Live Alone and Like It: The Classic Guide for the Single Woman
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Live Alone and Like It: The Classic Guide for the Single Woman

Paperback – June 13, 2008

Price
$12.54
Format
Paperback
Pages
176
Publisher
5 Spot
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0446178228
Dimensions
5 x 0.44 x 8 inches
Weight
7.2 ounces

Description

From Publishers Weekly First published in 1936, with the chilling subtitle A Guide for the Extra Woman, this bestseller became a manifesto for single women (and those between husbands) keen on embarking on stylish solitary living. Although many of Hillis's prescriptions are naturally outmoded, it's impossible not to be charmed by her arch humor and old Hollywood glamour as she demands that her genteel readers simply must have four bed jackets, seven kinds of liquor and the right cold cream. A Vogue editor and proponent of solitary refinement, Hillis exhorts women to indulge themselves unblushingly—albeit thriftily—within their homes. Despite her fascination with frou-frou and beaux, Hillis bucks convention—arguing that women should be free to entertain men at home, drink in bars and generally do as they please; you will soon find that independence, more truthfully than virtue, is its own reward, she advises. If slight on prescriptions suitable to modern-day living, this slim guide is replete with entertaining illustrations by Cipé Pineles and case studies about live-aloners (Miss P. is a young woman of limited income, but unlimited ingenuity...) providing ample nostalgic pleasure. (June) Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. Marjorie Hillis (1889-1971) worked for Vogue for over twenty years, beginning her career as a captions writer for the pattern book and working her way up to assistant editor of the magazine itself. She was one of a growing number of independent, professional women who lived alone by choice. In 1936 she wrote Live Alone and Like It , the superlative guide for 'bachelor ladies' (who became known as 'live-aloners'). It was an instant bestseller. Three years after the book's publication, at the age of forty-nine, Ms. Hillis bid a fond farewell to the live-aloners by marrying Mr. T.H. Roulston.

Features & Highlights

  • In this witty, engaging guide, a renowned
  • Vogue
  • editor takes readers through the fundamentals of living alone by showing them how to create a welcoming environment and cultivate home-friendly hobbies, "for no woman can accept an invitation every night without coming to grief."
  • "Whether you view your one-woman ménage as Doom or Adventure, you need a plan, if you are going to make the best of it."
  • Thus begins Marjorie Hillis' archly funny, gently prescriptive manifesto for single women. Though it was 1936 when the
  • Vogue
  • editor first shared her wisdom with her fellow singletons, the tome has been passed lovingly through the generations, and is even more apt today than when it was first published. Hillis, a true bon vivant, was sick and tired of hearing single women carping about their living arrangements and lonely lives; this book is her invaluable wake-up call for single women to take control and enjoy their circumstances.With engaging chapter titles like "A Lady and Her Liquor" and "The Pleasures of a Single Bed," along with a new preface by author Laurie Graff (
  • You Have to Kiss A Lot of Frogs
  • ),
  • Live Alone and Like It
  • is sure to appeal to live-aloners—and those considering taking the plunge.

Customer Reviews

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Carrie Bradshaw Meets Auntie Mame

I purchased this book after a breakup where I was feeling that I would live alone forever surrounded by my cats and only venture out of my bathrobe to go to work. Oddly, I find myself so enamored of this book that I think I might stay single forever just for fun! As other reviewers have pointed out, this is a reprint from a 1936 book and some of the language is a bit outmoded. However, it is remarkable to note that when Ms. Hillis was born, women did not have the right to vote.

This is one of my favorite excerpts from this book on how to make a budget:
"We are not advising you to save for any good and moral reason, but merely because, as time goes on, spending your own money has a kick in it, like whiskey, while having other people's money spent on you has, at best, the tame pleasure of a glass of lemondade. It is at least twice as much fun to buy something at the ten-cent store with money that is yours and mobody else's, than to have enough money doled out to cover a purchase at Cartier's."

Damn straight, Ms. Hillis, damn straight.
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Great book for single gals

I keep this book in my nightstand at all times. It gives entertaining and sensible advice on how to live on your own and really enjoy it. The author encourages the single lady to keep a positive attitude, and reminds her to pamper and care for herself at all times. Every single woman should own this book.
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A delightful early feminist primer on how to be happy after you've decided not to pout

A delightful early feminist primer on how to be happy after you've decided not to pout. One must adapt the advice to our time, but it isn't hard. Written for men but these days would be useful for many men as well.
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Excellent piece of period writing

Great stuff for the single woman. It is especially interesting as it was written in 1936. Applies to the single woman living in an urban area. Fun read!
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Five Stars

Fun read if a bit old-fashioned.
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This book actually has some good ideas in it but it's so fun to read ...

This book actually has some good ideas in it but it's so fun to read from a historical perspective. I laughed with my friends over some of the phrasing and ideas, but honestly, a lot of it still applies.