My Struggle: Book Two: A Man in Love
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My Struggle: Book Two: A Man in Love

Hardcover – May 14, 2013

Price
$27.00
Format
Hardcover
Pages
576
Publisher
Archipelago
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ISBN-13
978-1935744825
Dimensions
6.55 x 1.95 x 7.76 inches
Weight
1.9 pounds

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FINALIST - THE INDEPENDENT FOREIGN FICTION PRIZEA 2013 Wall Street Journal Best Book of the Year "What's notable is Karl Ove's ability, rare these days, to be fully present in and mindful of his own existence. Every detail is put down without apparent vanity or decoration, as if the writing and the living are happening simultaneously. There shouldn't be anything remarkable about any of it except for the fact that it immerses you totally. You live his life with him. . . . The overweening absurdity of Ove's title is a bad joke that keeps coming back to you as you try to construct a life worthy of an adult. How to be more present, more mindful? Of ourselves, of others? For others?" — Zadie Smith, The New York Review of Books "The book investigates the bottomless accumulation of mysteries everyday life imposes. . .xa0Knausgaard's approach is plain and scrupulous, sometimes casual, yet he never writes down. His subject is the beauty and terror of the fact that all life coexists with itself. A living hero who landed on greatness by abandoning every typical literary feint, an emperor whose nakedness surpasses royal finery." — Jonathan Lethem, The Guardian "Knausgaard doesn't always present himself as father-of-the-year material, sweating how much time he'll have to research and write his second novel and squabbling with his family and fussy neighbors in the search for some peace and quiet. . . But his candor, if not his attitude, is admirable—he's not rationalizing his behavior but flatly, honestly representing it. A patient exploration of courtship and fatherhood stripped clean of politesse." — Kirkus Reviews (Starred Review) "...reading My Struggle , you have the sense that Knausgaardxa0has made a wonderful discovery, an almost scientific innovation. My Struggle is something new, something brave..." — n + 1 "It would not be an exaggeration to say that Karl Ove Knausgaard’s six-volume memoir “My Struggle” (Archipelago Books) — of which three volumes have been translated into English — has catapulted the Norwegian writer into the rarefied company of such authors as James Joyce, Marcel Proust and Henry Miller. These writers burst forth with a new consciousness and in so doing became the voice of their generation. Years hence we will be talking about Knausgaard’s incredibly detailed memoir cycle doing the same for the late 20th century." — The Providence Journal "Knausgaard has written one of those books so aesthetically forceful as to be revolutionary ... The digressiveness of Sebald or Proust is transposed into direct, unmetaphorical language, pushing the novel almost to the edge of unreadability, where it turns out to be addicting and hypnotic. A man has written a book in which a man stays at home with his kids, and his home life isn’t trivialized or diminished but studied and appreciated, resisted and embraced. An almost Christian feeling of spiritual urgency makes even the slowest pages about squeezing lemon on a lobster into a hymn about trying to be good." -- The Paris Review "Why would you read a six-xadvolume, 3,600-page Norwegian novel about a man writing a six-xadvolume, 3,600-page Norwegian novel? The short answer is that it is breathtakingly good, and so you cannot stop yourself, and would not want to ... Arrestingly beautiful." —The New York Times Book Review "I read both books [One and Two] hungrily and find myself already missing Knausgaard just a few days after turning A Man in Love’s last page, searching the Web for inexpensive crash courses in Norwegian, mostly just wishing Volume Three were available in English now ." —Jonathan Callahan, The Millions "Achieves an aching intimacy, one that transcends the personal and makes Knausgaard’s pursuit of grand artistic ideals, his daily joys and misgivings, strangely familiar." — Time Out New York "His work ranks as one of the most memorable reading experiences of my life. There has been, for me, nothing quite like it. Karl Ove makes me see better. I have not wanted his books to end because I have not wanted to unmerge with him. He writes of longing to be back in 'the maniacal, the lonely, the happy place' he achieved while writing. In my own maniacal, lonely happiness, away from the world for a time, away from the human pull, I found comfort in knowing that, despite his deep craving for distance and work, Knausgaard remains loyal to the human world, to being open to what it offers." — Nina MacLaughlin, L.A. Review of Books "[T]he book sears the reader because Knausgaard is a passionate idealist and not just a tetchy complainer. He wants to create great art, and he wants to fight the conformity and homogeneity of modern bourgeois existence." —James Wood, The New Yorker "While not unconcerned with finding objective truth in the moments he recounts, Mr. Knausgaard aims first to simply record them, to try to shape the banal into something worth remembering. Beautifully rendered and, at times, painfully observant, his book does a superlative job of finding that 'inner core of human existence.' If his first volume was his struggle to cope with death, this is his struggle to cope with life." —xa0The Wall Street Journal "Achieves an aching intimacy, one that transcends the personal and makes Knausgaard’s pursuit of grand artistic ideals, his daily joys and misgivings, strangely familiar." — Time Out New York "That something subtitled “Book 2” might be called the most interesting literary development of the year surprises me; also surprising to me is that something I feel comfortable terming “the most interesting literary development” includes a long section detailing the narrator’s attendance at “Rhythm Time,” a music class for infants. But Book 2 (of six) of the Norwegian writer Karl Ove Knausgaard’s 3,600-page autobiographical novel of family life, “My Struggle,” reveals that the tome grows only more substantive, comical and artistically singular as it proceeds." —xa0Rivka Galchen, New York Times Book Review "A masterpiece of staggering originality, the literary event of the century ... Life here and now, examined at a fever pitch, daily recollections recounted in exhausting but exhilarating detail." — Arlice Davenport, Wichita Eagle "KARL OVE KNAUSGAARD. MY STRUGGLE. It's unbelievable. I just read 200 pages of it and I need the next volume like crack."xa0— Zadie Smith, via Twitter "A six-volume literary experiment in which a contemporary Norwegian author describes his own life may sound dull. But Knausgaard's literary experiment is both brutally honest and far from dull. Trust me, it'll be worth waiting for volumes three through six to appear in English translation." — Jo Nesbo, in The Week (one of Jo Nesbo's six favorite books)" Karl Ove Knausgaard continues to astound, with this second volume concentrating on his marriage and his art. Sometimes it’s marriage versus art, and that friction gives this book a terrific range of emotions. Conversations with his friends provide a good view into the different ways Norwegians and Swedes go about life. Is it fiction? Memoir? No one could remember verbatim the conversations recounted at length here, and that, too, is as fine a balancing act as Knausgaard’s depiction of himself as writer and father/husband."xa0— Jeff Bursey, in Conversational Reading "Quite simply this is one of the best novels ever written." — Tyler Cowen, professor of economics at George Mason University and co-author of the Marginal Revolution blog, in Bloomberg "The way in which Knausgaard seeks to expose the dark, regressive aspects of his own character within the context of a life that is, in most respects, quite ordinary is precisely what allows these books to transcend their narrowly personal foundations." — Sydney Review of Books "Volumes 1 and 2 of Karl Ove Knausgård's epic novel/memoir My Struggle (Harvill Secker) blew me away: totally immersive, collapsing the wall between author and reader as you live his life alongside him. It's somehow triumphant and redemptive – and powerfully addictive – even as it recounts the most apparently mundane aspects of life. He's a genius." —xa0Simon Prosser, Publisher, Hamish Hamilton, in The Guardian "Second in a six-volume magnum opus that Archipelago has bravely committed to bring us, this magisterial work gives us a character named Karl Ove Knausgaard who abandons his wife, moves to Stockholm, and discovers new love—and the travails of starting a new family." — Library Journal (Best Fiction in Translation 2013) "Both Knausgaard’s Proustian style and the fact that his work is one long book stretched out into many volumes, just likexa0In Search of Lost Time, should signal that it’s a literary event the likes of which we probably will not see again in our lifetimes.xa0. . .xa0Unlike almost every other work of art released in the 21st century, Knausgaard’s massive book is an ongoing cultural event that we’re being afforded the opportunity to savor." — Jason Diamond, Flavorwire "...The structure of Vol 2 is intricate and fascinating ...xa0Knausgaard strings out for the length of the entire volume this utterly hilarious and tabloid-level fascinating story ... the sort of an anecdote that Knausgaard tells like nobody else can. (Oh, and on that subject, the section where Knausgaard’s wife gives birth to their first child is simplyxa0AMAZING; it is long and drawn out and excruciating and simply shows realist writing at its very, very best. I think I almost fainted.)" — Scott Esposito, Three Percent Karl Ove Knausgaard was born in Norway in 1968. His debut novel Out of This World won the Norwegian Critics Prize in 2004 and his A Time for Everything (Archipelago) was a finalist for the Nordic Council Prize. For My Struggle Book One , Knausgaard received the Brage Award in 2009, the 2010 Book of the Year Prize in Morgenbladet , and the P2 Listeners’ Prize. My Struggle has been translated into more than fifteen languages. Knausgaard lives in Sweden with his wife and three children.

Features & Highlights

  • Book Two of the six-volume literary masterwork
  • My Struggle
  • flows with the same raw energy and candor that ignited the series’ unprecedented bestselling run in Scandinavia, a virulent controversy, and an avalanche of literary awards. Knausgaard breaks down lived experience into its elementary particles, revealing the wounds and epiphanies of a truly examined life. Walking away from everything he knows in Bergen, Karl Ove finds himself in Stockholm, where he waits for the next stretch of the road to reveal itself. He strikes up a deep friendship with another exiled Norwegian, a boxing fanatic and intellectual named Geir. He reconnects with Linda, a vibrant poet who had captivated him at a writers’ workshop years earlier, and the shape of his world changes. Book Two exposes the inner landscape of a man falling in love and the fraught joys and impossible predicaments he faces as a new father. We look on as he watches his life unfold. Love, rage, and beauty flood these pages. Knausgaard writes with exhilarating honesty and insight about the collection of moments that make up a life – the life of someone with an irrepressible need to write, of someone for whom art and the natural world are physical needs, of someone for whom death is always standing in the corner, of someone who craves solitude and love from the depths of his being.

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"A Gaze You Could Meet"

Knausgaard's writes about everyday life. But for him, daily routines and duties are endured rather than enjoyed. "So the life I led was not my own," he says. "I tried to make it mine. This was my struggle."

His book is personal, profound and quotidian; it is also a journal rather than a true novel. The author shares his disrespect for fictional writing and documentary narrative, both of which, he contends, have no value. Instead, he argues that diaries and essays confer meaning because they consist of "the voice of your own personality, a life, a face, a gaze you could meet."

The author's gaze in My Struggle looks upon the details of daily life and uses them to illuminate the larger themes of love, friendship, marriage, parenthood, Swedish versus Norwegian lifestyle, art and the act of creation, mortality and how to prepare meals for toddlers. The strongest part of the book is in the opening 200 pages in which Karl Ove acts as husband and father; loving both roles but struggling greatly in the daily acts that make those roles a reality. He experiences feelings of helplessness and anger in a painful visit to Fairy Tale Land. His loss of masculine self-image is felt when he cannot get his wife out of a locked bathroom at a party. A pitiful effort to maintain space from other people as he reads in a coffee shop displays his feelings of alienation. The inability to resolve conflict in a civilized Swedish environment is obvious in a conflict with a neighbor over loud music. The pressure to spend time with people whose only relationship to him is that their children know each other is developed in a scene at a child's birthday party. In sum, these feelings that there is a more authentic life from which Knausgaard has been outcast culminate in his attendance with his child at Rhythm Time class. As he is forced to sing with other parents, Karl Ove thinks, "I had forfeited everything that was me."

There are brilliant passages in My Struggle as well as long sections when the reader must bear with the author's gaze at the details of non-events. The latter inform the former, however, and most often reward the patient reader.

Knausgaard is sincere in his struggle and realizes that indifference is the greatest of the seven deadly sins "because it is the only one that sins against life." His journal recognizes the need to somehow both surmount and enjoy the quotidian, while maintaining touch with the ideal. The reader who joins the author in his struggle is rewarded by a journal elevated to the level of art. For, asks the author, "What is a work of art if not the gaze of another person?..You meet it's gaze alone."
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Universal

Having just finished My Struggle book II I find myself agreeing with another reviewer in that it was unputdownable. My question that I keep coming back to though is why? What makes these books so compelling and readable? At first this one actually started out a bit slow for me; the first 20-30 pages I started to feel a bit bored but then before I even knew it I was sucked in again into Karl Ove’s world. The writing is good, but to be honest it’s nothing extraordinary. There is a certain visceral honesty and unforgiving openness that draws the reader into this fascinating but altogether ordinary world where he deals with love, family, children, friends, parties, alcoholic neighbor, and some of the struggle that comes with fame. A part of me cringes at how honest and ruthless he can be in his descriptions of his kids and their Mom and I can only wonder the effect it had on his relationship afterwards. At the same time one has to respect someone who is that honest and open with their feelings; his book is almost like a heavy dose of reality TV only all the action takes place inside his head. I also think another part of the appeal is that it’s so foreign. It takes place in Norway and Sweden and I find myself wondering from time to time if I would feel this compelled to follow his life and thoughts if it took place in Nebraska or even in Chicago or New York? A big part of me I think was intrigued by how someone in Norway and Sweden lives. It strikes home the point that no matter where we live, what country what city, we are all basically the same in that we all struggle with the same fears, anxieties over family and jobs and children and love; the struggle that Karl Ove describes is universal. Can't wait for book III!
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Fantastic

People have compared him to Proust. I agree but only in the scope of the novel...this is very modern, but as honest as Proust in the detail and depth of feeling. I love knausgaard's searing authenticity. Every sentence rings true as a bell,and I have found myself in tears several times in the first two volumes. I can't wait for the next installment in English! There is something sobering about these books, but he does have a sense of humor (for a Norweigian) and I have laughed out loud as well while reading this.
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Unputdownable

Book II of the series. Book III is not out yet in English (in the US) so I should slow down reading this book, but I cannot stop. Knausgaard shows all the ambiguities in our relationships with our partners, friends, family. This novel is utterly mesmerizing.
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The struggle continues, masterfully

After reading Volume 1 of the six volume My Struggle, I could hardly wait for Volume 2. For once my enthusiasm was rewarded. The first third of Knausgaard's six book opus is extremely well done. Volume 2 is a distinctive work in form, in descriptive power, in insight into character, in sensibility, and in depth and breadth of vision. Also well translated by Don Bartlett.

I only hope that the difficulties of the form do not give this work too limited an audience. This book is not an easy read, but the effort made to comprehend it is very rewarding. Knausgaard switches quickly from scene to scene, goes back and forth in time, and zooms in and out on particular characters and motifs. You have to focus and pay close attention or you can easily get lost.

Coupled with that is his amazing descriptive power. The author has a telling eye for detail. Whether it is a meal, a walk through downtown Stockholm, the living area of someone's apartment, he gets it all right in precise, deftly realized detail. The reader feels that he is there. While the form is hardly "realistic" in the conventional sense, the description is as naturalistic as anything Zola or a writer of that stripe would have offered. It all seems accurate as well. Having been to Stockholm a number of times, this reviewer can vouch for the accuracy of the rendering of the locale where most of the book is set. The streets are accurately named and placed. I have shopped in the bookstore that Karl Ove frequents in the downtown shopping center, Stureplan, on Birger Jarlsgatan. It is all there.

But these things, as well done as they are, are mere parlor tricks compared to the feat Knausgaard has pulled off in portraying the characters psychologically. I don't think the title does the book justice. It is not just about a man in love, it is about a man growing into maturity, meeting and falling in love with (yes), the woman with whom he has three children, and taking more and more responsibility for himself as he actualizes himself as a father, husband and writer. Karl Ove and Linda, the wife, are imperfect human beings, but so lovingly and accurately rendered. We see playing out here exactly what Karl Ove tells us his struggle is: to connect meaningfully with the world and the people around him even while he has a strong tug in the other direction, towards introversion and self-involvement. And as the book progresses, Karl Ove realizes and helps us realize just what he is becoming as a responsible, although always imperfect human being.

Toward the end of the book, Karl Ove opines that in showing us himself and in our knowing him we can come to know ourselves and the world around us. As I said in reviewing Volume 1 of My Struggle, this reminds me of Montaigne, the Renaissance essayist. That is what he did, ever so expertly, and Knausgaard does it as well.

This is not Proust. We are not sitting around sipping tea and savoring the taste of madeleines. Nor are we in search of lost time or time past. We are at a New Year's dinner party, or in Pelikanen, here and now, the Stockholm bar and restaurant that Karl Ove and Geir, his pal, frequent, working out just who they and we are and who we and they want to be as we go down the road of life, into the future.

A bonus: Karl Ove throws in his insights on Dostoevsky, on the Norwegian poet Olav H. Hauge, on Holderlin and a host of other writers. It is rewarding and educational. I have added to my must read list. You will too.

This is an amazing achievement. I recommend it wholeheartedly.
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Who Knew It Would Be Interesting!

It's difficult to categorize this book, not a novel, more a memoir, but really Knausgaard's extended conversation with himself that has been published for any and all to read.

If I say that this is just the author's "struggle" with the trivia and banalities of life, this doesn't half describe the book; "My Struggle" also encompasses Knausgaard's thinking on a wide range of subjects from pop culture to philosophy.

Volume 2 covers the author's life from his twenties to age forty, but, of course, in his mind's meanderings he remembers scenes from his boyhood,also.

Other reviewers have said that Knausgaard can spend an inordinate amount of time ( many pages) on a meal, for example. This isn't technically the case because although the starting point may be the meal, the author digresses into any number of other subjects. Much like life in real time. We're doing one thing and remembering another and then another. Some seemingly unrelated to anything we'd expect.

Some of the things that captured me about the author were his vulnerability, his mood swings and his passion for writing. Regarding the mood swings, Knausgaard can vary between despair and elation very quickly. Actually, it's a study to see how these intense feelings are moderated as Knausgaard grows older, has children and stops binge drinking-- at least as much as he had as a younger adult. However, he's still driven into rages by his wife's everyday, ordinary actions, especially. All the more so because he's desperately in love with her-- the main adult in his life.

Just touching on his writing, he cannot live without it!! If you would ask him what he wants to do with his life,his time, his response would be that he wants above all to sequester himself in his office and write non- stop.

Along with Knausgaard's interior and exterior life, we learn in a non-pedantic, almost incidental, way about Sweden and Norway and the mainly cultural differences between them. Sweden as more urbane and urban. Norway as more wild and rural. ( Of course, these are generalities; we learn about more specific differences, too.)

Why should you read this--a book that, perhaps, has more relevance in Norway? Because it doesn't really. Knausgaard is every one of us---just more so.
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Not interesting for me.

I just could not get into it, due to much rambling.
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One Star

hated it but forced myself to finish it!
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Nice reading book.

I like this book. It is a great shape and it’s long. It is an enjoyable reading book. I’ve been reading it through the library and wanted my own copy because it is enjoyable to read. Not the kind of book that you want to rush through. Kind of a rainy day, long weekend, Sunday morning with a cup of coffee and a nice book kind of read.
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Five Stars

enjoying the series - the book was in excellent condition