MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From a Narcissist

"I have read a lot of different suggestions or advice on how to deal with a narcissistic spouse. What makes Lindsey's book different is it attacks the problem head-on and it does so through a calm and focused communication that puts out the emotional fires. In some respects, it is an effective way to communicate about any problem, but especially when dealing with a personality disorder on the other side." B. Robert Farzad California divorce attorney. "This is a gem of a how-to book that will prove to be a valuable resource for anyone who has suffered from narcissistic abuse.xa0 I appreciate Lindsey's straight forward and logical manner that she explains the problem while simultaneously describing the solutions.xa0 Her question answer format will connect to the reader who is dire need of information and solutions.xa0 Not only will the reader sense Lindsey's heart and passion, it is quite clear that her expertise may very well change their life." Ross Rosenberg , M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT.xa0xa0xa0YouTube sensation and Best-selling Author of Human Magnet Syndrome books. This book is for the reader who has been struggling with a narcissist in his or her life for a long time and who already has a substantive understanding of all the behaviors associated with this mind-boggling disorder. This book is intended to help you look at your narcissist through a different lens and provide a healthier (and hopeful) perspective on your difficult situation. Narcissists are bullies and resort to pathetic, child-like tactics when they don't get their way. Yet it baffles me that despite their juvenile behavior, we are still intimidated by them and feel powerless against them. Remember this: children do not fully understand logic, therefore, neither do narcissists. Instead, they respond to simple, carefully-selected words that make them think they are getting their way. Create a strategy. Use your words. Stay within the MAGIC . Power Play: Out Smart, Out Maneuver and Utterly Confound a Narcissist If you are locked into a relationship with a narcissist, such as anxa0employer, a high conflict partner, an ex-spouse with shared custody, or perhaps a family member, this book is for you. Based upon years of research and experience coaching victims of narcissistic abuse, Lindsey Ellison has masterminded a communication strategy that will allow you to protect your interests without conflict or drama. Lindsey has created a deft, intelligently-crafted script you can use to neutralize the power struggle. Her practical, step-by-step guide offers simple, yet life-changing strategies that inspire cooperation. This book provides templates for communication that deescalate and neutralize previously combative and emotionally-charged exchanges. Whether you communicate via text, e-mail, or in-person, "MAGIC Words" will offer you the chance to influence the dynamic between you and your narcissist for the better. Lindsey Ellison is an author, a relationship coach and founder of Start Over Coaching, Inc . She specializes in helping people break free from narcissistic abuse, navigate their divorce or break-up, and find happiness and peace. Originally stemming from her own personal experiences, Lindsey's mission is to inspire you to make those amazing changes in your life to help you start over and find happiness. She takes you from victim to victor. She can be found at LindseyEllison.com or via her best-selling online course, BreakFreeFromYourNarcissist.com. Read more