Putting Your Past in Its Place: Moving Forward in Freedom and Forgiveness
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Putting Your Past in Its Place: Moving Forward in Freedom and Forgiveness

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256
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Harvest House Publishers
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978-0736927390
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5.53 x 0.63 x 8.54 inches
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9.6 ounces

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“The Christian counseling world has waited a long time for a book that has substantive help for people who are weighed down with problems from their past. It is finally here! Steve Viars has taken a difficult issue and, aptly and with clarity, applies practical theological answers to it. You cannot read this book without being personally changed. If you are looking for solid biblical answers about your past, this is the book for you.” ―Dr. John D. Street, chair of the Master of Arts in Biblical Counseling program, The Master’s College and Seminary “The gospel promises believers the power to change, but those who’ve experienced deep pain in their past often struggle with living by faith. Pastor Steve Viars’ new book, Putting Your Past in Its Place , offers practical, compassionate, biblical help for those with painful personal histories, and for their pastors and counselors.” ―Dr. Laura Hendrickson, author, biblical counselor, psychiatrist “Steve Viars is a pastoral psychologist of the best sort: realistic, practical, and thoroughly Christian. His book really does put the past in its proper place and does so by comforting, challenging, and encouraging those who need to make peace with their past. Whether you are struggling with the past yourself or one who counsels the strugglers, you cannot read this book and not be changed.” ―Sam R. Williams, PhD, associate professor of counseling, Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Wake Forest, NC “Many of us remain paralyzed by our past even though freedom from our past was purchased on the cross. In this much-needed book, Steve Viars shows that the Bible teaches us what we need to know about learning from and disarming our past. So read well, see yourself, see Jesus, and receive His liberating grace.” ―Paul Tripp, president, Paul Tripp Ministries and author of What Did You Expect? Redeeming the Realities of Marriage “If you long to get free from your past and into the glorious future God has for you, Steve Viars and his wonderful new book, Putting Your Past in Its Place , can show you the way. It is insightful, powerful, and immensely practical. Get one for every member of your family so they can join you in this bright new future free from the pain of your past.” ―Dr. James MacDonald, senior pastor of Harvest Bible Chapel, Chicago “In Putting Your Past in its Place , experienced biblical counselor and respected Bible scholar Steve Viars seeks to answer the important question, What role does a person’s past play in his or her present-day living? Viars bases his answer not on his or any other human being’s opinion but on God’s authoritative, infallible Word. This interesting and insightful book will be of great benefit to many people. Counselors will find this book to be very helpful, as will Christians who struggle with discerning a biblical perspective.” ―Wayne Mack, professor of biblical counseling, Grace School of Ministry, Pretoria and Capetown, South Africa “Steve Viars knows the problems we face, but he also knows that the answers to our problems are found in the Bible. In Putting Your Past in its Place , he takes his wealth of experience in the pulpit and in the counseling room and applies it to the difficulties faced by those who feel shackled to their past. If you want to deal with your past and yes, put it in its proper place, then this book is for you. It is thoroughly biblical, deeply compassionate, and engagingly hopeful. Buy it!” ―Elyse Fitzpatrick, head of Women Helping Women Ministries and author of Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety “As a counselor I know people often get stuck in the past. Some wallow there and others make every effort to deny its effects. While Steve Viars boldly admits the importance of the past, he gives it no mystical power of causality for the redeemed. He is thoroughly biblical, pleasantly practical, and sets the record straight about how to handle your past in a God-honoring way. I challenge you to read this book with your own past in mind―then put your past in its place so you can help others do the same.” ―Garrett Higbee, executive director of Twelve Stones Ministries and team leader of counseling ministry, Harvest Bible Chapel, Rolling Meadows, IL “The Christian counseling world has waited a long time for a book that has substantive help for people who are weighed down with problems from their past. It is finally here! Steve Viars has taken a difficult issue and, aptly and with clarity, applies practical theological answers to it. You cannot read this book without being personally changed. If you are looking for solid biblical answers about your past, this is the book for you.” ―Dr. John D. Street, chair of the Master of Arts in Biblical Counseling program, The Master’s College and Seminary “The gospel promises believers the power to change, but those who’ve experienced deep pain in their past often struggle with living by faith. Pastor Steve Viars’ new book, Putting Your Past in Its Place , offers practical, compassionate, biblical help for those with painful personal histories, and for their pastors and counselors.” ―Dr. Laura Hendrickson, author, biblical counselor, psychiatrist “Steve Viars is a pastoral psychologist of the best sort: realistic, practical, and thoroughly Christian. His book really does put the past in its proper place and does so by comforting, challenging, and encouraging those who need to make peace with their past. Whether you are struggling with the past yourself or one who counsels the strugglers, you cannot read this book and not be changed.” ―Sam R. Williams, PhD, associate professor of counseling, Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Wake Forest, NC “Many of us remain paralyzed by our past even though freedom from our past was purchased on the cross. In this much-needed book, Steve Viars shows that the Bible teaches us what we need to know about learning from and disarming our past. So read well, see yourself, see Jesus, and receive His liberating grace.” ―Paul Tripp, president, Paul Tripp Ministries and author of What Did You Expect? Redeeming the Realities of Marriage “If you long to get free from your past and into the glorious future God has for you, Steve Viars and his wonderful new book, Putting Your Past in Its Place , can show you the way. It is insightful, powerful, and immensely practical. Get one for every member of your family so they can join you in this bright new future free from the pain of your past.” ―Dr. James MacDonald, senior pastor of Harvest Bible Chapel, Chicago “In Putting Your Past in its Place , experienced biblical counselor and respected Bible scholar Steve Viars seeks to answer the important question, What role does a person’s past play in his or her present-day living? Viars bases his answer not on his or any other human being’s opinion but on God’s authoritative, infallible Word. This interesting and insightful book will be of great benefit to many people. Counselors will find this book to be very helpful, as will Christians who struggle with discerning a biblical perspective.” ―Wayne Mack, professor of biblical counseling, Grace School of Ministry, Pretoria and Capetown, South Africa “As a counselor I know people often get stuck in the past. Some wallow there and others make every effort to deny its effects. While Steve Viars boldly admits the importance of the past, he gives it no mystical power of causality for the redeemed. He is thoroughly biblical, pleasantly practical, and sets the record straight about how to handle your past in a God-honoring way. I challenge you to read this book with your own past in mind―then put your past in its place so you can help others do the same.” ―Garrett Higbee, executive director of Twelve Stones Ministries and team leader of counseling ministry, Harvest Bible Chapel, Rolling Meadows, IL “Steve Viars knows the problems we face, but he also knows that the answers to our problems are found in the Bible. In Putting Your Past in its Place , he takes his wealth of experience in the pulpit and in the counseling room and applies it to the difficulties faced by those who feel shackled to their past. If you want to deal with your past and yes, put it in its proper place, then this book is for you. It is thoroughly biblical, deeply compassionate, and engagingly hopeful. Buy it!” ―Elyse Fitzpatrick, head of Women Helping Women Ministries and author of Overcoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety “As a pastor committed to providing biblical counsel, I know the challenge of helping someone whose view of the past has been largely shaped by pop psychologies (or by overreactions to them). To help us avoid the extremes of either dismissing the past or being defined by it, Steve Viars has written this compassionate, biblical, and practical guide. He shows us how to face the past with a sympathetic Savior who both suffers with us, offering healing and hope, and also forgives us completely of our sins, offering a clean conscience free from guilt and shame.” ―Mike Wilkerson, Biblical Living pastor, Mars Hill Church, and author of the forthcoming book Redemption “Steve Viars suggests four ways of considering our past that are fresh, insightful, and hope-giving. The real-life stories from past counselees clearly model how Christ and His Word are pivotal in properly understanding our past and our future potential. I was helped personally by reading this book, and now I have a wonderful new tool to use in helping others!” ―Randy Patten, executive director, National Association of Nouthetic Counselors (NANC) “This book is for anyone whose past impacts their present. Wonderful characters from the Bible come alive as Steve Viars explains how they handled their past and demonstrates how the Bible gives us everything we need to not just understand our past, but also how to deal with it, and more importantly, how to face the future with hope. Through Steve’s use of clear illustrations, helpful stories, and careful exegesis, readers will be comforted and renewed as they consider their past and make plans for their future.” ―Kevin Carson, Biblical counseling department chair, Baptist Bible Graduate School “Page after page of wisdom, compassion, and understanding await those who use Putting Your Past in Its Place to address past hurts.” ―Sam Hodges, executive producer, Church Initiative, Wake Forest, NC “For a biblical, balanced, discerning, practical, and encouraging discussion of how to deal with one’s past, Putting Your Past in Its Place is a must-read. Steve Viars draws from counseling cases and personal experience to form biblically reasoned conclusions about how we deal with past sin and suffering in a way that frees us to live in grace rather than being enslaved in self-pity, anger, and bitterness.” ―A. Charles Ware, president, Crossroads Bible College “Steve Viars takes to heart the wisdom of Ecclesiastes 7:18―‘The man who fears God will avoid all extremes.’ Based on years of pastoral ministry, he develops an approach to dealing with the past that neither maximizes nor minimizes its importance in the life of the believer. Rather, he sets forth a biblically rich and well-illustrated third way that wisely addresses past suffering and past sin and provides gospel-laden hope for the present and the future.” ―Michael R. Emlet, faculty and counselor, Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation, author of CrossTalk: Where Life and Scripture Meet “Steve Viars offers a biblical, practical, and hope-filled book on the subject of one’s past. Since we all (and those we live with) have a past that influences us in one way or another, this book is a must-read for all! Whether you are a friend wanting to help a friend, someone who is looking for victory over serious past issues, or a full-time pastor/counselor in the Master’s service, you will find Putting Your Past in Its Place an insightful and invaluable resource for real change by God’s grace and for His glory.” ―Stuart Scott, associate professor of Biblical counseling, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary “Absolutely everyone―whether they realize it or not―must deal with issues from their past. Steve Viars’s excellent book helps Christians do just that. His biblical input, his sound advice, his illustrations from his own life and others, and his effective pastoral counsel all combine to make this easily the best work on coming to grips with your past. What’s better, this book moves you past your past and into your present with a challenge to experience a robust faith in Christ, a sure hope in our heavenly Father, and a fervent love for the Holy Spirit and His truth. Where do you look in those times when your past seems to haunt you? Look no further! Steve Viars’s book will be of immense help as you work at Putting Your Past in Its Place .” ―Lance Quinn, pastor-teacher, the Bible Church of Little Rock “We take risks when we share our past with someone. Whether we reveal shameful sins or oppressive suffering, we want to trust the person who hears it. My guess is that you will trust Steve Viars in just the first couple pages. He knows suffering from his own experience and as a veteran pastor who has loved many sufferers. You’ll get lots of Scripture. You’ll meet people like yourself. And since our pasts can be complicated and muddled, you will quickly appreciate that he is so clear.” ―Edward T. Welch, faculty and counselor, Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation “Theologically sound and pastorally wise, Steve Viars brings the weighty truths and life-changing stories of Scripture to tackle the gnawing problems of both our past sins and our past sufferings. Who would have thought that the Bible could so richly help us reframe our troubled past to bring order to our present and hope for our future?” ―Robert D. Jones, author, assistant professor of Biblical counseling, Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary Stephen Viars earned his DMin degree in biblical counseling from Westminster Theological Seminary and has served as a pastor and biblical counselor for more than 20 years at Faith Baptist Church and Faith Biblical Counseling Ministries in Lafayette, Indiana. He serves as the president of the board of the Biblical Counselors Coalition, the vice president of the board ofxa0 Association of Nouthetic Counselors, and is a frequent speaker at conferences, colleges, and seminaries in the United States and abroad. Bob Kellemen, ThM, PhD, most recently served as Academic Dean, Dean of Students, and Professor of Biblical Counseling at Faith Bible Seminary in Lafayette, IN. Bob is also the founder and CEO of RPM Ministries ,xa0through which he speaks, writes, and consults on biblical counseling and Christian living. Dr. Kellemen served as the founding Executive Director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition . For 17 years, Bob was the founding chairman of and professor in the MA in Christian Counseling and Discipleship department at Capital Bible Seminary in Lanham, MD. Bob has pastored four churches and equipped biblical counselors in each one. He and his wife, Shirley, have been married for over 40 years; they have two adult children, one daughter-in-law, and three granddaughters. Dr. Kellemen is the author of twenty-three books . Read more

Features & Highlights

  • Lives grind to a halt when people don’t know how to relate to their past. Some believe “the past is nothing” and attempt to suppress the brokenness again and again. Others miss out on renewal and change by making the past
  • more
  • important than their present and future. Neither approach moves people toward healing or hope.
  • Pastor and biblical counselor Stephen Viars introduces a third way to view one’s personal history―by exploring the role of the past as God intended. Using Scripture to lead readers forward, Viars provides practical measures to
  • understand the important place “the past” is given in Scripture
  • understand the important place “the past” is given in Scripture
  • replace guilt and despair with forgiveness and hope
  • replace guilt and despair with forgiveness and hope
  • turn failures into stepping stones for growth
  • turn failures into stepping stones for growth
  • This motivating, compassionate resource is for anyone ready to review and release the past so that God can transform their behaviors, relationships, and their ability to hope in a future.

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Insightful and encouraging

Pastor Stephen Viars is a biblical counselor who has served for more than 20 years at Faith Baptist Church and Faith Biblical Counseling Ministries in Lafayette, Indiana. He has his DMin in biblical counseling, Westminster Theological Seminary, but don't let his credentials sway you. Throughout this highly practical and insightful text, Viars speaks both plainly and simply. As a pastor and counselor, his desire to mend people's lives, hearts and souls reads clearly on every page as does his passion for equipping Christians to learn how to put their past into its place.

Writes Viars, "Many of us believe either `our past is nothing' and suppress the brokenness we've experienced, or we believe `our past is everything' and allow it to control our present and future. Neither approach moves us toward healing or hope." Instead, Viars offers a third approach to viewing the past from God's larger, more scoping perspective. He explains how Christians should indeed remember their past, which is contrary to teaching in some churches, citing how valuable it is to accurately remember what happened, as Paul did, to make him a stronger and more Christ-centered man. How we remember is key, as is how we respond to our suffering.

Viars shares the vivid contrast between how Naomi viewed her suffering after losing her husband and two sons to death. She even told the women to call her "bitter," and her life evidenced this attitude for quite a while. Unlike Joseph, who was sold into slavery, falsely accused, and then sat forgotten in jail yet continued to look to God as his powerful deliverer. When God did change Joseph's circumstances for his good, he became the man God could use His way, even when confronted with his enemies, his own brothers who were the first to make him suffer. As Viars notes, how we think and remember our past does impact how we live and think and interact with God and others today.

Readers will value the various real life examples inserted throughout this resource. Especially powerful is "Jill's" story, which she shares in bits and pieces as Viars counsels her using the principles he explains in this book. Christ followers will gain specific tools to implement as Viars gives instructions on understanding the power of a person's past; dealing with the hurts of the innocent past; and handling the guilty past. He uses a "bucket" system to offer visual and concrete understanding on how a person's past choices (both good and bad) serve to impact him today. Readers will be called to look introspectively as they rehearse their past via four basic modes: authentic suffering, humble analysis, joyful remembrance, and honest self-confrontation.

Powerfully written, Viars hits the mark with every point he makes in this excellent resource, which is sure to become an instrument of hope, healing and encouragement to anyone who dares to remember.

--- Reviewed by Michele Howe, author of BURDENS DO A BODY GOOD and Women's Health & Lifestyle Writer ([...])
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A valuable resource!

Dr. Steve Viars (D.Min, Westminster) is the senior pastor of Faith Baptist Church in Lafayette, Indiana. This book is a fruit of his long counseling ministry, and his commitment to helping people from the Word of God.

The thesis of the book is that our manner of handling our problems in the present can be influenced by our past; therefore we need to ensure that we have dealt with the past biblically. His goal in the book is to help believers in Christ work through their problems in ways that are pleasing to God.

Viars begins by building a properly balanced perspective: the past is not everything, we can rise above what has happened to us; neither is the past inconsequential, it can be a collection of unfinished business that hinders moving forward.

Illustrating his points with a combination of biblical teaching and fascinating case studies, Viars shows the reader that past events can be placed into four basic categories:

1. What happened was not our fault, and we responded properly.
2. What happened was not our fault, but we responded sinfully.
3. What happened was our fault, but we responded and dealt with it properly.
4. What happened was our fault, and we responded sinfully.

The reader is encouraged to place events from the past into the appropriate "bucket." Viars then teaches how each bucket can be properly "emptied," with the result that the past becomes our friend, and not our enemy.

Viars is not a "take two bible verses and call me in the morning" kind of counselor. His treatment of these issues reveals both keen perception into human behavior and a nuanced approach to dealing with it. Viars style is warm, down-to-earth, and engaging. His writing is suffused with compassion and understanding. Extending the book's usefulness, each chapter ends with both study group and individual questions.

I highly recommend this book to two audiences: those who are wrestling with a difficult past will find it supremely helpful. Pastors, counselors, and anyone engaged in helping others will find in this book a very complete resource for assisting believers to grow in Christ. I know I will be using it in my own counseling.
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A MUST OWN ON YOUR PERSONAL AND COUNSELING LIBRARY

My wife is using this book to counsel a number of women and all of them love it. VERY biblically based, which is exactly what I expected from Steve Viars. It is not just for women. GREAT book for anyone.
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Strategic advice for Biblical Counseling

Everybody has a past, but many of us do not know how to organize our past constructively. Pastor Viars gives a Biblical perspective on how to grow and change from "the baggage" of our past, and deals with issues of the heart with insight and functional practicality. This is a tremendous tool for positive growth in the ways of God.
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Biblical Wisdom for Living

Christians who attempt to address the crucial topic of the past tend toward extremes. Not this author. Pastor Steve Viars carefully avoids the "past is nothing" and "the past is everything" mindsets. He scripturally avoids the "truth only" or "love only" approach. Instead, like the Apostle Paul, he offers you both the Scriptures and his own soul (1 Thessalonians 2:8). Whether you're struggling with the process of change related to past suffering or to past sin, Putting Your Past in Its Place provides the seasoned, compassionate, pastoral, hope-filled, biblical wisdom you need.

Dr. Viars is a master communicator, having honed the skill of relating God's truth to people's lives through decades as a pastor and biblical counselor. Those skills are on display throughout Putting Your Past in Its Place. It provides a comprehensive practical theology of the past that reads like a real-life narrative. Because it is real life--our lives as we deal daily with our past. His creative illustrations, engaging stories, personal examples, weaving in of "Jill's story," questions for personal reflection and group discussion, and his "real life testimonials" in the appendix material all result in the most reader-friendly counseling book you'll ever find.

While I highly recommend Putting Your Past in Its Place to "the person in the pew," I'm also convinced that it will be a theory-altering, practice-changing book for pastors and biblical counselors. Dr. Viars models the sufficiency of Scripture for everyday life like no one I have read. Pastors and counselors can learn from him not only how to help their parishioners and counselees to deal with the past, but even more, how to view and use the Scriptures to develop a theology and methodology for dealing with any life issue.

Reviewer: Bob Kellemen is the author of six books, including [[ASIN:0884692701 God's Healing for Life's Losses: How to Find Hope When You're Hurting (Grief Share Presents)]].
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Very Helpful

We all have a past and many times our past wants to dictate our future. Steve Viars lays out a biblical understanding of how to live in the present with a Christ like mind. This book will help you to formulate a mindset that will put the past in its proper place. I will continue to use this book personally and professionally.
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Putting Your Past In Its Place

Very deep for the average Christian searching for "a way out of troubles." However, very needed in that same Christian. I pray they will get the message. I loved the book.
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Putting Your Past In Its Place

Very deep for the average Christian searching for "a way out of troubles." However, very needed in that same Christian. I pray they will get the message. I loved the book.
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Great book!

Highly recommended for anyone trying to move ahead. Problems don't disappear but if you never deal with them you'll NEVER move ahead. This book helps put things into their RIGHT perspective.
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Five Stars

Very good read. Easy and short.
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