Memoirs of a Happy Failure
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Memoirs of a Happy Failure

Hardcover – June 1, 2014

Price
$19.95
Format
Hardcover
Pages
200
Publisher
Saint Benedict Press
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1618901262
Dimensions
5.75 x 0.75 x 8.75 inches
Weight
14.7 ounces

Description

"This intimate, poignant memoir demonstrates the power of placing one's trust in God and therein finding the strength to endure suffering and transform lives. xa0 Lily Von Hildebrand has done just that. xa0She is a treasure, and her story a must-read.” —Raymond Arroyo, New York Times Best Selling Author of Mother Angelica and the Kerman Derman Chronicles . EWTN News Managing Editor.xa0"Just as she is herself, Alice von Hildebrand's memoir of her years at Hunter College is a glistering, brilliant, priceless gem. She is so witty, wise, and indefatigable in her stand for Truth that simply to be in her presence, whether in the classroom or in the vital pages of this book, is to be profoundly inspired. I am only grieved it is not much longer and sorry it wasn't published years ago. Her voice is a matchless gift: edifying, galvanizing, and wildly entertaining.” xa0xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0—Eric Metaxas, New York Times Bestselling author of Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy and host of Socrates in the City xa0“Memoirs of a Happy Failure fill us with gratitude for the gift of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand’s life in Christ, lived with so much integrity and vigor over many years, as she has tirelessly given witness to the truth by both her example and her teaching. xa0Especially noteworthy are the chapters of her memoirs which treat the challenges she faced during her thirty-seven years of teaching at Hunter College. xa0Amidst the often difficult challenges, she experienced the incomparable blessing of students inspired, through the knowledge of truth gained in her philosophy courses, to seek Him who is Truth and to receive the gift of faith in Christ Who alone is our salvation. xa0Dr. von Hildebrand was a highly competent professor who truly loved her students and, therefore, rejoiced, above all, when they came to the truth at its living source in God – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. xa0I am confident that Memoirs of a Happy Failure, by which Dr. Alice von Hildebrand recounts her life and work as a philosopher, will encourage the reader, and particularly all teachers, to be steadfast in speaking and living “the truth in love” (Cf. Eph 4:15).”xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0 xa0—His Eminence Raymond Leo Cardinal Burke, Prefect of the Apostolic Signatura "This intimate, poignant memoir demonstrates the power of placing one's trust in God and therein finding the strength to endure suffering and transform lives. xa0Lily Von Hildebrand has done just that. xa0She is a treasure, and her story a must-read.” —Raymond Arroyo, New York Times Best Selling Author of Mother Angelica and the Kerman Derman Chronicles . EWTN News Managing Editor "Just as she is herself, Alice von Hildebrand's memoir of her years at Hunter College is a glistering, brilliant, priceless gem. She is so witty, wise, and indefatigable in her stand for Truth that simply to be in her presence, whether in the classroom or in the vital pages of this book, is to be profoundly inspired. I am only grieved it is not much longer and sorry it wasn't published years ago. Her voice is a matchless gift: edifying, galvanizing, and wildly entertaining.” xa0xa0—Eric Metaxas, New York Times Bestselling author of Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy and host of Socrates in the Cityxa0“ Memoirs of a Happy Failure fill us with gratitude for the gift of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand’s life in Christ, lived with so much integrity and vigor over many years, as she has tirelessly given witness to the truth by both her example and her teaching. xa0Especially noteworthy are the chapters of her memoirs which treat the challenges she faced during her thirty-seven years of teaching at Hunter College. xa0Amidst the often difficult challenges, she experienced the incomparable blessing of students inspired, through the knowledge of truth gained in her philosophy courses, to seek Him who is Truth and to receive the gift of faith in Christ Who alone is our salvation. xa0Dr. von Hildebrand was a highly competent professor who truly loved her students and, therefore, rejoiced, above all, when they came to the truth at its living source in God – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. xa0I am confident that Memoirs of a Happy Failure, by which Dr. Alice von Hildebrand recounts her life and work as a philosopher, will encourage the reader, and particularly all teachers, to be steadfast in speaking and living “the truth in love” (Cf. Eph 4:15).”xa0—His Eminence Raymond Leo Cardinal Burke, Prefect of the Apostolic Signaturaxa0xa0“Thanks are due to the distinguished philosopher and theologian Alice von Hildebrand for this illuminating xa0glimpse into her joys and struggles as a woman and a Catholic over four eventful decades in the American academic world. xa0Her love of truth shines forth on every page of this fascinating personal Memoir.”xa0—Mary Ann Glendon, Learned Hand Professor of Law, Harvard University

Features & Highlights

  • Alice von Hildebrand is a household name to many who know her from her countless EWTN appearances, her  books, and her extensive articles and essays. What is little known is the story of her life, notably the thirty-seven years she spent at Hunter College in New York City. There, despite systematic opposition she left  a mark on a generation of students through her defense of truth with reason, wit, and love. By showing her students how truth fulfills the deepest longings of the heart, she liberated countless students from the oppressive relativism of the day, enabling many of them to find their way to God. Now, for the first time, discover the details of Alice von Hildebrand’s life as a "Happy Failure," including:   ·         her thrilling escape from Europe that was nearly halted by a Nazi sub ·         her early days in America and her dedication to education and cultivating wisdom ·         her marriage to the great philosopher Dietrich von Hildebrand, ·         her victories and defeats at Hunter where she combated a culture of relativism ·         and much more…
  • Memoirs of a Happy Failure
  • is a fascinating and essential glimpse into the life of one of contemporary Catholicism’s most compelling minds. It is the story of courage, faith, and the grace of God acting in the world.

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A memoir that reflects the struggle between moral relativism and objective truth

When I first came across Alice Von Hildebrand while watching Mother Angelica Live I was rapidly impressed with her. Her quick wit, intelligence, and common sense was a delight. Since then I have been interested in what she had to say. Around the same time I became acquainted with the works of her late husband Dietrich Von Hildebrand. I have by no means fully dipped into all his works, but I want to go further. His Transformation in Christ is a book I dearly love.

When her biography of her husband came out The Soul of a Lion: The Life of Dietrich von Hildebrand I quickly attained and read it. Such an amazing story and an equally amazing man. You would think somebody who was a named enemy of Hitler would have his story more well known. There is at least a new book out called My Battle Against Hitler: Faith, Truth, and Defiance in the Shadow of the Third Reich.

When I read Soul of a Lion I wondered about his later years since the story ends, as I remember, after his escape and ultimately ending up in New York. Some of this is covered in Alice Von Hildebrand’s new book Memoirs of a Happy Failure. While this autobiography does go into how she met her future husband and some of her life with him, she is mostly quiet on her personal life in this regard except when there are interactions with her students.

What this book does cover is her life growing up in Belgium before World War II and her subsequent move to the United States during the war. The book starts out with her on a ship headed for New York that was threatened by a German sub with orders to evacuate before being sunk. I was quite interested in her descriptions of being raised in a very Catholic culture and the descriptions of her family members including the roles they played during the war. There were differences in both sides of her family that caused some tension.

The large majority of this book covers her years as a teacher at Hunter College which is part of the City University of New York. This was to be where she ended up teaching philosophy throughout her career. Now having heard her speak I was aware of the difficulties she had regarding students versed in moral relativism as she taught the objectivity of truth. I just didn’t realize that this was a continual philosophical battle.

What shouldn’t have surprised me is that this was rather minor considering even worse problems with the other faculty and those above her. The stories she relates regarding how she was treated by her fellow academics in such a pitiless back-biting manner raises your ire as she relates them. A Darwinian survival of the fittest where the fittest meant you had the right politics and sneer regarding subjective truth. Part of this was due to her being a women, but no doubt a lot of it was due to her being Catholic or really for being a faithful Catholic. Academics have no problem with Catholics just as long as they don’t believe that stuff. She describes how her education as taught by nuns little prepared her for such an atmosphere of prejudice and ill will.

What I enjoyed most was her stories of students. It was quite obvious her love of teaching and her love of her students. There are many wonderful stories regarding the opposition she got and when the truth of what she was saying clicked with many of her students. Even stories of students converting to the Catholic Church despite the fact that she never talked about the Church at all in her lectures. Not all the stories regarding her students go well and some are rather sad. Still there were several that came into the orbit of her personal life along with her husband. Despite the opposition she was getting from the school and the many attempts to sabotage her career and to force her to leave, she endured. It must have really annoyed them the number of students who elected to take her classes over other philosophy professors more in tune with the zeitgeist.

The title of her autobiography is quite apt. From the measure of the academic world she was mostly a failure. From the measure of her students that was not correct and even ultimately the school had to grudgingly admit this. I enjoyed the good humor she uses as she relates all these episodes. Experiences that might leave many bitter, yet her happiness shines through along with her love of the truth.

On a side note this book provides another example to me regarding the cultural revolution of the sixties. In that it was not as if everything was in good condition before then and that this was a sudden revolution. Her examples of attitudes in the 1950’s show just how much the culture was infected with moral relativism and that it was even worse in academia. Cultural termites had already weakened the foundations of the culture.
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Delightful read

I had the pleasure of seeing Alice Von Hilderbrand speak and have been an admirer since... so this review might be biased :)
I found this matter of fact memoir of her day in and day out life interesting. While not a 'formula' it does provide an illustration of living ones principles in a the 'real' world. Smatterings of wisdom and philosophy throughout.
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Comments from a Happy Reader

I had heard Alice von Hildebrand speak in 1993, and I had read two of her other books, but I didn't really know anything about her life. I really enjoyed reading these memoirs, and I was encouraged by her example of faithfully persevering through the many "failures" or challenges of her life. Before I had even finished the book, I hurried and ordered another copy to give to a friend for Christmas. Alice von Hildebrand positively affected the lives of many students over the years, and she is continuing to positively affect her readers today.
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Great read!

This was a very interesting book. As a former educator I can totally related to the experiences of the writer. I definitely recommend it as a good read. Also the history that is included is also thought provoking. It shows the parallel of what is happening today.
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Five Stars

I admire her ability to teach truth, when it is not wanted.
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Five Stars

I enjoyed this book very much. I love her quick mind and sense of humor.
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Excellent story

This book covers the life of an exceptional woman. I was moved by her story and admire the way Dr. Von Hildebrand managed challenging circumstances. Her faith filled life demonstrates her strength and courage and trust in God. There is much to learn by reading about her life.
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Four Stars

a very interesting story.
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Five Stars

as expected, delivery on time
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I was very pleased with the background history of this incredible women

I was very pleased with the background history of this incredible women. I've read many of the books written by her husband as well. I was looking forward to reading her Memoirs and was not disappointed.