29 Gifts: How a Month of Giving Can Change Your Life
29 Gifts: How a Month of Giving Can Change Your Life book cover

29 Gifts: How a Month of Giving Can Change Your Life

Hardcover – October 6, 2009

Price
$16.25
Format
Hardcover
Pages
256
Publisher
Da Capo Lifelong Books
Publication Date
ISBN-13
978-0738213569
Dimensions
5.5 x 1 x 8 inches
Weight
11.8 ounces

Description

From Publishers Weekly Just a month after her wedding, 31-year-old Walker was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis; two years later, she was bitter, isolated, and addicted to both pain medication and self-pity. In need of help beyond drug detox, Cami takes the advice of a South African healer: give away something every day, for 29 days. Walker soon learns that being mindful of giving also means being open to gifts from others, and that gratefulness and mutual generosity is the key to a better, more rewarding life. Glimpses into Walker's day-to-day difficulties-work, family life, constant therapeutic treatment and addiction recovery among them-crop up among the stories of her daily gifts, grounding the work (based on Walker's Web site) in personal details. But the meat, an admirable reworking of The Secret (in that it should actually help someone, at least gift recipients), speaks largely to those already initiated into the cult of positivity. Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. Deseret News UT, 10/10 “ 29 Gifts stands out among other ‘inspirational’ books because Walker doesn't hold back. She describes her disease and symptoms in vivid detail. And it's that bravery which makes the process ring true. Following Walker's journey, one realizes that most of us give many little gifts each day. But without the right mindset, they seem like little tasks instead…Read all at once or at leisure, 29 Gifts is worth your time. Not only does it put a face on MS, it puts a face on perceptions and the power of the mind to overcome adversity.” InfoDad.com, 10/29/09 “It’s all very uplifting, potentially of genuine value in teaching people to look outside themselves and the daily grind of their lives.” Library Journal , 11/15/09 “Walker presents a story that gets to the core of the emotional pain and loneliness that people feel when suffering from a serious disease like multiple sclerosis…Readers will instantly connect with this narrative of her journey…Her story unfolds nicely, and the reader is left with a good picture of what it’s like to live with MS. Walker turns what could have been a book about self-pity into a great read about pain and a creative way to get on with life.” Cape Times , 1/22/2010 “A delight…Well written…At times hilariously funny, at times very sad, and at all times it had me spellbound…It is a book full of wisdom.” Books for a Better Life, winner of the MS Awareness Award, 2/22/10 “[An] inspiring story of giving.” Albany Herald , 3/5/10 “If you like reading a book for content, then you will really like this book…Cami’s book was certainly an inspiration to me. I plan to start my 29 days soon.” Energy Times , April 2010 “The story of how even small gifts—a perfect conch shell here, three dollars there—helped give Walker a grateful heart and taught her not to be overwhelmed by illness.” Metapsychology Online Reviews, 3/28/10 “[Walker’s] story is moving and inspirational; this book is likely to appeal to those striving to live a life of gratitude.” Saginaw News , 3/26/10 “A poignant and insightful account of the transformative power of acts of kindness." Publisher’s Weekly , 9/7 “Glimpses into Walker's day-to-day difficulties…crop up among the stories of her daily gifts, grounding the work in personal details…An admirable reworking of The Secret (in that it should actually help someone, at least gift recipients).” Blogcritics.org, 9/25 “It reminded me a lot of Michael J Fox’s book, since it was more about the journey rather than the author… 29 Gifts is a great read. The author’s tone throughout the book is extremely friendly and upbeat, even while recounting her darkest moments…This is the practical component of The Secret … One of the many things I found great about this book is that while it exudes positivism, the author, Cami Walker, is a realist…The relative simplicity of the 29 gifts movement is refreshing…A fantastic book.” Boston Globe , 10/4 “Walker’s a plucky writer, and it’s hard not to be inspired by her story…Can ‘29 Gifts’ work? Well, at the very least, it makes you more aware of the good in your life, and it shifts the focus from yourself to others.” Oprah.com, 11/20/09 “This holiday season, why not embrace the spirit of giving with your own 29 days of kindness?” Orange County Register , 11/12/09 “An insightful and moving story.” January , 12/9/09 “In this season of giving, 29 Gifts cuts to the very heart of the thing: giving to enrich and share rather than receive. If it doesn’t change your life, it will at least make you think.” Book a Week with Jen blog, 12/2/2009 “The perfect gift for anyone who needs a feel good story…I enjoyed the read. It made me give a few gifts myself.” Roanoke Times , 12/27/09 “I really love the idea of the 29 gifts, and the book did a good job of getting me to stop and think about how one’s attitude toward the world colors one’s experience of it.” L.A. Intuitive Healing and Spiritual Growth Examiner , 12/30/2009 “A remarkable and inspiring book…I highly recommend it as a gift for someone struggling with depression, a major illness or wanting to heal on any level…Let this review be one of my 29 gifts to you and let this book be a present to someone in need.” Sacramento Book Review , 5/1/10 “Takes the reader smoothly into the day-to-day world of a young bride (Walker) who gets a devastating medical diagnosis just weeks after her wedding…Walker’s work transcends the ‘inspirational and spiritual’ genre, as this book is well-written to the point of approaching true eloquence…Don’t wait to buy this book." Momentum , Summer 2010 “Walker’s book gives new meaning to the phrase ‘giving is better than receiving’…The lessons of 29 Gifts are applicable to everyone, healthy or not. It is an easy, enjoyable read—but more importantly, it opens a reader’s eyes to the ultimate gift: giving to others.” Curled Up With A Good Book, September 2010 “[Walker] has written her book in such a way that readers from just about any faith path should be able to take away something of value…Walker is brutally honest about the physical, psychological and emotional impacts of MS in her life. She does not candy-coat her symptoms or the challenges they present. Yet her book offers hope—especially for people trapped in a mindset of scarcity.” WellBella, November 2010 “[A]heartfelt memoir… [the] book became a movement of giving.” Cami Walker was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2006 and created the online 29-Day Giving Challenge in April 2008. She has continued her own giving cycle every month since. Walker lives in Hollywood, California, with her husband, Mark. Read more

Features & Highlights

  • At age thirty-five, Cami Walker was burdened by a battle with multiple sclerosis, a chronic neurological condition that made it difficult for her to walk, work, or enjoy her life. Seeking a remedy for her depression after being hospitalized, she received an uncommon prescription from an African medicine woman:
  • Give to others for 29 days
  • .
  • 29 Gifts
  • is the insightful story of the author's life change as she embraces and reflects on the naturally reciprocal process of giving and receiving. Many of Walker's gifts were simple —a phone call, spare change, a Kleenex. Yet the acts were transformative. By Day 29, not only had Walker's health and happiness improved, but she had created a worldwide giving movement.
  • The book also includes personal essays from others whose lives changed for the better by giving, plus pages for the reader to record their own journey. More than a memoir,
  • 29 Gifts
  • offers inspiring lessons on how a simple daily practice of altruism can dramatically alter your outlook on the world.

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Optimism without a foul mouth would be nice

I have to first admit that I didn't finish this book. I made it to Gift 6 and just couldn't stomach it any longer. I think the idea of the 29 gifts is a great idea, but maybe Cami Walker's friend, Mbali, should have written this book. It probably wouldn't have been riddled with as much foul language, temper tantrums, and self pity. I also have Multiple Sclerosis, and although mine is mild for now, I know what I'm up against and what I might have to deal with in the future, but I've never felt sorry for myself because of it. I've always viewed it as a sort of gift. If God saw fit to give me this disease, then He must know that I'm strong enough to handle it, so who am I to doubt Him? Cami's incessant whining just was too much for me to take, and the book was beginning to really make me feel more disgusted than inspired. I'm sure she learned her lesson in the end, but her journey to get there was just intolerable. I wish she had written her story with a little more class and tact, I might have kept reading then. It's no fun reading a "self-help" book that makes you feel miserable.
16 people found this helpful
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Heart warming

This book was just what i needed at the right time. I was feeling down and alone because of my MS and this book brought light, hope and a purpose to life.
i recomend this book for anyone that is having a serious doubt in thier life.
read it and feel good.
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An inspirational personal story

NOTE: I received a free copy of this book to review for the web site Metapsychology Online Reviews; you can read a more detailed version of my review on that web site.

At the age of 33, just one month after her wedding day, Cami Walker was diagnosed with the autoimmune disorder multiple sclerosis (MS). Two years later, in the midst of a MS flare-up and in a state of despair, Walker calls her friend and spiritual mentor, Mbali Creazzo. To Walker's shock, Creazzo gently chides her for spending all of her time thinking only of herself. Creazzo suggests a "prescription" to help Walker dig herself out of this black hole of self-pity: give away 29 gifts in 29 days. She explains that the gifts don't need to be material things, as the act of giving itself is merely the taking of positive action that has the potential to shift energy in one's life.

Eventually, Walker decides to follow Creazzo's uncommon advice. Her 29 days of giving make up the heart of the book, with each chapter representing one day, or one gift. Walker starts simply--a phone call to a friend and fellow MS sufferer--and is surprised to find that on the very same day, she receives a "gift" in return (an offer for a consulting job). Walker soon discovers what Creazzo had likely intended her to see from the beginning: that giving and receiving are irreparably intertwined. By giving with intention day after day, Walker finds herself more open to abundance in all areas of her life. Truly inspired by the giving concept, Walker decides to recruit others to join her. She sets up the web site a 29giffs (dot org) web site, encouraging friends and family to post their own giving stories. The book concludes with some additional selections from this community (which has expanded to close to 5000): nine stories from nine different individuals about their own unique and meaningful giving experiences.

The idea that "it is better to give than to receive" is certainly not a new concept. Set against the backdrop of her health issues, however, Walker offers the suggestion that giving can be both healing and transformational. As such, her own story is moving and inspirational; this book is likely to appeal to those striving to live a life of gratitude.
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29 Gifts,

I loved this book so much I bought 25 for all family and friends.
This is an amazing story of faith and renewal that comes from the most unlikely place.
I loved the journey. I took the challenge and found wonderful rewards.
Giving from the heart and with intention really does change everything.
I feel a sense of calm and peace that wasn't always there.

If all who reads this book can get the same effect, the world would be a much better place.
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29 Gifts

I really liked this book. It was given to me as a gift
and I wanted a supply on hand to pass along to my friends.
Will probably have to order more.
k sweet
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29gifts

This was an amazing book that I read in two sittings. I began the 29 Gifts challenge and then gifted the book! Good things are happening all around me.
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A Must Read for Everyone

This is a great book for anyone. I read to my ill mom in spurts. She looks forward to every reading...
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29 gifts

OMG! If you need a present or just want to gift someone, choose this book. I read part of it at my support group and went home and ordered it, one for myself and seven more for my bookclub. It was my pick for the month of May, last year. I gave each person one and asked them to pass it on as their first gift. I've been doing the 29 gifts giving ever since. What a gift to myself. Don't just sit there, Order!