Mennonite in a Little Black Dress: A Memoir of Going Home
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Mennonite in a Little Black Dress: A Memoir of Going Home

Audio CD – Unabridged, October 13, 2009

Price
$7.39
Publisher
HighBridge Audio
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1598879070
Dimensions
6.4 x 1.1 x 5.3 inches
Weight
8.3 ounces

Description

“Janzen is always ready to gently turn the humor back on herself . . . and women will immediately warm to the self-deprecating honesty with which she describes the efforts of friends and family to help her re-establish her emotional well-being.”― Publishers Weekly [starred review]“Hillary Huber's narration has a sharp edge that deals effectively with the ironic humor that runs throughout this memoir.”xa0xa0xa0xa0xa0xa0― AudioFile “Wonderfully intelligent and frank . . . snort-up-your-coffee funny, breezy yet profound, and poetic without trying.”xa0xa0xa0xa0xa0xa0―Kate Christensen, New York Times HILLARY HUBER had hundreds of commercial voiceovers and promos under her belt when she was bitten by the audiobook bug in 2005. She now records books on a regular basis and delights in the tradition of long form storytelling.RHONDA JANZEN holds a PhD from the University of California, Los Angeles, where she was the University of California Poet Laureate in 1994 and 1997. She is the author of Babel’s Stair , a collection of poems, and her poems have also appeared in Poetry, The Yale Review, The Gettysburg Review , and The Southern Review . She teaches English and creative writing at Hope College in Holland, Michigan. From AudioFile Hillary Huber's narration has a sharp edge that deals effectively with the ironic humor that runs throughout this memoir. Years into her marriage to an abusive, bipolar man, Janzen ultimately loses him--to a man he met on the Internet. She turns to her Mennonite upbringing to help see her through and ends up moving back home with her parents, a move that prompts her to look at the Mennonite religion and culture with fresh eyes. Janzen's husband's defection obviously had a profound effect on her, and Huber recites her frequent references to "Bob" from gay.com almost like a mantra. In other places, Huber's tone aptly depicts Janzen's habit of coping through humor and introspection. J.E.M. © AudioFile 2009, Portland, Maine Read more

Features & Highlights

  • A hilarious and moving memoir in the spirit of Anne Lamott and Nora Ephron about a woman who returns home to her Mennonite family after a personal crisis.The same week her husband of 15 years ditches her for a guy he met on Gay.com, a partially inebriated teenage driver smacks her VW Beetle head-on. Marriage over, body bruised, life upside-down, Rhoda does what any sensible 43-year-old would do: She goes home.But hers is not just any home. It's a Mennonite home, the scene of her painfully uncool childhood and the bosom of her family: handsome but grouchy Dad, plain but cheerful Mom. Drinking, smoking, and slumber parties are nixed; potlucks, prune soup, and public prayer are embraced. Having long ago left the faith behind, Rhoda is surprised when the conservative community welcomes her back with open arms-and offbeat advice. She discovers that this safe, sheltered world is the perfect place to come to terms with her failed marriage and the choices that both freed and entrapped her.

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Mennonite in a Little Black Dress

For some reason the book did not keep my interest and the story was disconnected.
7 people found this helpful
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Fabulous summer read! Or any other season too.

Perhaps buying the audio version of this book wasn't the best idea because it proved hazardous to my driving. It's hard to concentrate on negotiating traffic when you're laughing so hard you're practically incontinent! Janzen made me wish I'd grown up Mennonite just so I'd have such great stories to tell. I particularly loved her descriptions of traditional Mennonite comfort foods with odd names and equally odd ingredients. Her passage about an old German ditty involving a soldier and a warm potato salad reduced me to helpless tears of laughter. Fortunately, I was in a parking lot at the time, and therefore was not endangering anyone on the freeway.
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Very funny, nurses will love it!

After reading the New York Times Book Review of this book, I bought the Kindle edition and after getting into the book a bit, I thought it so funny that I bought the hard cover edition for my youngest daughter who is a Nurse-Anesthetist. Why? Because the authors mother is a nurse and the theme of nursing appears throughout the book and adds to its humor. The author isn't what I concieved of as a Mennonite and at the end of the book she provides a brief but enlightening description of Mennonites and how they differ from other Protestant sects. If you need an uplifting read, buy this book!
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enlightening

I laughed until I cried. A lovely way to laugh at yourself and realize that you are normal (in your own little world).
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Simply Awful

Fortunately, I bought this book at the local SPCA so at least my dollar went for a good cause. I'm so sorry for those of you who paid full price. Also, I am using the book for kindling when we go camping; I would feel horrible if I made it possible for some other human to read this by donating it.

Since this book is a memoir, I can only fathom that the author is shallow, shameless, immature (how much of this ridiculous book deals with bodily functions?) and desperate to get some stamp of approval for her schooling. (I would write "education" but that would indicate she had learned something.) Half way through the book the author had mentioned "I'm a scholar" or some such variation on the same theme so often that I started to visualize the witch in the Wizard of Oz and her "I'm melting" scene except I imagined Ms Janzen screeching "I'm educated." Yes, Rhoda, we know you are a "scholar" and we're all impressed. Please, let it go now.

The only thought I came away with from reading this book is that there seems to be a great market for drivel and the author was willing to sell her decency to compete.

Reading this book is an absolutely worthless way to spend time. If you can't find another book to read, go, walk a dog. Clean out the fridge. Just don't buy this book.
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Mennonite in a Little Black Dress.

It has some funny parts. She discovered that some of her best things in life were her worst things and vise versa.
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Amazing!

This book had me laughing until I cried so many times I lost count! Her book is full of wit and humor that is unexpected to say the least! I would highly recommend this book to anyone that wants a laugh!
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Great Book which teaches us a lot

Rhoda Janzen is a hoot. She is so honest and candid that you want to laugh out loud while listening to this audio tape. It was interesting to learn about what it is like to be a Mennonite and what it is like being married to a gay man.
Rhoda is so talented and funny - I can't wait to read her next book. If you want to be entertained, I highly recommend this recording.