How to Exasperate Your Wife
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How to Exasperate Your Wife

Paperback – February 24, 2015

Price
$10.29
Format
Paperback
Pages
106
Publisher
Canon Press
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1591281801
Dimensions
5 x 0.27 x 8 inches
Weight
3.99 ounces

Description

About the Author Douglas Wilson is a Senior Fellow of theology at New Saint Andrews College. Wilson is the author of numerous books on education, theology, and culture, including: The Case for Classical Christian Education , Recovering the Lost Tools of Learning , Mother Kirk , and Angels in the Architecture , as well as biographies on both Anne Bradstreet and John Knox.

Features & Highlights

  • Marriage is not a vending machine, and love is not two quarters to put into it. It's a manner of life, not an exchange of commodities. So what does it look like when a man loves a woman?" Douglas Wilson answers that question in
  • How To Exasperate Your Wife and Other Short Essays for Men
  • , and his responses are as wide-ranging and humorous as they are incisive and down to earth. He explains why men's distorted view of wisdom handicaps their understanding of their wives, and he exposes rigid (and wrong) approaches to marriage and relationships. He gives practical advice for identifying unhappy households ("Mom is ignored") and replacing abdicating dads with true leaders ("Measure strength not in decibels but performance"), all combined with hot tips on how to exasperate your wife (you may start with leopard underwear).
  • Both realistic and insightful,
  • How to Exasperate Your Wife and Other Short Essays for Men
  • points husbands (and wives) towards a passionate married love that is particular, sacrificial, sacramental, and muy caliente.

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Most Helpful Reviews

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Incomplete, but still some of the best material of its kind

Sound advice from front to back. I could quibble with a few theological points, but this is some of the best material of its kind you are likely to find. Thoroughly and unapologetically biblical. I would have liked a little more practical advice on male/female interactions (something along the lines of Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life, but from a Christian perspective) and perhaps a little bit of editing.
6 people found this helpful
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Some good and thoughtful ideas on marriage, but overall not his best book.

This was not my favorite Doug Wilson book. The cover art is great, the chapters were nice and short, but nothing that blew me away. I appreciated it when he said things like, "Lusting after another woman is like saying that Buddhism or Islam has its good points" (p.24). And "Biological appetite must be directed and disciplined (1 Thess. 4:4), while lust must be killed (Rom. 8:13)...This is a basic lesson of sexual ethics--never invite defeated lusts up into your chariot." (p.69)
However, I didn't understand why Wilson saw it as necessary that I get out of the military at the first lawful opportunity. (p.44) Overall, it was a good book. It just wasn't my favorite by him. Reforming Marriage will be the one I continue to give away to folks getting married.
5 people found this helpful
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Warning: False Advertising (this book is likely to cause your marriage to get better)

This is an excellent, challenging book for Christian husbands, but the title is misleading. If you were to prayerfully and earnestly implement the wise and godly counsel in this book, chances are your marriage would grow in joy, peace, mutual understanding and self-sacrificial love. Therefore, any man purchasing this book in the hopes that it will supply him with easy step-by-step instructions about slick, more effective, and sure-fire ways of making their wive's lives more miserable needs to be warned: don't be fooled, this is not the book for you!
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Must-read for all men

This book is the most clear, concise primer on biblical manhood I've ever seen. If you're a man or want to become one, it's a must-read.