Braver Than You Think: Around the World on the Trip of My (Mother’s) Lifetime
Braver Than You Think: Around the World on the Trip of My (Mother’s) Lifetime book cover

Braver Than You Think: Around the World on the Trip of My (Mother’s) Lifetime

Hardcover – May 12, 2020

Price
$9.98
Format
Hardcover
Pages
304
Publisher
Counterpoint
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-1640092921
Dimensions
6.3 x 1.2 x 9.1 inches
Weight
1.2 pounds

Description

"Downs has a fluid, conversational writing style, zooming in to particular anecdotes that illuminate her experience rather than trying to cover the entire year . . . The travel sections are compelling and lively. A poignant tale of connection and disconnection through travel." - Kirkus Reviews "With a mother in the final stages of Alzheimer's, Maggie Downs tries to run from her grief, but instead takes us to the far reaches of the globe, cuddling (and being bitten) by endangered monkeys, bonding with elephants, and working to save sea turtles. It's a journey to make any of us wonder if we're braver than we think." -Diana Marcum, Pulitzer Prize winner and author of The Tenth Island Book Description Marketing : Bookseller outreach and Indie Next campaign [deadline: 4/2/2020] Bookseller outreach and Indie Next campaign [deadline: 4/2/2020] Library outreach and LibraryReads campaign [deadline: 4/1/2020] Library outreach and LibraryReads campaign [deadline: 4/1/2020] Campaign tie-in to Mother’s Day 2020, including co-ops, AMS campaigns, and giveaways Campaign tie-in to Mother’s Day 2020, including co-ops, AMS campaigns, and giveaways Indie bookstore preorder campaign partnership Indie bookstore preorder campaign partnership ARCs at Wi15, ALA Midwinter, and PLA ARCs at Wi15, ALA Midwinter, and PLA Digital advertising and paid social media campaigns Digital advertising and paid social media campaigns Book club advertising including Goodreads and GalleyMatch giveaways; reading group guide available Publicity Plans: Book club advertising including Goodreads and GalleyMatch giveaways; reading group guide available Publicity Plans : National National Targeted pitching to print and online outlets for Mother’s Day roundups Targeted pitching to print and online outlets for Mother’s Day roundups Targeted pitching to Most Anticipated 2020 Lists, released in January Targeted pitching to Most Anticipated 2020 Lists, released in January Pitching to all major applicable books clubs, including BOTM, Buzzfeed, HelloSunshine, Oprah, Today Show Pitching to all major applicable books clubs, including BOTM, Buzzfeed, HelloSunshine, Oprah, Today Show Major influencer campaign Major influencer campaign Author promotion through website at maggieink.com Event Schedule: Author promotion through website at maggieink.com Event Schedule : Events throughout California and the Midwest Events throughout California and the Midwest Participation in LATFOB, Bay Area Book Festival, Printer’s Row Tour Schedule: Participation in LATFOB, Bay Area Book Festival, Printer’s Row Tour Schedule: 5/6/20 4:00pmPST: Virtual reading event, in conversation with Sylvia Harvey and Lauren Francis-Sharma, at Let's Talk Books With Christina 5/6/20 4:00pmPST: Virtual reading event, in conversation with Sylvia Harvey and Lauren Francis-Sharma, at Let's Talk Books With Christina 5/12/20 6:00pmPST: Virtual Zoom webinar event at Writers Blok 5/12/20 6:00pmPST: Virtual Zoom webinar event at Writers Blok 5/13/20 3:00pmEST: Virtual Twitter reading, in conversation with Laura Zam at Book Party Chat 5/13/20 3:00pmEST: Virtual Twitter reading, in conversation with Laura Zam at Book Party Chat 5/13/20 6:00pmPST: Virtual Zoom event, in conversation with Tod Goldberg, at UCR Palm Desert 5/13/20 6:00pmPST: Virtual Zoom event, in conversation with Tod Goldberg, at UCR Palm Desert 5/19/20 6:00pmPST: Virtual Crowdcast reading, in conversation with Edan Lepucki, at Book Soup 5/19/20 6:00pmPST: Virtual Crowdcast reading, in conversation with Edan Lepucki, at Book Soup 5/28/20 7:00pmEST: Virtual Crowdcast reading, introduced by Faherty, the library director; in conversation with Sharon Coolidge, at the Mercantile Library 5/28/20 7:00pmEST: Virtual Crowdcast reading, introduced by Faherty, the library director; in conversation with Sharon Coolidge, at the Mercantile Library 6/26/20 5:00pmPST: Virtual Zoom via Facebook Live reading, with Frederick-Douglass Knowles II, Tim Horvath, Rita Banerjee, Diana Szokolyai, Devynity Wray and Alex Marzano-Lesnevich, at Fourth Friday Literary Salon Series: Benefit Reading for Black Visions Collective, Creative North Shore 6/26/20 5:00pmPST: Virtual Zoom via Facebook Live reading, with Frederick-Douglass Knowles II, Tim Horvath, Rita Banerjee, Diana Szokolyai, Devynity Wray and Alex Marzano-Lesnevich, at Fourth Friday Literary Salon Series: Benefit Reading for Black Visions Collective, Creative North Shore 7/25/20 10:00am: Reading and book signing at California Writers' Club: Inland Empire chapter at the Ovitt Community Library, Ontario, CA 7/25/20 10:00am: Reading and book signing at California Writers' Club: Inland Empire chapter at the Ovitt Community Library, Ontario, CA 10/4/20 12:30pm: Programming, in conversation with Dean Kuipers and Darcy Ann Gaechter; moderated by Samantha Dunn, at The Los Angeles Times Festival of Books, Los Angeles, CA 10/4/20 12:30pm: Programming, in conversation with Dean Kuipers and Darcy Ann Gaechter; moderated by Samantha Dunn, at The Los Angeles Times Festival of Books, Los Angeles, CA Maggie Downs is an award–winning writer based in Palm Springs, California. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Los Angeles Times, Palm Springs Life , and McSweeney’s and has been anthologized in The Lonely Planet Travel Anthology: True Stories from the World’s Best Writers and Best Women’s Travel Writing. Braver Than You Think is her first book. Find out more at maggiedowns.com. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • Newly married and established in her career as an award-winning newspaper journalist, Maggie Downs quits her job, sells her belongings, and embarks on the solo trip of a lifetime: Her mother’s.
  • As a child, Maggie Downs often doubted that she would ever possess the courage to visit the destinations her mother dreamed of one day seeing. “You are braver than you think,” her mother always insisted. That statement would guide her as, over the course of one year, Downs backpacked through seventeen countries―visiting all the places her mother, struck with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease, could not visit herself―encountering some of the world’s most striking locales while confronting the slow loss of her mother. Interweaving travelogue with family memories,
  • Braver Than You Think
  • takes the reader hiking the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu, white-water rafting on the Nile, volunteering at a monkey sanctuary in Bolivia, praying at an ashram in India, and fleeing the Arab Spring in Egypt.
  • By embarking on an international journey, Downs learned to make every moment count―traveling around the globe and home again, losing a parent while discovering the world. Perfect for fans of adventure memoirs like
  • Wild
  • and
  • Welcome to the Goddamn Ice Cube
  • ,
  • Braver Than You Think
  • explores grief and loss with tenderness, clarity, and humor, and offers a truly incredible roadmap to coping with the unimaginable.

Customer Reviews

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Most Helpful Reviews

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The best book of 2020

This book is an amazing experience for anyone who likes to travel, has experienced loss, has a family, or dreams of possibilities.

Maggie Downs has a gift for telling stories that will leave you awed and inspired. Having experienced those story from another perspective (I’m the husband), it was a true gift to travel with her through these stories and to see what I could not from home. I couldn’t be more proud and excited as I revisit this time in our lives.

I may be biased, (okay, I am totally biased), but this is the perfect book for our current time of isolation during a pandemic. This book will take you places.
22 people found this helpful
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Not a typical travel book!

I enjoyed this book and would recommend it for women who yearn to travel by themselves on a quest, or who are interested in coming to terms with a Mother's death. I learned lot about places I wouldnt have thought to travel to. Interesting insights into little known cultures and issues from the perspective of a backpacker on a budget, and a person seeking volunteer opportunities to give back to help animals and others.
As a someone who works with Altzheimers Residents it was a true reflection of the agony families go through. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. The book is about the Author's need to travel to reconcile her Mother's illness and find peace.
The Audible reader did a good job. My only drawback is that it failed to grip my heartstrings, staying at a surface level narrative that at times became repetitive and self serving. I did not always feel the humanity between the Author and the cultures she encountered as much as I would have liked to. I didn't always agree with her choices (many places she was in unnecessary danger) but it was her journey after all.
7 people found this helpful
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The perfect book to lose yourself

This is the perfect book to lose yourself in as you travel the world with Maggie and in some senses the ghost of her mother who is in the end stages of Alzheimers disease but who is also so very prevalent in Maggie's thoughts and who is her motivation to keep going.

I laughed, I cried - I sobbed actually and I loved this book, such bravery and such a heartwarming memoir. The locations are all so different, the descriptions are so beautifully detailed that I wished I was there too, ok maybe not on a bus swimming with pee but defiantly on a boat in the bay.
6 people found this helpful
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Hard to like

It’s difficult to overlook the narcissism in this travelogue. Not sure where all the gushy reviews come from but the author is not particularly likable.
4 people found this helpful
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An excellently written travel memoir that makes you evaluate what's really important in life

I read this book for my book club's discussion. It seemed like the perfect time to do so as the Pandemic had locked everything down and no travel is in my immediate future. I wanted to visit these far-off locations vicariously through my reading and I certainly was not disappointed. Maggie's writing style is so immersive, so intimate, that you really feel like you're there with her hiking the Inca trail, making your way through the Amazon rainforest, whitewater rafting down the Nile, watching the sunrise from the top of Mount Sinai, and feeling the warm waters of the Arabian sea around your legs. Her ability to capture your senses and describe her experiences with such detail really makes the reader feel like they've just shared a journey with Maggie herself.

Mixed in with the travel memoir are memories of her family life before and during her mother's prolonged battle with Alzheimer's. These sections serve as a reminder that we're not guaranteed anything in life, from one breath to the next, and emphasized the importance of seizing an opportunity when you have the chance to do so.
4 people found this helpful
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A fun way to tour the world from a comfy chair, couch or bed!

I used to be an avid reader and then came the internet era! Still read ...on line mostly! This was the perfect book to hold in my hands. It's also a real page turner! From beginning to end I couldn't wait to read about Maggie's next location and experiences. She is a fluid writer which makes it easy for the reader with every page. I've traveled some, but nothing like the author here. It was easy to visualize her description of each location, the people and even the food. Just an amazing all around read that I can highly recommend!
4 people found this helpful
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Wonderfully adventurous & poignant

I haven't finished this book yet, but can hardly put it down. I'm having fun looking up images of the places Maggie visited (Peru, Bolivia, Argentina, Africa, Egypt, India, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam) and volunteered. The juxtaposition of travelogue and family memoir is a beautiful blend of adventure and poignancy. I can't wait for the next travelogue from this great new voice.
3 people found this helpful
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A new twist on a travelogue & personal tragedy

I am from the midwest as is the author, Maggie Downs, so some of the frames of reference were warmly familiar to me. Who would have thought to actually go on the trip her mother has spoken to her about during her lifetime as places she (the mother) would like to go. As her mother is in the latter stages of Alzheimer's, Maggie departs on the journey she has heavily researched before making her agenda after just having married her new husband. That in itself is a pretty gutsy thing to do. He flies with her on the beginning of the journey and then comes back to their home in Palm Springs, CA where she now lives and writes. They plan to be apart for one year which is pretty surprising to me but I'm of an older generation so maybe she feels safe to take that chance in todays world. Anyway, her first trauma involving a monkey would have been where I would have packed my bags and gotten the first plane back to the USA but God love her; she kept "trucking" so go along on the journey; it's a hard book to put down but when you finish with a destination, you can take a break till the next day when you go someplace else. Also, backpacking was doing it the hard way as far as I'm concerned but she has tough, midwestern guts. For something interesting and different, read this book. You will learn things that are new and surprising.
2 people found this helpful
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Enchanting writer

We discussed this story at our recent zoom book club, it was roundly beloved.
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Travel without leaving the chaise lounge!

It’s taken me all summer to read this book, because I don’t want it to end!
Loved a lot!