Love Letters to the Dead: A Novel
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Love Letters to the Dead: A Novel

Hardcover – April 1, 2014

Price
$17.55
Format
Hardcover
Pages
336
Publisher
Farrar, Straus and Giroux
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ISBN-13
978-0374346676
Dimensions
5.78 x 1.16 x 8.48 inches
Weight
14.7 ounces

Description

From School Library Journal Gr 9 Up—Debut author Dellaira's heart-wrenching epistolary novel begins with Laurel's freshman assignment to write a letter to a dead person. She starts with a missive to Kurt Cobain, who had been a favorite of her recently deceased older sister, May. Gradually, through the teen's letters to other dead celebrities (Janis Joplin, Amelia Earhart, River Phoenix, and more), readers will begin to piece together the history of her splintered family life, including her parents' divorce and mother's virtual abandonment following May's unexplained death. Laurel is devastatingly, emotionally fragile, but she makes friends at her new high school and even starts to develop a serious love interest. Her misconstrued hero-worship of May gradually evolves into a deeper understanding of her beloved sister's strengths and many imperfections. Beautifully written, although a bit choppy in sections, particularly regarding the dead addressees' lives, this powerful novel deftly illustrates the concept that writing is an especially valuable form of healing for those dealing with overwhelming pain and grief. Best for teens who enjoyed Stephen Chbosky's The Perks of Being a Wallflower (MTV, 1999).—Susan Riley, Mamaroneck Public Library, NY From Booklist *Starred Review* The assignment: write a letter to someone who is dead. Laurel falls into this classroom task deeper than she could have ever imagined, writing to deceased stars like Kurt Cobain, Amelia Earhart, Judy Garland, River Phoenix, Janis Joplin, Jim Morrison, Amy Winehouse, and others whose lives ended as abruptly as Laurel’s older sister’s did. Her methodology expands beyond simply writing to the dead. Rather, she researches each recipient, learning about their lives in order to make each letter relatable to the intended party. These quite savvy letters become Laurel’s way of working through her emotions as she begins high school, makes new friends, deals with a crumbling family, falls in love, and continues to grieve for the loss of her sister. With the help of her fantasy correspondence, she is able to find common ground, express herself, and eventually discover the messages and lessons of the deceased addressee’s lives—as well as her own. Well paced and cleverly plotted, this debut uses a fresh, new voice to tell a sometimes sad, sometimes edgy, but always compelling narrative. Fans of Sarah Dessen and Jenny Han, get ready. Grades 7-10. --Jeanne Fredriksen One of Cosmopolitan Magazine's 125 Best YA Books Everyone Should Read, Regardless of Age “Reminiscent of Chbosky's The Perks of Being a Wallflower , this is powerfully emotional stuff.” ― BCCB “Dellaira's characters are authentically conceived and beautifully drawn.” ― The Horn Book “Best for teens who enjoyed Stephen Chbosky's The Perks of Being a Wallflower. ” ― School Library Journal “Laurel and her friends' struggles and hard-won successes are poignant, and seeing Laurel begin to forgive herself and May is extremely moving.” ― Publishers Weekly “I simply loved this book. Love Letters to the Dead is more than a stunning debut. It is the announcement of a bold new literary voice.” ― Stephen Chbosky, author of The Perks of Being a Wallflower “A brilliant story about the courage it takes to keep living after your world falls apart. A heart-wrenching celebration of love and friendship and family.” ― Laurie Halse Anderson, author of Speak “With beautiful observations of where life can take us, from grieving to celebrating, disappointment to wonder, LOVE LETTERS TO THE DEAD is a love letter to living.” ― Jay Asher, author of 13 Reasons Why “Dear Ava Dellaira: Your book broke my heart, and pieced it back together. As with Kurt, Janis, Amelia and the others who are gone but still somehow here, LOVE LETTERS TO THE DEAD leaves an indelible mark.” ― Gayle Forman, author of If I Stay “As wondrous--and as fearless--as a shooting star.” ― Lauren Myracle, author, The Winnie Years “Riveting, captivating, utterly disarming. I could not put this book down! LOVE LETTERS TO THE DEAD is like discovering a shoebox full of notes addressed to someone else. I read fast, afraid I'd be caught peeking at something I wasn't ever supposed to see. A voyeuristic delight!” ― Siobhan Vivian, author of The List “Effective and satisfyingly heartbreaking.” ― Kirkus Reviews Ava Dellaira is a graduate of the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, where she was a Truman Capote Fellow. She grew up in Albuquerque, New Mexico, andxa0received her undergraduate degree from the University of Chicago . Love Letters to the Dead is her debut novel. She currently lives in Santa Monica Read more

Features & Highlights

  • It begins as an assignment for English class: Write a letter to a dead person. Laurel chooses Kurt Cobain because her sister, May, loved him. And he died young, just like May did. Soon, Laurel has a notebook full of letters to people like Janis Joplin, Amy Winehouse, Amelia Earhart, Heath Ledger, and more -- though she never gives a single one of them to her teacher. She writes about starting high school, navigating new friendships, falling in love for the first time, learning to live with her splintering family. And, finally, about the abuse she suffered while May was supposed to be looking out for her. Only then, once Laurel has written down the truth about what happened to herself, can she truly begin to accept what happened to May. And only when Laurel has begun to see her sister as the person she was -- lovely and amazing and deeply flawed -- can she begin to discover her own path in this stunning debut from Ava Dellaira,
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A did not finish for me

Wasn't the biggest fan of this title. I didn't actually make it all the way through (and yet *gasp* I'm reviewing it). It started off a bit interesting, but I quickly found myself bored. The only thing I really cared about was finding out what happened to her sister...which I did part way through the novel. There was nothing left to keep me wanting to read this book. Other people have praised it, but I was just bored.
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A gorgeous, emotional novel told entirely through letters

Laurel’s sister May died last year and, despite the fact that it’s often on her mind, she doesn’t want anyone at her new school to know about it. She doesn’t want anyone to know about Laurel or that her family is scattered and broken or about anything else that happened before now. Freshman year is a clean start. When Laurel is assigned to write a letter to a dead person, she chooses Kurt Cobain - who better to understand May and the circumstances surrounding her death than her favorite tragic rock star? As Laurel struggles to cope with the loss of her sister and the ups and downs of new friends and first love the letters continue. Some addressed to Kurt Cobain, others to Amelia Earhardt, Amy Winehouse, Heath Ledger, e.e. cummings… As the letters pile up, the secrets Laurel battles rise to the surface, forcing an emotional confrontation in order for Laurel to move forward with her life.

Love Letters to the Dead is so beautifully written that it almost makes the emotional pain it inflicts sweet. From the first pages until the last, I was enchanted by the language and descriptions, the raw and honest emotion within Laurel’s letters. For me, the events surrounding May’s death and the secrets Laurel was hiding weren’t really a mystery; it was accompanying Laurel on her journey to understand and move past what happened that was truly compelling.

It isn’t obvious from the description, but Love Letters to the Dead is told entirely in letters; there aren’t just letters here and there throughout the book. Some readers don’t like epistolary novels, but I adore them. Novels in this format – especially those that feature letters from only the main character with no responses, like Love Letters to the Dead – feel like a diary. Letters offer a unique vantage point from which to view the character, exposing nuances and details that might otherwise go overlooked.

Lovers of music and poetry will no doubt love this novel. Many of Laurel’s letters are addressed to deceased musicians and poets, most of whom I think readers will be familiar with, but, even if they aren’t, it’s likely they will be inspired to go learn more about these individuals Laurel entrusts her story to.

Love Letters to the Dead is unforgettable and I urge you to read it.
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Disappointing

I love the title. I wanted to love the book. But I didn't, for two reasons:

First of all, the writing style was so... inconsistent. It was 20% beautiful, stop-you-in-your-tracks literature and 80% sap that could have been written by a 10 year old.

Second, the story is a knock off of The Perks of Being A Wallflower. We have Main Character who something REALLY BAD happened to but MC buries it and won't talk about it. MC writes letters to people who can never read them. MC starts high school with no friends, except English Teacher reaches out to MC. Then MC meets up with The Cool People Who Are Not Popular. Let's experiment with some drugs and alcohol. Oh, and throw in a couple of gay friends. REALLY BAD thing comes out in the end, MC goes to therapy, life goes on. Nothing new to see here.
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Didn't finish

Couldn't keep concentrated on this book. There just wasn't enough to interest me. Personal opinion though. This probably is a great book if it can capture your attention.
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A poetic and beautiful novel

Ava Dellaira has crafted an astonishingly beautiful novel about love and family and music. Laurel is a seemingly ordinary high school teen who is still struggling to deal with the tragic loss of her older sister May, also her cool and free-spirited best friend. She balances her troubled past with her new best friends, and her first crush, among other things. Dellaira writes with a poetic flair not unlike that of Steven Chobsky, the author of Perks Of Being A Wallflower. Ironically, the two are friends. The poetic prose is so vivid yet intelligent; I had to reread passages to try and understand deeper meanings the protagonist means to convey. The story is told in letters to dead people who have influenced either her or May in some major way, including Amelia Earnhardt, Janis Joplin, Kurt Cobain, etc. Its original and refreshing in the world of YA fiction.

The book was very good, yet not perfect. Due to the overload of poetic language, it moved slowly. Not necessarily a bad ting, but I would not be surprised if plenty of readers would get bored and quit. The correlation between her and May could sometimes be a bit unclear, perhaps by intention, yet I was a bi confused upon finishing the book until I revisited it. Overall, this impressive debut warrants a 4, perhaps a 4.25. I recommend anyone ready for a more advanced YA novel to give it a spin.
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Heartwrenching, powerful & inspiring

I've been staring at this screen for way too long, trying to figure out how I could possibly do this book justice with my review. Love Letters to the Dead is the kind of book that I loved so much, that spoke to me in such a personal way, that I don't even know how to talk about it. All I know is that it was perfect, and that everyone needs to read it.

At first I wasn't sure if the letter format of this book would work. I kept asking myself how the author would manage to tell a complete story when the letters are written to different people, who wouldn't know what Laurel had written in the previous letters, while the reader of course would know the contents of all the letters. To my surprise, though, it worked perfectly. They're all written to these different people, but that's not the point: this book is simply about Laurel as a character, and the way she expresses herself in these letters to dead people makes perfect sense if you consider them a cathartic experience for Laurel rather than letters addressed to actual, real-life people. This format enables readers to gradually find out about Laurel's past, which I absolutely loved. (I even wish I hadn't read the description beforehand, since parts of it are things you don't find out until later on.) I love how the author incorporated the stories of the "recipients" of these letters into the novel, and they added a lot to Laurel's story.

Asides from the unique format, Laurel's character is what makes the whole story work. I loved Laurel so much; I just wanted to scoop her up and out of this terrible world so that I could hug her and never let her go. She is somehow innocent and jaded all at once: the hardships that she has had to go through are unfathomable, so it is no surprise that she has developed a pessimism and frustration that appear to be beyond her years. At other times, though, we catch a glimpse of the innocent 14-year-old beneath all the pain. This balance is beautifully done, creating an authentic character that evoked so many emotions in me.

Not only Laurel but all the characters in Love Letters to the Dead are exceptionally well-written. At first, I thought Laurel was falling in with the wrong crowd in high school, but that is most definitely not the case: Hannah, Natalie, Tristan, and Kristen are the perfect group of friends for Laurel. Each of their characters is complex and has their own story and issues; I don't want to talk about any of their stories because you should get to experience them on your own, but they're so good. I wish Ava Dellaira would write companion novels about each of them because I loved them all so much. (But maybe that's just because I'm so in love with this world that Ava Dellaira has created that I never want to leave again because I just want to keep reading her words for the rest of my life.) Ahem. Anyways. I also loved Sky - romantic storylines are very hit-or-miss for me, and even though this relationship had some of the stereotypes that would automatically make it a miss for me, this one is definitely a hit. I wish we had gotten to see even more of the development of this relationship, but it makes sense that we only get snippets because of the letter format. Either way, I absolutely loved reading about Laurel and Sky's connection. The family storyline is great, too: I both loved and hated Laurel's mom, dad, and aunt, as well as May. Each character in Love Letters to the Dead is complex and hurting in their own way; they're all perfect in an imperfect, real way.

Everything about this book is perfect, from the cover to the writing to the characters. But what I loved most wasn't any single aspect; it was the emotions it evoked in me. Love Letters to the Dead touched me in a very personal way, in a way that only very few books can. It broke my heart and showed me the darkest parts of what it means to be human, but it also put it back together again and restored my faith in the goodness of people. Love Letters to the Dead is a heartwrenching, inspiring novel about how to live through the pain and loss that are part of growing up and simply being human. I'm so in awe of Ava Dellaira's writing and this book that I want to name my firstborn child after Lauren and tattoo the gorgeous quotes I got from this novel all over my body. And since I probably won't do either of those things, instead I'm just going to urge every reader I know to read this book, right now.
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drawn to the title, the gorgeous cover and intriguing description. Not to mention the fact that that Love Letters was blurbed by several contemporary authors who I have the utmost respect for. Love Letters To The Dead is one of the best coming-of-age tales I've ever read and by the end, I was bawling my eyes out.

Ava Dellaria broke my heart, made me laugh and feel overjoyed all in the span of a few pages. Love Letters To The Dead is a honest, realistic depiction of growing up and dealing with grief. Dellaria really understands how much it sucks to be a teenager and how hard it is to keep your life together after losing a close family member.

The letters that Laurel wrote to deceased celebrities like River Phoenix, Janis Joplin, Kurt Cobain, Amelia Earhart, Heath Ledger and Allan Lane were absolutely moving. Readers will able to see clear parallels between Laurel's life and the deceased people that she wrote letters to. Each letter felt special in their own way, even the ones to celebrities who I had no prior knowledge of before reading (ie Alan Lane). The letters that really affected me the most were the ones written to Kurt Cobain and River Phoenix, even now as I write this review I feel tears pinpricking my eyes as I think of these letters. Just reading about Cobain and Phoenix’s lives before they were famous was beyond tragic. To think that Cobain and Phoenix survived such difficult childhoods to lead such ephemeral lives just felt so unfair.

While reading Love Letters To The Dead, there were just so many quotes that I absolutely loved; by the time I finished, my book was littered with post-its. Ava Dellaria's Love Letters To The Dead is full of memorable quotations that are just so empowering and sage like. Dellaria never seems to soften the brutality of loss and being a teenager, she really doesn't gloss over anything. Many YA books have plot lines where the main character is going through a difficult time, but everything becomes lollipops and gum drops, when the protagonist falls in love. Problems don't just disappear as Love Letters To The Dead expertly displays, no matter how much we try to hide our past, our skeletons in our closet always follow us.

The romance in Love Letters To The Dead isn't the spotlight focus, but it's exceptionally done. Sky and Laurel's relationship isn't true love at first sight, their initial relationship is actually extremely awkward. Their relationship slowly progressed throughout the book and it really tied well into Laurel's journey of self-discovery. The romance was incredibly sweet, touching, and it really complimented the rest of the book well.

Whenever I read books about tough social issues, there's usually two ways the book can turn out. The controversial topic is either extremely well done or the book becomes extremely sappy because the author butchers the importance of the issue to evoke pity from the reader. Ava Dellaria doesn't avoid controversial topics that are extremely relevant in today's society, she explores them in situations that readers will be able to relate to.

I am not a teenage girl. I have never lost a sibling to death. I have never been like Laurel has. Despite these extremely obvious differences between Laurel and I, I really felt like I understood exactly what Laurel was going through. I saw myself in Laurel which was truly something scary and amazing at the same time. I have a strong premonition that many readers will easily empathize with Laurel because she is three-dimensional.

There became a point while reading Love Letters To The Dead where I emotionally broke down and I started to bawl. Throughout the novel, there were several sections where I started to tear, but it wasn't till the last section where I started to cry a waterfall. I'm not an extremely emotional reader, but Love Letters To The Dead really touched me deeply and it brought out my sensitive side.

Love Letters To The Dead is one of the best debut novels that I've read in years. I can proudly say that Dellaria is definitely an author to watch, I really am looking forward to reading her future novels. Love Letters To The Dead is a novel that has really resonanted with me on an emotional level.

Yours Truly,
Scott Pilgrim
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