOESN'T mean to have Alzheimer's--this idea that memory is both a big deal, and not a big deal at all.

My favorite thing is that at the end, acknowledging that our memories are faulty, she repeats the main ideas of every chapter in a paragraph, and she was right... there were already things I'd forgotten! There were so many things I high-lighted to come back to.

Thanks to NetGalley for an advanced copy of this book!