Breaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession, and Shame
Breaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession, and Shame book cover

Breaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession, and Shame

Paperback – October 1, 2011

Price
$21.36
Format
Paperback
Pages
224
Publisher
New Harbinger Publications
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1608820832
Dimensions
5.9 x 0.6 x 8.9 inches
Weight
11 ounces

Description

“ Breaking the Cycle by George Collins is a 911 call that can save your life and those you love from sex addiction, porn obsession, and shame. Honest, stark, hard-hitting and yet hopeful, Collins lays out the steps required to wrestle self-control back from your sexually compulsive impulses. In your darkest time, Breaking the Cycle brings the light you are looking for!” —Don Elium, MFT, adjunct faculty at John F. Kennedy University and author of Raising a Son “Prior to reading this book, I had been acting out my sexually compulsive behaviors for forty years. Each chapter is filled with specific experiences and emotions that I have struggled with in the past. As a result of the techniques described in this book, my addiction has faded away." —Ralph, sex addict in recovery in Rhode Island “This book offers a raw look into the world of sex addicts. George Collins’ courageous self-revelation of his own sex addiction has helped hundreds of men and women to find what is essential for rehabilitation inside themselves. His ‘I’ll pay you to just be honest’ conversation with the sex worker and client was itself worth the cost of the book!” —Don L. Mathews, MFT, director of the Impulse Treatment Center “This is gripping stuff, and a real page-turner of a book. The real-life stories have the ring of truth, and the dialogue is unmistakably real. The use of trenchant, memorable lines, like, ‘you can’t get enough of what won’t satisfy you,’ really get the message across.” — Bob, sex addict in recovery in California “Collins' take on the mental obsession leading to physical addiction and subsequent negative consequence is pure poetry for the troubled romantic soul. Even if you are NOT an addict, you will find this book a useful GPS to navigate new neighborhoods of abnormal thinking in people you know or will encounter someday. On a personal note, I am honored to be mentioned and I am grateful he didn't abbreviate First Thought Wrong even one time. Thank you, George, for taking First Thought Wrong from sexual to helpful, hopeful and safe.” —Mark Lundholm, internationally recognized stand-up comedian and creator of The Recovery Board Game and the DVD series Humor in Treatment From the Publisher In Breaking the Cycle, sex addiction specialist George Collins offers a powerful, no-nonsense program for helping readers identify their unhealthy sexual patterns, overcome sex addiction, and start living more productive lives. George N. Collins, MA , is founder and director of Compulsion Solutions, an outpatient counseling service in the San Francisco Bay Area specializing in the treatment of sexually compulsive behavior. compulsionsolutions.com Read more

Features & Highlights

  • Anyone who has struggled with sex addiction knows that living with constant sexual compulsions can be extremely difficult. But summoning the courage to find help for this condition can be even more of a challenge. If addictions to pornography, strip clubs, massage parlors, prostitutes, phone sex, or chat rooms have made you feel trapped, this book can help you find a way to break free.
  • Written by a former sex addict who specializes in counseling people who suffer from sexually compulsive behavior,
  • Breaking the Cycle
  • presents a step-by-step plan to enjoying a life of productivity and purpose. You can free yourself from the powerful, compulsive urges that may have damaged your career, finances, or relationships with friends and family. The exercises in this book will show you how to regain control of your life and build meaningful intimate connections with others.

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Most Helpful Reviews

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Sex Addiction Unmasked

All too often the topic of sex addiction is discussed with nervous laughter. The occasional celebrity infidelity is treated with voyeuristic intrigue and a certain envy. Unfortunately, our interest is too frequently limited to salacious details. Perhaps, our uncertain response is due our discomfort in attempting to integrate our inherent understanding that such addictions may be catastrophic with the locker room titillation which most of us men experienced as young teenagers.

In "Breaking The Cycle", the author addresses the enormous cost of sexual addiction to individuals, families, and society. He does so in an empathic manner, which allows us to peer beneath the curtain of ersatz sensuality and appreciate the emotional and psychic torment, which underly such sexual disorders, and their consequent spiral into disaster. I so admire the author's candor in his description of his own battles with addiction. His incredible work as author and counselor displays the sort of redemption we read about only in novels.

I readily commend this work to professionals and lay persons who have even the slightest interest in the topic. Having read it, I genuinely believe, those who suffer such addictions will be far more capable of identifying similar struggles in themselves. Equally important, and as the author makes brilliantly clear, such self-awareness offers the clearest path to warmer and more intimate relationships.
6 people found this helpful
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Excellent Book

George Collins provides detailed and personal stories about how he has overcome his own sexually compulsive behavior. This book is loaded with techniques for people to practice when they get pulled in to old habits. The language is raw and the honesty that George conveys allows the reader to connect more. This book isn't very clinical, it is practical with useful tools and interventions provided throughout. It's great to read a book like this since those struggling with sexual addiction often do not know where to turn for help. This is a great start.
5 people found this helpful
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Not

I’m of the self-help generation and often assist others with life issues. The reviews I read on this book and the title seemed to suggest it would be a helpful tool but it is far, far from that. Look elsewhere.
1 people found this helpful
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I must one day thank the authors in person as ...

I must one day thank the authors in person as this book has done something that I thought was impossible. It has freed me from a compulsion that nearly took away my marriage, I realized I needed help before I hit bottom and I am lucky that I found this book. The day I started reading the book was the last day I acted out on my compulsion and it has been a month now, I do read the chapter twice and the ideas presented in this book are not just ideas but instruction on how to find yourself, the real you among all the sub personalities that you are buried under and start a new story of your life that is not based on what had happened but based on the present, the truth and the now. Thank you very much for writing this book. My relationships have changed in a dramatic positive manner.
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Five Stars

Perfect book & arrived quick
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THIS BOOK TOUCHES YOUR SOUL

MY STORY IS , I WAS A COMPULSIVE MASTURBATOR , AND I DESTROYED HALF OF MY LIFE DUE TO THIS HABBIT , BUT AFTER READING THIS BOOK I HAVE NOT STOP MY HABBIT WHICH YOU NEED AN EXTRA TREATMENT BUT I HAVE REDUCE THE AMOUT I USE TO MASTURBATE , N THIS BOOK TEACHES YOU A REAL LIFE LESSON THIS BOOK IS REAL GUYS A REAL BOOK NO FAKE , THIS HAPPENS TO EVERY MAN WHO IS IN THIS TRAP , I WANT TO THANK A LOT TO DR . GEORGE COLLIN . YOU HAVE SAVE MILLION PEOPLE LIFE .
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Five Stars

Great self help book.
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Sinning to the max

Honestly it's so good I ended up masturbating like 15 times after reading this book cause I realized its fine. Books are my kink
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Five Stars

Bought this for my husband and he said it is informative.
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Great book. Easy to follow

Great book. Easy to follow. If you do the exercises in the book, you will change your life and stop the pull of sexually compulsive behavior,