A Shining Affliction: A Story of Harm and Healing in Psychotherapy
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A Shining Affliction: A Story of Harm and Healing in Psychotherapy

Paperback – August 1, 1996

Price
$17.80
Format
Paperback
Pages
336
Publisher
Penguin Life
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0140240122
Dimensions
5.05 x 0.73 x 7.71 inches
Weight
9.4 ounces

Description

"Soars into sublime meditation...what makes this book so extraordinary is her willingness to reveal exactly what goes on in the sometimes mysterious encounter between therapist and patient." — Los Angeles Times "Ms. Rogers tells an important truth...Healers are inevitably wounded themselves, just because they are human, and Ms. Rogers...challenges her fellow clinicians to acknowledge how their own personal histories shape their work as therapists. What finally shines forth from Ms. Rogers' narrative of affliction is her stern and compassionate understanding of the 'terrible responsibility' she and her fellow therapists have 'of holding another's heart in our hands,' while 'not forsaking ourselves.'" — Sharon O'Brien, New York Times "A book at once somber and powerfully affecting—a story of how those of us who work psychologically with others can fail them (and ourselves) or be of great assistance. She writes a clearm honest, compelling narrative which at times sings lyrically, and constantly instructs." —Dr. Robert Coles, Pulitzer Prize-winning author of Children of Crisis "Axa0beautifully written first-person account of a novice therapist's trial by fire... [Rogers]xa0humanizes therapists and provides an illuminating inside view of their training and the two-sided nature of their work." —Kirkus Reviews Annie G. Rogers is the professor of psychoanalysis and clinical psychology at Hampshire College as well as being on the faculty of the Lacanian School of Psychoanalysis in San Francisco. She is the winner of a Fulbright Fellowship in Ireland, a Radcliffe Fellowship at Harvard University, and a Whiting Fellowship at Hampshire College. She is the author of A Shining Affliction, The Unsayable: The Hidden Language of Trauma , as well as many other works, both fiction and nonfiction.

Features & Highlights

  • "Soars into sublime meditation...what makes this book so extraordinary is her willingness to reveal exactly what goes on in the sometimes mysterious encounter between therapist and patient."—
  • The Los Angeles Times
  • .
  • A moving account of a true-life double healing through psychotherapy.
  • In this brave, iconoclastic, and utterly unique book, psychotherapist Annie Rogers chronicles her remarkable bond with Ben, a severely disturbed five-ear-old. Orphaned, fostered, neglected, and forgotten in a household fire, Ben finally begins to respond to Annie in their intricate and revealing platy therapy. But as Ben begins to explore the trauma of his past, Annie finds herself being drawn downward into her own mental anguish. Catastrophically failed by her own therapist, she is hospitalized with a breakdown that renders her unable to speak. Then she and her gifted new analyst must uncover where her story of childhood terror overlaps with Ben's, and learn how she can complete her work with the child by creating a new story from the old—one that ultimately heals them both.

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Finely written, profoundly moving.

I believe this is one of my favorite books of all time. Rogers is an excellent writer -- my words cannot possibly evoke the vibrancy with which she brings her surroundings, her internal process, and her experience of Ben, her five-year-old patient, to life. The book gives a detailed, living-and-breathing picture of working therapeutically with children; at the same time, it shows the necessity of facing, feeling and integrating that which we most fear from our past in order to be fully alive, which is helped beyond measure by having a sensitive therapist to do the healing work with. Rogers' descriptions of Blumenthal, her second therapist, gives us all a standard to hope for, both in terms of the kind of therapist we should all be able to find, and the kind of therapist we should try to be, for those of us in the field.
15 people found this helpful
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a strong memoir

At its best it reminded me strongly of I Never Promised You A Rose Garden, in that it shows the healing relationship between an excellent therapist and a disturbed female patient. This book had the added benefit of having the patient/author also be a therapist, and while being healed herself doing a marvelous job of participating in the healing of a young boy whose problems are remarkably similar to her own.

The book was beautifully written, very open and revealing, and gentle in its nature. I also was grateful to hear the author write of her experiences with a TERRIBLE therapist, who, for self-protection, violated therapeutic boundaries left and right and essentially drove the author mad.

Well worth the read.
12 people found this helpful
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Healing is always two-sided

Annie's realization that "healing is always two-sided" seems to capture the heart and soul of the therapeutic relationship. Her artfully written narrative shows how "what has been wounded in a relationship must be, after all, healed in a relationship."

Her healing therapeutic relationships--both as a therapist and as a client--help Annie begin to move beyond the damage of her past traumatic relationships. Annie convincingly demonstrates the therapist's own sense of vulnerability has the potential to bring either tragic harm or human healing to the client. She beautifully summarizes this realization with her advice to therapists: "If it is possible to remain open to our fears and make reparations for our mistakes, our vulnerability can be used in the service of healing."
5 people found this helpful
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I can't say enough good things about this book, and Annie G. Rogers.

I read this in graduate school; it remains one of my greatest inspirations as I do my own therapy and clinical work.
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Evocative, beautiful and powerful

I recommend this book very highly--if you are interested in the human heart and psyche, this book is extremely rewarding. (I think this may be one of my favorite books ever...)

Annie Rogers writes powerfully and evocatively; her language wings into poetry, yet with clarity and focus she tells the story of the therapy she does with Ben, a 5-year-old boy troubled as the result of infant abandonment, and how it interacts with her own history of being abused. The book is utterly entrancing and heart wrenching--especially Rogers' compassionate narration of Ben's play and worldview. I found myself stopping frequently as the tale and the author's insights jumped off the page, sparking memories and intuitions about my own life.

Something that sets "A Shining Affliction" apart as compared to other therapist-writers is Annie Rogers' willingness to unmask herself, to talk about her own woundedness, including failed therapy, breakdown, hospitalization and a second round of therapy. (Her second therapist sounds like a total delight!) Her frank narration enriches & deepens the story immensely...and makes me wish more therapists would be so brave and honest about themselves.
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Shining review

Excellent book which touches on psychotherapy on a myriad of levels. A must read for young counselors looking into the field.
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I needed the book for a class project and I loved the book

Simple used book. There were no problems. I needed the book for a class project and I loved the book.
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Five Stars

Fascinating book. As a counselor in training it gave me an incredibly interesting perspective.
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Compelling and Beautiful Story of Healing

Enjoyed reading about this Annie Rogers journey. She was vulnerable and transparent as a narrator, while at the same time grounded in her own strength and courage. Great read.
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Excellent read! I've been a social worker in the ...

Excellent read! I've been a social worker in the field for 12 years and found tremendous value in this book!